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writes:How relevant is it if a guy cups your face in his hand? Does that mean he has deep and loving feelings towards you? Or is that a side of physical attraction? Was he thinking about a kiss? I am talking about taking one hand and gently cupping a woman's cheek for a second or two. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2021): Hi
He sounds like he is creeping and using particular body language gestures to net you, almost like asking you to give yourself to him. I would watch out with this one and try and understand why you need to analyse this. Sounds like he is not supposed to be doing things like this with you and is married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2021): Doesn't have to mean anything. Don't read a lot into it. Your best bet is to just keep an eye on how he conducts himself. Is he a true gentleman, does he contain his temper, can he be trusted, does he reveal things openly about himself to you? Does he treat you with courtesy, kindness, and respect?
Cupping your face in a hand don't mean diddly, compared to all that! Try not to be too desperate or needy for affection. You'll fall prey to a player.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2021): I always used to think it was so sweet that my partner made a loving gesture that I thought was only for me - he used to lick his thumb and wipe away little smudges of make up under my eye.
Then, one day, out of the blue, came an email from a woman claiming to be 'the other woman'. She told me a whole lotta detail, all of which he subsequently tried to wriggle his way out of...
Problem (for him) was that she said, at the very end of her email, that he did this special thing that got to her every time...yep, you guessed it..."he would lick his thumb and...".
Don't look too deeply into this gesture. Men are often really not the mysterious creatures they seem and tend to just do the same thing to get to a woman when they know it worked on the woman before.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (16 May 2021):
 Does this guy have a wife/girlfriend/significant other? What about you? Are you in a relationship with someone else? If the answer to either of those questions is affirmative, then the answer to YOUR question is "it was inappropriate".
If, on the other hand, you are both free and single, then why not simply ask HIM what he meant by it? After all, he is the only one who knows the answer to that question. For the record, I doubt very much if it means "he has deep and loving feelings" towards you. It was more likely him trying to gauge YOUR feelings towards HIM or just plain and simple good old-fashioned flirting.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 May 2021):
 "shakes my magic 8 ball"
The answer is "hazy, try again".
There is no way any of us can determine WHY this guy made THIS choice at THAT particular moment.
No one but this man knows what he thinks when he does the things that he does.
I'd venture a guess and say no, I don't think the depth of his LOVE for you has anything to do with it.
It might just be "his thing" - his "romantic gesture". Maybe he liked to have some intense eye contact. After all, you can't get much closer and up personal than that, right?
It might be that he wanted to gauge YOUR "romantic response".
When this close and personal it's easy to see if your pupils dilate - which can be a sign of sexual attraction.
It's sounds kind of sweet, why not JUST enjoy it and try not to OVERTHINK it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2021): It's a sign of affection, Google it, there are articles on body language
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