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Archived questions from: September, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I had no idea he was married, broke it off but he's still acting like we are a couple

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

27 September 2020 (M) - I've been dating this guy, 38, for the past 18 months now; I'm 24 and live in Los Angeles. Only recently I've found out he was married. I didn't know, not one bit, that he was married. He's a Trump supporter, I'm not but we somehow made it w...

We dated he broke it off and now when he sees me he totally shuns me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1522 days ago

23 September 2020 (F) - A few months ago I went on a few dates with a man who then abruptly told me he didn’t want a relationship of any kind and seemed to disappear off the face of the earth. He works locally and I used to pass him regularly on the way to our respectiv...

My boyfriend lied to me now I have trust issues and wonder how many other times he might have lied

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1524 days ago

23 September 2020 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for just over a year. We had some minor bumps in the road - mostly him not understanding my love language but he always tried to understand me and we could talk anything out. He was always very patient and ...

How do I let go of anger? I dated a friend who ended things and told everyone it was my fault

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1523 days ago

23 September 2020 (F) - I have a male friend of a couple of years. About a year ago he told me he likes me as more than a friend and had done for a year. I liked him too so we started dating. He kept telling me how he sees a future with me and how much he likes me etc. ...

How long does it take to really move on from someone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

20 September 2020 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for five years. About two years ago, I had a fling with another guy. It was all flirty banter until it went too far and we slept together. I told my boyfriend and cut the man off. I told him I didn't want to lose my ...

Does holding resentment towards an ex means I haven't moved on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

18 September 2020 (F) - When we met online, we hit it off. we met in person and the connection and chemistry was undeniable. He stayed at my flat for 2 weeks.And he asked me to be exclusive but the problem is we live 4 hours apart. But he said we will make it work. When he ...

I can't move on because I keep thinking what if?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

16 September 2020 (F) - I dated this guy for a couple of months, we had amazing chemistry and got on really well however he ended things because he was recently out a long term relationship and he wasn't ready to commit to someone new. That was a while ago now and I'm ...

Dating a escort and need advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

16 September 2020 (M) - So I recently started dating a escort who I had seen a few times. We really hit it off well and I knew after the first visit it would be hard not to fall for her, come to find out she wad feelings for metoo just not quite as strong at the time. We ...

Do you think I should take this is a sign that he isn't that interested in me, or am I looking too deeply into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

16 September 2020 (F) - I have just started to get to know a guy. I really like him, however, he never initiates contact. He only texts me if I text him first. If I don't text him, I don't hear from him. Also, he takes a very long time to reply, sometimes an entire day. Do ...

How do I start and maintain a romantic relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1531 days ago

16 September 2020 (F) - Hi everyone Thanks in advance for your help! I just am not able to express my feelings through my actions I am a typical teenager but I tend to bottle up my feelings and then explode all of a sudden Also I seem to have no knowledge and the necessar...

If he is dating other women then what does he want from me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1514 days ago

14 September 2020 (F) - I was in an on again off again long distance relationship for 4 years. We were not together for more than 5 months before he would leave again. He said the relationship wasn't working out for him because he wanted a real life in person relationship. ...

My friend tried to kiss me knowing I have a boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1530 days ago

14 September 2020 (F) - I met with a guy friend over the week end for lunch. We hadn't seen each other for about 9 or so months but message each other maybe on average once a month. I have been in a relationship for 18 months and my friend knows this as I regularly talk...

He's the perfect guy who's been there for me in the darkest of times but why is he not making it official? Is he stringing me along?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1534 days ago

13 September 2020 (F) - Mid June i met the most amazing guy, he’s brought a lot of happiness and Comfort to me at a bad time. My mom was diagnosed with blood cancer around six months ago and shes has just been on a steady decline, shes been hospitalized weeks at a time and ...

How did you finally make the jump to get married? I'm terrified at the thought of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

13 September 2020 (F) - Should I get married now or wait? My fiancé and I have been together for 5 years we’ve been granted since 6 months after we met. I waited all this time to get married because I felt though I said yes to marrying him I wanted more time to see how ...

What do I do about the new girl in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1536 days ago

9 September 2020 (F) - Hello Aunts, Uncles, Everyone... This is my first time writing so I hope this is the right place and I apologise if it is not... I really want to try and be as balanced as I can... and be completely honest... I should really give y...

Could I get some views/insight into dating events and how they work? And also whether you think they're worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1543 days ago

6 September 2020 (F) - Hi All Please could I get some views/insight into dating events and how they work? And also whether you think they're worth it? I was thinking of trying it but since i'm the only one in my friends circle who's single, i'd be on my own! I u...

I'm not comfortable dating a woman who doesn't share my views on sex. Should I cancel the date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1542 days ago

4 September 2020 (M) - Dear cupid, I decided a long time ago to remain celibate until marriage. I am not religious, it's my upbringing. Sex outside marriage whether premarital or extra marital is taboo. I been talking to a woman who has shown interest in me, and decid...

Bf masturbated to his female friend, considering leaving him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1543 days ago

2 September 2020 (F) - my bf of 6 months has a hot female friend that posts sexy fb photos everyday showing her body and posts flirty comments on my bf's profile. they have been friends for a decade, still go out from time to time and are still in touch. they have never ...

My boyfriend made a rude remark about my new hobby. Should I get another hobby?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1544 days ago

2 September 2020 (F) - I am going riding with a motorcycle riding group. My boyfriend has encouraged me to get some hobbies I do on my own. I've always liked going on scenic drives on motorcycles. So I found this group. When I told my boyfriend about it, he said that ...

How do I meet men of my choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1548 days ago

1 September 2020 (F) - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he's not straightforward forward to me and since then have been left alone. I haven't meet any man of my choice since then. What can I do about that please?...