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writes:Hi AllPlease could I get some views/insight into dating events and how they work? And also whether you think they're worth it?I was thinking of trying it but since i'm the only one in my friends circle who's single, i'd be on my own!I understand at the moment, some events may not be running but i'm going to look into it anyway.Could I get opinions/info from anybody who has tried it? Ie how many people generally turn up? Do many go alone or do they always have a side kick? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2020): HiI worked for a dating agency back in the nineties when there was still a stigma about finding a partner this way.On Valentine's night, the boss and I hosted a Valentine evening, with a meal. Many tables were booked, I would say about 30 people showed up. Everyone that I knew of came on their own. The first course was served with lots of single people getting to know each other during their starter. Before the main course was served, everyone was switched around, so sitting next to new people. Same for the dessert. I enjoyed it immensely, lots of new people, good conversation, nice food. A different and fun way to spend the evening.I've always been a fan of attending events on my own. I have danced for 20 years and always go on my own. Unless I had a boyfriend. I've had offers to go with other women there, but I have always declined, preferring to fly solo. If you attend these type of events alone, it is my belief and indeed experience that you are more open to meeting others. Leave the other person or as I call them, life rafts at home! Everyone else will be single and probably have attended alone, so there's no need to feel uncomfortable. Good luck
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 September 2020):
 I think its a good way of meeting someone, and if you don't meet someone its a good way of meeting and making new friends.
I accompanied my friend to one in London a few years back. I thought it was not really my thing, but I went along anyway. As a consequence my friend never met anyone that night, but we both had a good time mingling and meeting new people.
I think had I gone on my own would have been ok, as it does not take long to get to know people and have a nice time. I think a majority of the people there went alone, so I think you would be fine.
Also speed dating events are an option too.
I'm not sure what is on at the moment or if things are even running so might be worth looking in to.
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