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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Boyfriend like swinging, me not so much. Will I be enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - The general dilemma is that my boy for three years likes to swing, or likes the idea of swinging. After a few times of play,.. I have realized that I am not so much. about 6 months after we started dating we looked into one of his previous "fu...

How to deal with the games she's playing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

31 May 2015 (M) - My gf, 23 ,of 6 months is playing hard to get by randomly saying she has a new bf shes known for two months. Shes been nice and not distant. Ive proven myself to her several times in which she acknowledged back then. I talked face to face to her ...

I do trust him, but I am uncomfortable with it. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. We have a great relationship. We communicate openly and generally its a very loving and honest relationship. He's visiting his family in the US. We both live in another country but ...

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...

How can I stop obsessing about what I did 18 months ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like some advice. I have a bit of a rumination problem, and have been a big over thinker since being a child. I am torn apart at the minute over guilt I am carrying from an incident that happened a year and a half ago. My par...

He's a drama queen and blows everything out of proportion. But how can I give him support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years. I have known him for almost 10. when we first got together, it was the beginning, that joy, we couldn't be stopped. Fast forward to now and I feel like I am going crazy. Needless t...

Want my ex boyfriend back but how. running out of ways

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Me and my ex have been broken up since April. I have tried all I can think of to get him back etc told him how I feel, asked him out again stopped being as needy. Alot of girls always try and flirt with him alot. I like him alot even though we was ...

My ex and I talk/text sexual things but he's got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My son's father and I are not together anymore. We haven't been for over a year. He's had another gf for about a year. I've been single since we ended things. About 6 months ago, he and I were talking and things started to go in a sexual ...

My boyfriend never wants to go anywhere or do anything with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Hey everyone I be been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years we used to every thing together and we always found something to do together. But now we do nothing at all. I always have to do things by myself because he never wants to leave this house ...

Why are women turned off by inexperienced men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Why does inexperience turn women off ? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, and sadly ...

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last...

Why does my boyfriend barely keep in touch while he is out of town? is it suspicious? It's upsetting.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is away for four days visiting his mother in California. We were together for the whole week before he left. We really bonded and had an amazing time together. Fast forward to the day after he gets to California. He emails to l...

He refuses to commit. what needs to change to make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I’ve been seeing a guy for around 7 months. We get on really well and we really like each other, but he refuses to commit. Things have been rocky from the start. When we first met he was still kind of involved with someone else. Even though sh...

Why is this happening? Anything I've said has sparked an argument this week.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been arguing since Monday and its now Saturday. I booked a week off from work to redecorate my room back home where I'll be moving back to in September. Early Monday when it came to me getting ready to leave, my boyfri...

He says he's been vaccinated for hepatitis B as his father has hepatitis B. Are my fears justified that I could catch it too, in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I've recently started seeing a man. We get along very well and I do hope to continue into something more serious with him. However when we were talking about our families he mentioned in passing his dad has hepatitis b and a weak liver. He said he ...

Should I message him? Did I put him off by being a bit aloof in my response to his slightly gushing message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Hello I met a man through mutual friends and he contacted me via Facebook to ask me to join him at an event. I said yes and we then spent the week before the event messaging each other every day - I suppose getting to know each other. He is ...

Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating? ok so I need some advice , so me and this guy have been talking for about eight months now but we are not officially together he and I both decided that until I moved then we ...

My boyfriend is tiring me out by following a routine that does not suit a young mother. What can I do to get him to realise this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone my problem is my boyfriend we have been together for nearly 3 year we have a 5 month old son together. He goes to work, finishes at 4 comes to mine at 6 for tea, goes home, and comes back when our son is asleep. By then I'm tired and go...

How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm s...

I feel vulnerable, does that make me selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - OK, I've been in a relationship for 6 months with my other half. I know it's not long but I do really care about him. Everything seems OK when we are together but I'm beginning to have cold feet. He is so blunt in his messages to me ( which he...

Big decisions. Do I stay in my comfort zone? Or should I take a chance with this job offer, despite my Bf's objections?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for seven years now (lived together for five years with his grandparents). I've been on a temporary contract with work for the past year, but I've just been offered a full time permanent position at a new company ...

The Art of Arguing. What helps you to resolve issues in your relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - There's a song by Ne-Yo that absolutely cracks me up now whenever I hear it. "When You're Mad" talks about how sexy it is when your partner gets angry and more than implies the joys and benefits of make-up sex! Deep within my nature, I do hav...

How do I get past this betrayal so that we emerge stronger as a couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - Hi all My boyfriend of 5 years was addicted to porn and because he was desensitized to average porn he signed up to ^^^ buddy websites for a different kind of thrill (real women) He didn't contact anyone on these sites or even fill in his ...

My boyfriend was acting grumpy/irritable towards me so I went home. Now he's even more upset! Ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I feel so aggravated right now. I hope someone can give me some advice.My boyfriend and I have been dating a year. We have our fun times but he can be quite a bear to deal with at times. Very moody. I chalk it up too him working a swing shift. I am ...

Is my BF jealous of this other guy who is also a dance instructor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - MY BF is a dance instructor. I used to dance in his class as a student. Now this other dance teacher took over his class who is male. My BF puts this guy down at every turn in front of me. Not sure why. Says the guy thinks he's all that but he ...

Am I right in thinking that maybe he doesn't have time for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - I'm a 26 year old woman in a relationship with a 30 year old man, who I've been with for almost a year. We are kinda long distance, we live two hours away from each other so only get to meet once, maybe twice a week. I was happy with this at first ...

Is there another approach to connect with women on a relationship level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3472 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - I've tried diffrent ways to connect with women, on a relationship leavel but I find so hard to connect with them. I've tried online but it doesn't work at at all. Its even more difficult to do this in person because the woman is always with a man, ...

Is it not as easy, as it seems, to get pregnant for some people? Anything else that could help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - My fiancé and I have been trying for a baby for 8 months now, in that time we've only conceived once but sadly that pregnancy ended in miscarriage a few months back. Recently we've been trying like rabbits to conceive again, in every position you ...

Man 1 fathered my son aged 2. Man 2 fathered my unborn child. Just broke up with Man 2. Should I accept offer from Man 2 to still see my 2 year old son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - So trying to cut it short. Pregnant with second child different man to first and first childs dad is not around. Been friends with this man 2 years together for 10 months .. My son is 2 and they get on well however since getting pregnant (un...

Do you think being set up on blind dates will help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

26 May 2015 (M) - im kinda shy guy....i cant talk to girls. i try and try but i fail. im not that social but the friends i have are very supporting and they are very good to me....like me n my friends have a strong bond. im cool to talk to my female friends but not ...

Boyfriend accuses me of being jealous of his niece and blows up at me. Am I wrong to be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years with a really nice guy. It just seems that I am in limbo. When I ask if we have a future together his response is yes, nothing else. I’ve even asked if I have been wasting his and my time for these ye...

With dating, how do you keep yourself from becoming jaded?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (M) - At the end of yet another failed relationship, dating situation, whatever, how do you guys keep yourself from becoming jaded? I've dated quite a few women. Some relationships were great and fun, others were awful. About 2 years ago, I got myself i...

Ex boyfriend wants to be back in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - My ex and I have broken up for 3mths. We would tak every now and then but not much. He would initiate all contact. The breakup was pretty crazy as I wasnt ready to accept it and kept tryin to fix it, til one day, I just stopped. He told me he ...

My boyfriend had time to shoot some golf balls but no time to see me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I am very upset at my boyfriend of 2 years. I am hoping you can tell me if you think I am justified or being unreasonable. He thinks I am being unreasonable. We see each other certain days every week due to different schedules. On one...

He has disappeared with only a note 'I love you and want to be with you'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Please help, I'm going through a really tough time. My boyfriend and I have been together only four months or so, and it has been a bit of a roller coaster. It's the first time both of us have opened ourselves up to ...

He likes to show me affection but shuts me off when I do the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I have been friends with this man for 3 years. We met online and gradually become really close friends. When we become friends, he was living a 1000 miles away from my city, now, he moved to my city, living only a mile away from my home. We meet ...

We never have sex and fight all the time, why am I with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear readers, I really don't know where to start from because the situation is quite complicated. Let me say in end of 2013 after a nasty break up, I met a guy 2 years older than me ( he is 27years now) and completely feel in love. We spent time ...

I feel like there are 4 in this relationship..me, him and his parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hi I''d like some impartial advice on whether I'm over-reacting and getting ahead of myself and secondly how I deal with the situation. My partner and I have been together a year and a half, he's nearly 10 years older than I am so we've moved fa...

Did I mess up asking for a second date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

26 May 2015 (M) - I'm a 30 year old man and I recently went out on a first date with a 34 year old woman. I had a great time. The next morning, I need to leave to teach a day long rock climbing course (i.e., no cell coverage) and I text her beforehand to say that I ...

Does this guy deserve another chance? I cut him off and now I miss him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Ok so I use to talk to this guy very heavy, and we were very close into making us official. But along the way he tells me that he just got into a relationship with someone else. So I took it upon myself to just go off on him, and make him feel bad. ...

I told my boyfriend I was seeing someone else while he's in jail but now I regret telling him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I was dating long distance my boyfriend for over 10 years he ended up going to jail for three years i have always been here for him.... I love him but unfortunately i met this guy and starting seeing him....the thing is i was stupid enough to call ...

I am being incredibly unreasonable - How Do I FIX THIS??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Been dating for 2 months. In this time we've most probably seen each other over 20 times - it is moving fast but only due to a time limit we have. Anyway, things having been so great! Until on the weekend. I messaged him on how his day (it was ...

Should I date my best friend, who is also my colleague?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3473 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - A new guy started working with me a year ago. He is the level above me and more qualified (im training to gain the same qualifications). Over the last year he has become one of my best friends. Hes great company and we get on unbelieveably well. He ...

Do we have a chance of making this relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are both introverts and both don't find it easy opening up to other people. A few days ago, we woke up one morning and unexpectedly from nowhere he said he wanted to talk about our rela...

Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...

Boyfriend of 10 years wants kids and I don't

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over ten years and everything is great - I love him and I know he loves me. But the problem is that he wants kids and I don't. We started dating when we were teenagers so it really wasn't an issue ...

I like her, my friend likes her and she's with someone else. Do I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - So it's the end of my first year at university and I realise that I like this girl on my course. She's a year younger than me, but I deferred last year to take some time out and do other things. I've only known her for about five months. The othe...

Did he think I wasn't interested or is he playing hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3474 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope you could help me and advise me on what to do in this situation. Sorry this is really long so thank you for reading. There is this guy who use to work near me and I had left the job without his knowledge and we didn't get ...

Dad hasn't changed at all and won't let me live my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - Hello. I am highly stressed out because my dad doesn't want me to have a boyfriend or move out of the house. EVER. Although, he HAS MET my boyfriend last year and I have been with this guy for three years. I am 18. My dad thinks my grades would go ...

He is immature doesn't want commitment and told me to find someone else. Do I just move on then?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I'm a girl who is pretty and independent. I've come a long way to U.S to pursue my dreams.I never had a relationship as I was too much into a one sided relationship for 7 years hoping that one day it would turn into love which never happened. I ...