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writes:I've tried diffrent ways to connect with women, on a relationship leavel but I find so hard to connect with them. I've tried online but it doesn't work at at all. Its even more difficult to do this in person because the woman is always with a man, and it's best not approach a woman with a man at at. I was wondering is there another approach that I seem to be missing? Reply to this Question
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reader, SouthernHuman  +, writes (27 May 2015):
Somet human connections are simple and instantaneous - and that's the worst. Then you think all relationships should be quick and easy.
Relationships are like dinner:
Fast food is quick, cheap, easy, tastes bad, and forgettable, if not regrettable.
Buying groceries and following a recipe takes time, attention, effort, but the meal tastes better and the experience is more rewarding.
Find safe, friendship-oriented opportunities to interact with women. Over time you will either end up friends with them or you'll find there is no connection and you can move on.
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