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writes:ok im 15 and im kinda torn between two guys.lets start with guy number 1:fine i know that guy since last year and we really hit it off and he really liked me back we used to flirt 24/7 and then suddenly we stopped talking [we dont even know why-we didnt even fight] and that really hurt me cause for a year after that i kept having a crush on him and wondering why did we stop talking is there something wrong with me? for making him stop talking to me and started being so cold?.now last week i was talking to my best friend and she wished me a happy birthday and next thing i know she says "oh and *guy number 1* is next to me and he says have a happy birthday and i love you"i didnt answer i just said thank you. :S i was shocked. now i think he was probably fooling or joking around with me? probably im confused ahaha.now lets go to number 2:ok this guy i know since 8th grade now i really like him cause we have so much in common and he's pretty cute lol. the problem is im pretty paranoid about what he thinks with me cause im pretty sure he used to make fun of me and stuff like that but recently he really showed signs of affection and all my friends say he likes me alot too. but im scared im wasting my time if he's fooling around with me or seeing me just as a friend .help which guy should i "choose" and how do i make the first move with him?
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (2 November 2007):
 Ok lets start with guy number two. Maybe he did make fun of you but people can change and maybe saw that he would rather be with you than make fun of you.
Number 1 hmm, well the happy birthday is something that came from your friend so there is no gaurentee that he actually said that so i would think too much of that.
Why he stopped talking to you is a bit of a puzzel, maybe he was getting earache from someone else maybe his friends for comuting with you.
They both sound like really nice guys (these are hard to come by now a days too)
So which one do you wake up and go to sleep thinking about? Which one has the most impression on you. They may seem equal to in a way but there will be that one thing that makes the other stand out more. You need to find that.
People live by trial and error and you never know what may happen unitl you try it.
Dont try and date both at the same time however that is a major no no .
Live life the way you see it fit for you and have fun while you are still young.
Good luck
Peaches
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reader, mememe87 +, writes (2 November 2007):
I think you should go for it with guy 2. if guy 1 really liked you he would not play with your head like that. and as for making the 1st move you should tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same. simple as that really
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