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writes:i love my boyfriend very much but he doesnt seem as serious as me and i dont wanna make a fool of my self by acting all lovie dovie. what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anjali kumar  +, writes (26 November 2008):
Bless you... there are plenty of ways of establishing if he is serious about you... they way he is around you, his actions (if he acts on what he says), the efforts he makes, if he takes interest in what you are saying, noticing if something is up with you by the tone of your voice, generally how he makes you feel.... i know its difficult to tell at times and you have no choice but to study into it... if you feel that you are making more of the effort into your relationship, then take a step back and think that relationships are about give and take... you gave him your time, affection, love, care etc... its his turn to do the same for you.Trust me, i was in the same boat, i took a step back but still showed interest, and then he realised that hang on min.... why hasnt she called me back yet? then tables turned and things got better... remember NOT to get too attached... leads to nothing but pain! good luck and dont stress yourself... relax and make time for self... ThanksAnj
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): Sometimes it's worth to ask.
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