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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

He says he has a flirty personality. Why is he giving me mixed signals? Could it be that he's scared to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Bear with me, this is a little long but he's giving mixed signals, Yesterday I had a date with the his guy, he picked me up, bought me coffee, we had a great time and he messaged me later that afternoon and we talked for an hour or so. Today,...

I'm dating my married step uncle...help? I need advice on what to do, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Ok hi. Completely new at this. So to get right to the point. I'm dating my step uncle so (my mothers step mums son) so not. Definitely not blood related. He is married (not separated) tho like typical situations (is going to get a device an...

What can I do? I just can't handle watching her love someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - my ex-best friend / ex-lover and i had a very complicated 7 year bisexual relationship. I was her shameful secret and i always felt rejected, used and humiliated. she treated me bad and always flaunted different relationships she had with others ...

The question is, should I tell the lady how I feel after we've had 5 months apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

31 October 2015 (M) - The question is, should I tell the lady how I feel after we've had 5 months apart? All night having a good time with everyone, celebrating my ex's PhD which she achieved today. (ABC) ABC says things that stay with me "I missed my chance" - "This was ...

No matter what I do, the face of this other guy keeps on intruding into my thoughts. How can I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I choose to figure out what went wrong with my marriage that had led me to have an emotional affair with this guy, other than the fact that my husband and I are incompatible. I'd like to believe that I had actually loved him and that I still ca...

No contact since our breakup. Could we date again? And what does kissing on the ear mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi I had a boyfriend who kissed my ear the first time he kissed me. He was so concentrated on my right ear with his tongue participating mostly. We broke up after i found out he had a girlfriend somewhere else and was dating us both. Though he doe...

What can I do? I want to kiss him but I'm scared of getting hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I have this friend of mine and we've been close for some time. I went to see him some time last year and then we had our first kiss but i didnt want to go further cos i was dating at that time. Now am single again and i went to see, in the cour...

Newly single, confused and need help! Does it sound like he has any interest in me outside of friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi all, I'm newly single and had been in a 10 year relationship since I was 18. I'm the first to admit that I'm not sure what I'm doing when it comes to men as I haven't dated my entire adult life. I recently met a man whilst on a business t...

Both teachers have a crush on me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

28 October 2015 (M) - First I want to say this is an adult's language school, so everybody is over 18. As part of my university degree I'm studying abroad at a Spanish language school. Somehow both teachers there have a crush on me, strong enough for all the students...

How on earth do I bring this crush under control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - I am obsessed with my uni lecturer! Infatuated, and cannot stop thinking about him! This is very embarrassing for me to admit because I am almost 30 and have been in a relationship for 9 years. I am sure my lecturer must realise how I feel...

I do not want to be hurt again by my first love. Any words of wisdom, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - I have not long met up again with my first love. It was passionate buthe ended up really hurting me. We separated for over 20yrs and I have a grown family. We linked again a few months ago and the chemistry was still there. A few months later be...

What are the chances of us getting closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3337 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - I have befriended a guy on Facebook who was at a show I was at a few weeks back and I managed to track him down. He has a lot of followers and regularly posts pictures and articles on Facebook - but we live at opposite ends of the country so it's ...

I don't like lying to my parents but they don't give me much independence

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts, I am 17 in 3 months and I feel like my parents kind of treat me like a kid. Its like this : Whenever I want to go out, I would tell them where I'm going and tell them who I am with. BUT, they would never let me walk on my own to meet ...

I have a crush on my boss. Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

20 October 2015 (F) - So I have a crush on my boss and I have this feeling he has it too.Signs-His eyes shine when he talks to me.Whenever he is around me,he tries to look at me.His friends at work are sweet to me.I have come to this new company unfortunately with ...

Guy keeps staring at me and holds his gaze. Does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - There is a guy at my uni that keeps staring at me for a long time. During the lesson, he would turn his face at me and stares at me, andhe ddoesn't look away when I catch him staring at me, he would turn his face after 10 seconds and then he ...

Why he does not stop taking to this girl who is married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years and we have a child together. He recently turn 30 and it was very hard for him. I am a year younger than him. He recently met this girl who was not married when he met her she was engaged and was ...

Checkout confusion - flirting or just friendly customer service?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

15 October 2015 (F) - There's a cute cashier at the grocery store I frequent in my town. It has been a LONG time since I dated or even really flirted with anyone and I'm not sure how I'd signal my interest to someone I don't know that well or only in a "profess...

There's a connection but how do I keep this this dynamic on a track towards a successful business relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

15 October 2015 (F) - I met this guy last winter. It was clear that we both had an instant connection to each other, but we were both in the middle of failed marriages, so we did not pursue anything. Instead, we started collaborating on work related projects. (Each of ...

How do I get to know him better and get him to ask for my number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - So this new guy at my job is really nice and really attractive. I've started having little conversations with him. But how do I start getting to know him more to the point where we exchange numbers. I don't see him that long because when I go into ...

Does this virgo guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - The story is he used to like me a few years ago and I turned him down because I was seeing somebody then, and he said he was gay. Fast forward a few years now I like him and I told him, when I told him he said we would talk about it but we never di...

I've met a new girl but still have feelings for the other girl, and I don't want to be that guy. Advice on how to decide who to pursue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

13 October 2015 (M) - I was seeing this girl recently and we've slept together and kissed etc but the we sort of said lets just be friends cause we were arguing. so we did just that and then a girl started talking to me and we were getting along so we exchanged numbers ...

Five years together. Am I just staying with him because I'm scared to be alone? Or are my doubts due to the other guy's crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - Hi, it's been a while. I have been with the same guy for going on five years now... In those five years we have split up (once) for a period of about three months. We have been back together since last October, so for about a year now... That b...

I had a crush on her now I get annoyed if she looks at me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

11 October 2015 (M) - Hello, First and foremost, thank you for the responses in advance. There is this girl at my gym that's been coming there for some time now. We caught each other's attention, sometimes we would just start looking at each other at the sam...

Is it wrong or illegal to pursue a relationship with a teacher at my child's school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - Please can some one help me. I have fallen in love with a teacher who works at the school my children attend,and i was wondering is there a law that States a teacher cannot have a relationship with a parent? He has feelings for me too but he is sc...

Why do I obsess over particular guys so easily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - Hello there!! Well basically I'm a 22 year old girl who only had like 2 very short and non serious relationships in her past, and therefore as one would assume my confidence level and self esteem is way way low. Soo..in order to try and help mys...

Did I assume too much about her? What's my next move?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

8 October 2015 (M) - I came back tonight from work a bit disappointed. This is the situation. I work at a job that haves a cafe and the connection between me and one of the girls there is strong. She stumbles every time I am there and acts nervous when I apporoah her ...

How can I get this other guy (''Dave'') to talk to me more? While also discouraging the other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3362 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm looking for some advice on boys. I have begun college and have started late so the others have already made friends. My course has a higher percentage of boys to girls. One of the boys has started messaging me on Facebook and I have r...

Crush acting hot and cold. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - dear love cupid, i have a crush on a guy in my school. he's quite nice to me sometimes but he also love to tease in a kinda hurtful ways. there was a time when we were making our school project in one of my friends home. i accidentally wounded my ...

Is he ghosting me and I should just move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - This is gonna sound ridiculously teenagerish but I was talking to this 27 year old for the last three months. Our conversations started out friendly and they escalated on his side to flirting to the point where he was inviting me over to come ove...

He hasn't said a word to me in a week, I miss talking to him, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - Our friends told me that the guy I like drunkenly told them he liked me but since then he hasn't said a word to me and seems to be actively going out his way to avoid me has he decided he doesn't like me what do I do it's been a week now and I miss ...

I'm frustrated, hopeful and yearning for more! Help? Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

6 October 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 46 year old gay male. I've developed a relationship with a 20 year old straight male (friends only) that lives across the street,that seems to be heading into a more than friends relationship. I've had a huge crush on him from the...

Does he like me? I am not sure. But I really like him. So what can I say to him to advance things further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - Hi I am a very shy person. I blush quite easily, I went on a second date with a guy who I really like, however I'm quite a quiet person so I don't think he's very interested in me. He messaged me the day after we met saying 'it was nice to see ...

A little crush has led to me actually liking him and I don't know how to make a move. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - Ok so last week one of my housemates who I have a small crush on got quite drunk and started to call me to help him from his room. When I got there he was sat on his chair opposite his sink and basically preparing to vomit. He then motioned fo...

He booked tickets to come visit me, but I don't want him to visit me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - I was traveling Western Europe for a month with a friend and when we were in Lisbon, we stayed at the same hostel for about 3 nights. I got to know one of the guys from the reception, we were making out one evening (me intoxicated), and the next...

Why do guys say romantic things, just to dump you into the friend-zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - Aunts, This guy I've been dating admittedly not very long, little over a month, just told me tonight that basically I'm in the friend zone. I'm annoyed because he says things like I like you more and more everyday and he sent me a sweet card abo...

Tips on making a good impression on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

1 October 2015 (M) - Dear friends Firstly, english is not my first language, so forgive my errors. I would like some advice regarding meeting with a friend of mine. I have not known this girl long, and we agreed to meet up so i can guide her around this city, she...