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writes:So this new guy at my job is really nice and really attractive. I've started having little conversations with him. But how do I start getting to know him more to the point where we exchange numbers. I don't see him that long because when I go into work he leaves so we only have about 20 minutes. But how can I get to know him or get him to ask for my number? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 October 2015):
 "Hey, I was thinking about you last night! Remember we talked about that band/job/politician/restaurant/workout? I saw the funniest article/post/review/discussion/meme about it! I'll send it to you if you'd like." *sweet smile*
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (14 October 2015):
20 minutes in a long time :) You can ask a lot of questions in 20 mins. :)
Such as...find out if he is single...if he is...find out his hobbies, movies he likes. Pick a scary movie and let him know how scared you get, and hopefully he does not mind you holding on to his arm during the scary parts. Would he like to go with you, and oh...here is my number so we can plan it out.
Guys are very simple. You give us the right invitation and we will accept :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2015): Awww is tricky! I'm in a similar position as I really like a guy at church. Have spoken to him a few occasions now and he recently sent me something of interest to my e mail, but that's all, no numbers have been exchanged and he was pretty formal on the email and have heard nothing since. So it is hard. I'd just casually drop into the conversation that you fancy a drink after work as been a long say or something and does he fancy joining you?! Maybe start there perhaps invite a couple others or you could pretend you're meeting a friend and pretend she didn't show up or something so that leaves just the two of you. Men need big hints they are pretty stupid so you might have to take the bull by the horns here and be brave! I'm not in a position to do that myself as in chruch circles its kind of a trdition to let the guy make the move but maybe I could re think this!
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