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writes:Ok so last week one of my housemates who I have a small crush on got quite drunk and started to call me to help him from his room. When I got there he was sat on his chair opposite his sink and basically preparing to vomit.He then motioned for me to sit on his lap and keep telling me how he thought I was so beautiful and cool between vomiting whilst I stroked his hair. He then kissed me but it was short lived due the fact I was scared he'd be sick in my mouth. After this I put him to bed and left to go back to my room as I had to be up early.A bit later I heard him get up and start to tell other people what a great person I was so I got up and put him to bed again, I was about to leave when he looked all sad and asked me if I could stay and cuddle with him. So I did and left his room silently early in the morning so he could sleep.The next evening we cuddled again but in trying to get comfy I moved my leg over his body and he sort of straightened my up so I was straddling him which seemed to freak him out because he thought that I was trying to have sex and he sort of said not tonight maybe another time to which I reassured him I wasn't trying to have sex and we both went to sleep.Now the next night the whole flat went out to a club and lots of guys were trying to grind on me to which one of my housemates would pull me out the way of and deposit me somewhere else in the circle which I appreciated, then one of my housemates pulled me aside and asked me what I thought of (for all intents and purposes lets call him vomit cuddle guy) vomit cuddle guy to which I sort of shrugged and said he was a nice guy. Anyway later on he had left and I was with a couple of my housemates (not the ones who I originally heard him tell what a great person I was) who said that they had something to tell me, they sort of sat me down and told me that vomit cuddle guy had told them drunkenly that he thought I was beautiful and perfect and from that they inferred he liked me.However since that night at the club a few days ago he hasn't said a word to me and I don't know where I stand with him because what started as a little crush has lead to me actually liking him and I don't know how to make a move.However
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2015): You fancy a drunk man who wants to snog with inbetween sick sessions? He's got more problems then your'e average sort - he has you crushing on him , no wonder he's gone quiet. He just wants to be able to drink and get sick in his privacy and not have to behave like a GF would expect. Find another crush and get to know him better.
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reader, Blod +, writes (5 October 2015):
 You must really like vomit cuddle guy!
I don't think you need to worry too much about asking him out - he should jump at the chance! And I think it does make sense for you to ask him out to find our how much you genuinely like this guy - it's easy for a crush to be blown out of proportion once you know they're interested in you.
The best thing would probably be to ask him if he'd like to meet up, just the two of you and ideally no alcohol! Whether you ask in person or send a message, it's up to you. Just keep it simple, go wherever you feel like going so that you can get to know each other a little better without your flatmates interfering.
To be honest, he's probably not sure where he stands with you either. He's told others around you how he feels and must know it's got back to you. He may well be a bit embarrassed or worried that you don't feel the same given the whole vomiting scenario!
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2015): Anyone who could like or love vomit guy deserves a medal.It is most peoples worst nightmare.Having a drunken idiot trying to kiss you before he vomits all over you or in your mouth is about as bad as it can get bar being forcibly raped.Most wo.en would never want to breathe the same air as him so i think you need o tone down your feelings and read him the riot act if you dont want him to think you are a serious pushover.Try telling him that the night he was drunk he totally disgusted you and hou only stayed to make sure that he didnt choke on his own tongue or vomit.Tell him you'd have done it for your brother if you had one but it is not something ou ever plan to do again.Thdn say that as that night was so hideoud he iwes it to you to wipe that memory from your brain firever and think f some decent forfeit.I dont think a meal out would be a good idea so perhaps you can suggest a visit to the cinema or fairgrounf.After all youve seen him throwing up already so what vould go wrong.For myself i would chose something that had no connection to vomit at all...zomething like him paying to take you for ten pin bowling or tickets to see your favourite band.So.e would say those early memories are zo ghastly that they would run a mike,but giving him the benefit of the doubt and that he got drastically drunk because he didnt have the guts to ask you out, then i would think of fun things only and take your time before you put out to him.You run the risk of being known as vomit girl!x
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