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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How do I get out of this planned weekend getaway? I've decided I don't trust him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - Hi i was seeing soneone 2 yrs ago and he started seeing someone else. He denied it and lied left right and centre then he got her pregnant. During all this time he hasnt let go of me. I told him i was not prepared to be a bit on rhe side. Now they ...

How else do I show my long distance cheating girlfriend that I love her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2605 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - I am in a complicated relationship with my girlfriend. We both have a distance between us which has affected our relationship . I found out a few weeks ago that she had been sleeping with her ex gf which made me very upset. She opplpgised to me and ...

Is she hiding something or cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

26 September 2017 (M) - Before I get started let me just say that women have the right to enjoy sex as much as men. I'm not a sexist person and raised a Young lady on my own. I met my high school sweet heart after 30 years of no contact. We had sex later that evening. We ...

I know I could have an amazing life with mistress but don't want to hurt my wife and children

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2591 days ago

25 September 2017 (M) - Hi. I am really confused and need advice. Here goes with a bit of background and my position. I am an almost 49 year old man and have been married for almost 25 years.we have 3 Kids.one of which has now left home. My wife gave up work 17 years ag...

My boyfriend has a new friend & he seems to care more about their relationship than ours.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2590 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship for five years, and cheating has never been something I was concerned about. But about six months ago my boyfriend made a new friend through a club at colleg, and they became close friends real quickly. They talk all the ...

I dated one guy, then his cousin and am now going back to the first man because his cousin was a cheater and a liar

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - Im a 25 year old female. I was dating A from 2006-2009 , then communication got lost between me and him , so in 2012 i got close to B which resulted in me dating with B. A and B are cousins. I stayed with B for a period of 1 month and i discovered...

He was still receiving photos from his ex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - So I found out that my boyfriend of 9 months still received pictures from his ex. He knew that it bothers me everytime she send texts, call or send selfie pictures. However, I do understand that my bf has no control of what his ex is sending him. ...

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another ...

Is this something I can fix by correcting a few actions in our relationship? Do I give her space and trust that she will end up with me? What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

20 September 2017 (M) - My gf of 1.5 years recently told me that she likes a guy from work as as more than friends but is unsure about what to do. She said she loves me and she doesn't love him because it is too early to tell. She said she recognizes that it is unfair to ...

Do gay men get asked about oral sex by straight men often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

20 September 2017 (M) - Been with my new girlfriend for eight months,she gets off a couple times in a half hour, myself she wishes I would,but I don't get off that easy, the sex is real good, I've try to last a lot longer all my life , a quickly is a half hour or so, if I ...

I want to marry this woman and find it hard to let her go! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

18 September 2017 (?) - Help help help. In a previous column I told everyone about how my x dumped me after 3 1/2 years by text. I also found that she had a dating profile. We talked on the phone. She says she feels like a horrible person for what she did and we had long ...

She has bruises and I think she's cheating with the Baby Daddy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

18 September 2017 (M) - My lady gets mad couse I pointed out two bruises on her back she didn't have before last time we had sex was 5 days ago she takes of one morning to school with baby Dady for conference metting regarding son school I find her on find I phone she ...

My girlfriend wanted an open relationship but I can't cope with it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - I'm struggling with the pain and shock involved in starting an open relationship. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months. Recently we agreed to open the relationship and allow each other to have sex with other people. She's the one wh...

My girlfriend wont cut ties with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - This might be a bit long. After a few relationships, i decided to try and get together with a girl recommended to me by my friend's girlfriend. I'll call her Agnes. This happened great, especially the first 3/4 months - we had our issues to ir...

Her messaging with a guy makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

12 September 2017 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend of 7 years has been talking to a guy on and off for about 3 years now, I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with it and I get mixed responses. One time she said if you don't like me talking to **** Ill stop, I don't want to hurt you...

I think I'd be better off just blocking him from my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - I was recently away on a holiday with a load of other people. I am gay and everyone knows this and am 38 yrs old. Whilst we were away a younger 23 yr old was being friendly with me and then hinted he wanted to come up to chat in my room. Anyhow ...

I'm on the verge of having an affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am about to start an affair, I'm 30 year old woman, in along term relationship. I've been married for so many years and we have 2 children. I have a stable life, extremely loving husband, too loving he doesn't get the concept ...

She says she will leave him for me, but wont say when!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

8 September 2017 (M) - I need some advice. I know that what I am about to say isn’t the best situation or the moral thing to get involved in, but it just happens. Now i fell in love and I don’t know what to do. There are so many parts to this story and I will try to keep ...

I'm tired of being the other woman and need to break things off but how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

7 September 2017 (F) - I once met a guy that by just shaking hands with, I forgot my existence, I don't know why or how but before even knowing his name I felt something so strong inside me that made my legs weak. Anyways, I got to know him and you know the rest, I fell ...

My girlfriend broke up with me but now wants back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks back but couldn't give me a reason for wanting out. We have been in a gay relationship together for 5 years with many ups and downs and this was just another time of her saying she didn't want the relation...

My boyfriend has just confessed that he slept with someone else

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - I'm after some advice, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. I have never doubted our trust or believe he has ever done anything to jeopardise our relationship. Well that's what I thought until this Wednesday he called me down the...

What's the future for me as the other woman?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

2 September 2017 (F) - I am in a relationship with a wonderful man who I love and he loves me. We are very happy however I am "the other woman", even though our relationship is serious and we've been together for like 3 years, because he's cheated on his current/previous ...

My married male co-worker alternates between friendly and cold

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

1 September 2017 (F) - I want to ask for help and I hope I can write this to get advice and not judgement as in my heart I don't plan to sin. I work as a nurse and I just started at a new hospital. On my team is another male nurse that work with that is married. Since I ...