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writes:Im a 25 year old female.I was dating A from 2006-2009 , then communication got lost between me and him , so in 2012 i got close to B which resulted in me dating with B.A and B are cousins.I stayed with B for a period of 1 month and i discovered that he is a liar,a thief and a cheater.So i dumped B , and i saw myself getting back together again with A.Whats your view and opinion on this?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 September 2017):
 Personally I would not be hoping from cousin to cousin, but it is your choice and up to you how you live your life.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (23 September 2017):
 Do you only know two men? Why did you split up with A? If the reason is still valid, going back to him will only waste more of your time and his and inevitably end up in you splitting up again.
There is nothing wrong with dating cousins but there is definitely something sad about going back to someone you have already dated because someone else turned out to be a bad bet. Are you seeking comfort from someone familiar? What will happen once you no longer need that comfort?
Perhaps it is time to dump this family altogether and find someone completely new?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2017): Are you trying to create some kind of rift between the two cousins or what? Are you being spiteful thinking you're rubbing B's nose in the fact you went back to A? Because they are related? That's just a little weird.
If drama is your motive, or some sort of trouble; it might all blow-up in your face. Sometimes relatives side with their kinship, and kick trouble-making outsiders to the curb. It doesn't matter what his cousin did, they share DNA. I only advise you not to try and turn them against each other. They'll figure it out, and you might get dumped!
I hope things workout if you actually love A; and you're not just being vindictive.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (23 September 2017):
 It's your life. You make the decisions. The reasons you left A will still be there for you to deal with now you have gone back to him. It can also get awkward with family so you need to watch out for added conflict.
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