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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

My husband wants to have sex with other women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - hi friends i have a problem that my husband is very much interested in sex. he also wants to have sex with other women. he loves me, he takes care of me every time but he tells that this is his weakness. oneday i told that i will go away if he do...

How do I explain to him how he's hurting me without making him angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been engaged for 9 months. We started off hot and heavy, and then we kind of petered out into what I thought was a normal functioning relationship. we moved in together in my parents house 3 months after getting engaged ...

I want to give him another chance, but I feel like I deserve better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I was dating this guy for a little more than a year. One night he got really drunk and hooked up with 8 girls in one night! I couldnt believe it. He was my first love. I became so depressed and on top of that he never called me the day after, ...

Do I tell her or keep it to myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - Another Best Friends Wife Story... So my best friend got married to a wonderful girl about three years ago. She has been a very good friend of mine as well. I have been attracted to her throughout their relationship but very easily kept thin...

Did that cheater truly love me, even for a moment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I found out that my ex-bf has been two-timing me throughout the 3mths29days that we've been together. He has another long time gf of 17mths. This secret of his was exposed on the day when I happen to be in the same place as that couple. 3 of us ...

Gaining your lover's trust back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Ok so you lost your partners trust… whether it may be resulted from cheating or lying, it's gone from you now. I have plenty of experience in this topic for I have been through it myself and I was the one who lost trust for my partner. Once you lose ...

My ex girlfriend accused me of cheating and now wants me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I am a gay girl. I met a girl a year ago whom I really liked. It was supposed to be only a ONS, but we agreed to go on a date after she returns from holidays. The date only materialized few months afterwards, on my instigation. However aft...

How do I leave my husband so I can have a happy life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - We have been married for 5 yrs now. My husband never flirts with me nor he never takes me out. We always have sex but we have never made love. My husband has got lots of cyber relationships which i have lost count of. Each time i find out we have a ...

I felt lonely because he was committed to another woman so I slept with another man. Is there a chance he will come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - last year i was deeply in love with a guy whom it was love at first sight, he jumped when i ordered him to and didnt ask how high. we did so many things together and he even broke my virginity. our relationship was starting to be serious, we even ...

I feel like he is using my lies as a way out of our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - So i met this guy online. and he and I have talked for over a year now. we got to the point where I loved him and he loved me, and we never hid that. we'd say "i love you" quite often. Im from the states and he from Canada. Im 20 and he's 33. the ...

My husband cheated whilst we were engaged and had a baby with this other woman, how do I accept the child in my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I've been married for 3yrs now and I'm not happy. My husband cheated on me while were engaged and 6 months later after we got married I found out that his girlfriend had just given birth to a baby boy. This came as shock to me, I was hurt so bad and ...

I'm in love with a woman I cannot have. Help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I'm in love with a woman I can't have. I'm married. She just got married. We work together. I don't want to ruin my kid's lives. I have not done anything physical with this woman and in fact we have barely even talked about it. But we both kno...

Is talking on chat lines a form of cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - my husband has recently been talking on this chat line invu, he stay up all night talking to women about things that are inappropriate,i have talked to him about it and he is staying on it. he say it isn't cheating because it is not real, I think it ...

I feel like I am competing for attention with her online guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I recently posted pertaining to my ex girlfriend who I have been hanging out once again after a 5 year hiatus. Here is a piece of it: "She communicates online daily with a guy she used to be CRAZY about back in college 6 years ago. I mean CRAZ...