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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Will she forgive me and date me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My ex gf had sex with another guy while we were dating. When I found out I called her a whore. I was hurt bad. I felt like I was justified at the time for callin her that but now I know I wasn't. We havn't talked in almost a month. I want her back. ...

I am in love with a married woman. What can we do about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - been married for 14 years have 2 beautiful kids but i'm not in love with my wife anymore i'm in love with another women who is also married 20 years. went to school and graduated with this women her marriage is bad also she is not happy we want to ...

Should I give him time? Or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - please read this although its long i really need someone to help me. i was with my boyfriend for three years, ten months into the relationship he cheated on me, it lasted for three weeks until i found out. we stayed together, and his cheati...

He backed off after I told him the truth about my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I met somebody about 8 months ago, he seemed to be a really genuine guy with good morals and lots of ambition like me and I really thought it could go somewhere. We had several dates and was all going well only I made the mistake of admitting I had ...

His cheating has left me feeling so insecure...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Ok this is a little confusing but here goes... I am 6 months pregnant and really don't enjoy having sex. My partner cheated on me before, and I'm worried he will do it again if we stop having sex. I've spoken to him about it and he said that...

Is there anything I can do to win her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Three months ago I took a trip to my hometown of Palm Springs California. I moved away four years ago and I had to leave in my senior year in high-school and moved to Bakersfield California finishing my senior year at Liberty High School. Back when ...

Does she think she is not worthy of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - my ex gf cheated on me and then broke up with me the next day. She didnt tell me til about a month later and said that was the reason she broke up with me. She said she felt guilty. I forgave her and we remained friends. We even discussed hangin out ...

Should I have an affair on my husband?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Soon after getting married, my husband had an unfortunate incident where he became paralysed, resulting in us not being able to have a sex life. I love my husband dearly and I did not leave him. I look after him and attend to him the best way I ...

Do you think I should trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - my partner of 6yrs went on a night out for a big game so lot's of drink consumed and when the team won partying didnt stop.... he went to a female work colleagues house who lives in the opposite direction to our house with two others after a night ...

We had an affair together and he ended it. Why is he still calling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Please can I havw advice on how is is acting, should I give up on him. Met a guy, liked him, he got married, we then had affair for many years, he kept promising to leave the wife etc. He said he would get a place for us never did, was still li...

Why do I feel guilty about ending her emotional affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My wife had what I figure was an emotional affair a few years ago. There was a lot of texting. I don't think there was any physical contact and she came totally clean about it in the finish. It devastated me at the time and had a pretty bad affect ...

My husband cheated on me again while I was pregnant. Should I take him back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'm currently 9 months pregnant with my 3rd child. Around the 8th month of pregnancy I found out that my husband of almost 9 yrs was cheating on me with someone from another state (he's in the military and travels a lot). It sta...

Did he cheat with his child's mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - sorry to write such a long story. i believe my bf cheated on me with the baby momma on saturday, i phoned him late that nyt the lady picks up and said my bf was asleep and cant speak to him, i hang up.. he called me the following day to say that ...

Did I do the right thing by calling my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

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...but should I stay with him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - ok so ive been dating this guy for like a month and a couple days now and i think i really like him but like im not sure and usually wen i go over to his house his best friend is over there and me and my boyfriend got into an argument because ...

How do I deal with my unhappy marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - helo.im married for 8yrs now.i have 3 daughters with my husband.my husband was employed at first and in those days had many affairs with other women which resulted in him having two kids outside our marriage.we managed to work through all that and ...

I have cheated on my husband resulting in 3 abortions and now he wants a baby!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - its been 10 weeks since my abortion im trying for a baby but it keeps coming negative.iv had 3 abortions. Due to careless behind my hubbys back.but now my hubbys really desperate for a baby.please help....

I can help but think my boyfreind's ex is a better lover than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I've written here before, but I'm afraid I just can't get past it. I (20 years old) have been with my boyfriend (22 years old) for a little over nine months now. Everything is going fine, though we're both very busy holding down full-time jobs and ...