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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Should I listen to my heart or my head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I'd like some advice on how to get my heart to listen to my head, or whether I should carry on as I am. A month ago, I split up with my bf of 9 years. We were happy for 7 years, lived together for 5 years, but then split up in May 2008 when ...

I'm at a stand still with someone I love who doesn't know what she wants.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Well, I'm kind of at a stand still right now, and I need someones opinion. I'm 20, now ex girlfriend is 31, she is married, and has 2 kids, and says she loves her husband more than anything, unless they are in a fight. Her and I dated for 2 year...

Had his baby and I still can't get over his cheating. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years cheated on me i then found i was pregnant, we now have a 7mth old baby and i cant get past the cheating, he has alot of excuses the ones we hear all the time like it wasnt suppose to happen, it meant nothing etc... but ...

How can I get over being so controlling? Is it justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - This woman was my first real relationship. Real as In a person I could see myself marrying. I grew up with no father and my mom a abused me and ditched me. My best friend who was also a chick ditched me. And my first real girlfriend used me cheated ...

How do I fix this after cheating with her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - So the other night my brother and I decided to go drinking, we drank... heavily and set out (in a cab) to hit the bar. We get to the bar, hang out, life is good, we met some cool people. Now that being said, I woke up and a girl was leaving...

To get attention do guys send random text messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Do guys send random text messages to get a females attention? Mine broke up with me, after cheating twice, with the same girl... it ended a week ago... I have not spoken to him and then this morning, he sends me a text that said "lets go to the h...

Dreams of cheating on my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I keep having dreams about cheating on my boyfriend. Whether it's just kissing, or going all the way, it seems to be happening at least twice a week...and with different people! Every time I have a dream like this I wake up feeling physically sick. ...

How do I get over losing the girl of my dreams?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Hi Everybody sorry for the long story but, I am desperately looking for your help, please answer and please don't pull any punches, I have just recently split up with my girl friend of a year and and half, we have had major trust problems in the ...

How can I get him back without pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I need help... I'm in love with a guy, our past is pretty messed up... (he's cheated once while drunk, etc) ... we've fought off an on since then about petty crap and the same issue (cheating). He made amends when it came to cheating, though...

He says he's going to cheat on me - should I chase after him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

6 October 2009 (?) - to make a long story short, me and my bf of 3months have been fighting lately because he tells me hes going to go chill with other girls and cheat on me and stuff and i get pissed and he gets mad and says im insecure. so now he said he needs to ...