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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:last year i was deeply in love with a guy whom it was love at first sight, he jumped when i ordered him to and didnt ask how high. we did so many things together and he even broke my virginity. our relationship was starting to be serious, we even promised each other wedding bells. he later confessed that he has a girlfriend of which they had a child together but she later passed way-we were sharing him but he continuously told me that he loves me most but they cannot separate because they made a promise to the pastor that they will not separate. This year i went to tertiary and i also stay there, we were still in love(long distance) but we had problems,i started feeling lonely and i wanted someone to fill my loneliness.me and my new boyfriend engaged in sexual activities and i started sleeping with both of them. the new guy was always there for me he made me smile and laugh of which my old guy no longer did, he would stay 2 weeks not calling me but he would still tell me that he loves me. 1 day i got drunk and confessed to my old boyfriend of what i was doing. he was angry in a way that i have never saw and he dumped me. now its been a month since we have separated and i miss him like crazy although this new guy makes me laugh but i dont truly love him.i pray to god each and every day to bring me back my husband. One day we met at church and he hugged and kissed me-he told me that he is still loves me a lot but he is on a healing process and i should wait for him and he will tell me when he has healed. do you think he will come back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): your ex is still with his gf/wife right? he is still sleeping with her.
and you were still sleeping with him even though he is committed to this other girl and had a baby with her.
then you came to your sense and started having sexual relations with another guy (but messed it up slepping with the other one as well)
so you were sleeping with both. and he was sleeping with you and his gf.
now you both broke up. best news ever.
if you are wasting this new bfs time then tell him. if you are just using him to waste away time then end it. seems like you and the ex have a lot in common.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Let me get this straight.... he cheated on his gf with you then you cheated on him with someone else.... and... he got angry with you???I dont think that he will come back to you... he didnt mind cheating on his gf but got really hurt when he was cheated on....Move on with your life, I honestly think this relationship is over with!!
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