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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

My husband is always cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i am an indian woman whois very sincere to her husband and family. We got married 30 years ago after 7 years of love with each other inspite of my parents unwiilingness they maaried us. My husband had cheated me earlier also many a times. and i was ...

Did I make the right move by backing off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - so i meet this guy six months ago, we had a lot of fun together, no fights at all. His old girlfriends parents see us out together, so she begins to call him! so im sure now he has mixed feelings. They dated on and off for years, one sided from him, ...

I will leave my husband as I have been living a lie, what is your advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - When I married my husband I was so in love. I trusted him but recently found out he had betrayed me by spending thousands and thousands of pounds not only on gambling but on other women. I found text messages from a girl, called Claire... and I ...

He's younger and has a gf, but he won't stop hanging with me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i am a 34 year old divorce mom to a 6 year old girl. a couple of months ago, I met a guy at a bar with my friends. Turns out we live down the street from each other and were hanging out often watching football games on sunday. ect.ect. We have a...

Is my guy cheating on me, because I found a condom wrapper!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I live with my bf and we have a baby together. I am 21 and he is 53. Our relationship is going great Except that he works a lot and is always tired. I know the typical scenareo where a guy is usually cheating when He is working all the tim...

I feel like he makes no effort anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i dont reall know where to start, have been with my long distance boyfriend for a few years now, we usually get to see each other at weekends if not then fortnightly. he has cheated once in the past, it was the first time i had been cheated on,...

I'm cheating on my husband because his sex drive is non-existant, do you think it could be due to his high blood pressure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I have been cheating on my husband, only because our sex live is virtually non existence - try no sex for 2 yrs and before that lucky if I got it every 3 months. We have been married for coming up 8 yrs now. I have asked him a numerous of times why, ...

I'm married to someone else but he said he'd wait. Should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I have met a most wonderful guy, only thing he lives 2hrs away from where I live, so I dont get to see as we would like.The first two week of our relationship, we email and text contantly. One weekend he got a email from his EX, which upset him and ...

Am I being selfish for doing what I am doing and hoping she gets caught?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - I still need Advice. Back in December of 2008 I reconnected with my high school sweetheart. We have not had contact since 1993. I was browsing around on Facebook and found her. I thought that it would be nice to catch up on old times with her. ...

Why do I always expect to be cheated on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I just wanna say that for the most part my relationship is perfect, but for some reason, due to my past I always feel I WILL be cheated on. So far twice, even after fully going through whatever to make those people happy. Like I never did ...

I like my sister in law in a sexual way! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - this is about my sister in law. we are quite friendly. we used to talk many things and are free to talk anything. first place i love her as my sister and i have respect for her. she is elder to my wife and me. many times i saw that she kind of expos...

My best friend has a history of cheating and is now attracted to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - One of my best male friends is currently in a long-distance relationship, and has been for about two months now. He has a history of infidelity but he insists that this time around, he has changed for good and will remain faithful. I tend to ...