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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Mental health issues: he wants to let me go but I don't want to give up on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2573 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - why do i only seem to attract ( i use the word gently) problem men. i mean it in a way as they have mental health problems , i dont mind they have problems and thats part of who they are and i can manage life with them easily but after a short while ...

I'm scared to break up with my boyfriend because of the repercussions it could have on both of us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2573 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for around 6 months now, I do love him but it’s long distance and when we’re together it’s amazing but when we aren’t we fall very quickly in arguing everyday. I think it would be best for us to break up instead of ...

He chose my friend over me but now I think he likes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2577 days ago

29 November 2017 (F) - Me and this boy went out for about a month then broke up,he then turned for me for help cos he liked my friend.I got jealousy missed him and told him I love him.whilst he was making up his mind we were making out at mine.he then decided know and ...

Should the other woman tell his wife about the affair?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - Should the other woman tell his wife about the affair? I know many would use harsh and negative remarks on such question. I did no Contact and he reached out and I caved in. I am thinking of telling his wife so that I can move on for good forever...

How can I start finding healthy men to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2577 days ago

27 November 2017 (M) - So I recently moved to Dallas from Houston after my partner and I of 7 years separated. I'm still in love with him. I feel that ever since I had to let him go he has done better for himself. I believe that I was enabling him in so many ways. I also ...

I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2258 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. ...

I've been hooking up with my ex and now he wants proper sex but I'm hesitant because I want my first time to be with a boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2573 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl. I dated this guy for a year and a half, but we broke up in January when I found out he had been sexting other girls. Over the summer, he changed a lot, and he decided he wanted to get back together with me. I told him I'd ...

Should I treat this like I just got out of a BPD relationship or am I going about evaluating this situation wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2551 days ago

23 November 2017 (M) - I am in high school right now and my first girlfriend recently broke up with me. We dated for about a month and a half and the way she broke up with me was not what anybody does to anybody else. I'm trying to understand and make sense of why this ...

He's broken up with me after enlisting in the Army!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2586 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I need some advice. I started dating this guy, he's the guy I never thought I'd want but ended up falling for. When we met we both and came out of long relationships. We talked for about a year and then got together, after a year of an am...

I've reconnected with an old boyfriend but don't want to hurt my most recent ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2574 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hi I've recently met an old boyfriend from years ago ,we still like each other ,I've been in a relationship over a number of years ,but split 3 years ago but are still friends ,it was a violent relationship that's why it ended but I still have ...

I feel that my boyfriend's ex wife was living my dream life and I'll never match up to her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am off for the next week due to holidays and as my boyfriend is working, I offered to work on clearing out his storage. Now he has an ex wife of 10 years(divorced in 2009) and I brought home a ton of boxes that were never unpacked. ...

Why would he not see me in 2 months then turn around and say he loves me loads?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2579 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - hi everyone. person i'm seeing for a year now,we not had the exclusive talk but hes told me we friends but seeing where it goes etc we are sleeping together mostly when we see each other sex is involved 9/10 times it happens now recently iv not ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2586 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

What is he doing? His last text said he still wants me but that was November third!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2578 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - hi i am seeing a man, don't what sort of relationship it is but hes not text me in 2 weeks and not seen me in 2 months now, i did text him 2 weeks ago asking whats going on my text to him was " how are you ive not heard off you in weeks how can yo...

If we could be friends should I try?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2592 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - Should I keep speaking to him, and try and be friends? I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 2 weeks ago and it's killing me. We broke it off about 2 months ago, then briefly got back together before we realised nothing had changed. We'...

Should I tell my daughter about her biological father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - This is a family question, my daughter doesn't know who her biological father is but from the time she was a baby my boy friend has been her dad and plans on adopting her. She knows that he's not her bio dad. Her bio dad had his rights terminated, ...

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2593 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

Do I fight to keep her or let her go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2589 days ago

12 November 2017 (M) - So out of the blue my fiance has broken up with me, we've been together almost 3 years and engaged since May. I love her and want to be with her, she says it's because of my messiness and it's effect on her mental health. I've never been this ope...

I'm torn between the re-appeared ghosting ex and the lovely but dependent new love interest! Which one do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - I am going through a very tough situation and which is kind of a Love triangle. I've been in a relationship with a girl for about 1 year and I loved her so much . but 6 months back she ditched me for some reason. Everyday we used to go through a lot ...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2576 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

He never wants to spend time with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - Hi everyone I've been with my fiance now for 4 years we have 2 children I already had my daughter when we met then we had a baby girl who is now 2 the problem is he never wants to spend anytime with us he goes to work on a morning comes home at 4.15 ...

Should I tell my ex that I am pregnant with his child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - Hello. I don't know how to say this but I recently found out that I am pregnant with my ex's child. He is 34 and I am 21 turning 22 January. While we were dating he told me he doesn't mind having kids. We dated for 6 months until we started arguing ...

Why didnt he just tell me he didnt want o be with me anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2599 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - My ex of 5 years and I have recently broken up. For a couple of months I noticed him being extremely distant. I'd confront him about it and he tells me things at work aren't good and it's not allowing him to spend time with his son like he use to. I ...

I am the mother of five young girls and just found my boyfriend looking at teen girl porn

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2595 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is looking teen porn almost every day. He promised me a couple months ago to never do it again when I found stuff that looked WAY too young and wrong. I about had a break down because I have 5 girls almost ready to be teenagers. How is ...

I cyber cheated, my fiancé doesn’t want anything to do with me, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2600 days ago

6 November 2017 (M) - Recently my then fiancé found out that I had been having an explicit conversation with an old friend on social media. She found out and we spoke about it and we agreed to move past it and better ourselves because there was a disconnect. Basically ...

My Boyfriend excluded me to his brother's funeral because his ex was going

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2600 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am after some opinions please as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset and rejected. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly...

Should I stay with my boyfriend in the hope that he matures at some point, or do I let him go and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - Should I stay with my boyfriend in the hope that he matures at some point, or do I let him go and move on? We're both at university (we're both 21) and have been going out for 2 years. We've been having problems lately because he wasn't spending ...

He had affairs while buying my IVF

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

3 November 2017 (F) - My ex and I planned a pregnancy. I was having fertility issues and so we decided to proceed with an IVF. It was his idea and he has even funded the entire procedure. I am about to get pregnant and I found out that he has had numerous affairs ...

My boyfriend and I are unsure of our future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I are still in college but we graduate soon, like in the next year. He has a more laid back approach with things/life and is more up in the air/live in the now, whereas I'm more of a planner and I like to see more into the future. ...

Do you ever get trust back in a relationship and if it’s possible how on earth do you get it back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2600 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over four years now. We have had a rocky relationship, many hurdles along the way but overcome each and every one of them. I have trust issues, I don’t partially trust people and find it difficult to ope...

My boyfriend loves me, but can't trust me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

1 November 2017 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over two months. Things were going good, until I lied to him. I told him how I was married to my ex but he was helping me with a certain issue. (I cannot disclose, my boyfriend knows). And he was okay with it. I ...