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Archived questions from: July, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I need advice on makeup and blocking negative comments from my dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2307 days ago

31 July 2018 (F) - ive always liked to do my hair and makeup in different ways as it helps in my confidence and sometimes I think I do it quite nice other times I think it doesn't look so nice . I really envy people who can do there eye makeup really good I try to get ...

When is it appropriate to tell a date that I don't want kids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2307 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - I'm a 25 year old woman. Have never had the desire to have children and while I know people change over time, I think I may never want kids. This issue makes it a bit harder for me because I noticed most people want kids, while the minority of ...

Should I go away for a week or less with my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2310 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - I'm unsure of whether to go away for a week or less with my friend ,it will be in a few days ,as I'm trying to make my student loan last as best as I can until end of September time when I start college again . other reasons why im unsure are ive ...

Why are some women adamantly against their husband/boyfriends looking at porn?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

28 July 2018 (M) - I'm just a bit curious. It seems that to some women the worst sin a man can commit is looking at porn and I don't get it. They are just images on a screen of women he most likely will never meet or ever have a chance with. The chances of ...

Was it inappropriate or okay where I touched a celebrity when I took a picture with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2298 days ago

28 July 2018 (F) - Weird question here, but I’ve been pondering over it. I met a really famous actor at a premiere and I asked his assistant to take a picture of me and the celebrity. I travelled to another country just to meet this celebrity so obviously I was ...

Why is it no matter how good, true and honest you are, there are still people who don’t see it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2312 days ago

28 July 2018 (F) - Why is it no matter how good you are and how true and honest you are there are still people who don’t see it. The older I get the more I realize what is right and wrong and I realize what I deserve in life and what I should allow in a relationship ...

Are cheaters ever unhappy? They seem to be winning it all...a wife at home and a mistress outside!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2312 days ago

28 July 2018 (F) - Are cheaters ever unhappy? I work in the entertainment industry and work long hours - lately my video editor and I have been working on an editing project and during lunch hours he basically confided that he has had an External affair with another ...

Can a married man truly love you or is it just lust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2312 days ago

27 July 2018 (F) - I have a boyfried but I met a married man in my company and we are quite close. Very soon after this married man knows me, he told me he have feelings for me. Like he just realize I am his true love, the one he wants to protect and pamper with his ...

Is it normal to become slightly infatuated with someone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2310 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - is it normal to become slightly infatuated with someone, as I still have feelings for someone and I never know if becoming infatuated with someone is right and how you know you are infatuated with them . how should I deal with this . I constantly ...

Would this behavior be considered cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2315 days ago

23 July 2018 (M) - a man and a woman are otherwise commited to other people, they flirt with each other on a regular basis for three years. There is no touching however, and the flirting is largely acting nervous like school kids around each other. smiling like ...

My ex brings his new girlfriend(who he cheated on me with) when he comes to babysit our kids in my absence

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2318 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - My ex and I share 4 year twin girls and although he cheated on me and is now with the person he cheated on me with, we have a reasonable relationship. Recently he has started bringing his new girlfriend round to my house when he looks after them whe...

How can I approach an actress for an autograph when she's unfriendly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - I’m going to see a favorite theater show at the theater in 2 weeks,. I’d like to say hi and get a photo with 1 of the co actors at stage door after. she’s known for being cold/unfriendly and aloof. She’s very talented and has a sma...

How do I tell my long-term girlfriend that I'm secretly gay and have had affairs with men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2318 days ago

20 July 2018 (M) - Hi everyone.. Im looking for some genuine advice, if anyone would be so kind.. How do i come out and tell my long term girlfriend that I've had an affairs with men? I know its wrong, and i shouldn't have lied to myself and her, but i fou...

I don’t want my Dad to create a false image of me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2316 days ago

19 July 2018 (F) - I have problems with my parents... So recently, I got my results from my spring semester and it was pretty good. I scored one of the highest scores in math. And so my dad told my aunt about my scores and knowing my aunt, she'll tell other people. I ...

Family problems, problems wth my friend, panic attacks, working two jobs and unhappy. Help me get out of my rut

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2321 days ago

18 July 2018 (F) - I feel like I'm stuck in a rut and I can't get out! I'm a university student and the most I struggle with is the odd panic attack about dying, but since being back at home they are getting worse and I think it's to do with being back. I'm tryin...

Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2320 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

Please help me with my questions on infertility..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2329 days ago

11 July 2018 (F) - This question is for anyone who has struggled with infertility. How was your relationship (marriage or otherwise) affected by it? Did you undergo fertility treatments (successful or otherwise), adopt, or just choose to remain child-free? Also, for ...

I'm wasting the prime of my life. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2330 days ago

6 July 2018 (M) - Hello all, I've been in a rut for 8 years now and can't shift it. I'm alive but not living I guess. I have no drive or ambition. I can't remember the last time I thought yes I really wanna do this. Problem is I don't know what I want nothing ...

I need to get time off but how should I go about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2335 days ago

3 July 2018 (F) - (Not a relationship question, but I need some advice on a work issue.) Ok here goes. I’ve been at this company (hospital) for 10 months now. I work night shift, have rotating weekends, and work most-if not all- holidays. The job itself is good, I ...

How do I bring up the question of my salary?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

3 July 2018 (M) - Hi Aunts, My question is work related. I'm wondering if anyone here with a HR background or has had a similar experience can give me their insight. About 4 months back I joined a new company. I was fresh out of an internship and was quite naiv...

I found out my fiancé lied about his education. Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

3 July 2018 (F) - My fiancé and I were recently engaged. We have been together for two years. He moved here from out of state shortly before we met. He told me and has always said that he graduated from University A. According to him he attended University B for ...

I feel stuck because of his lodger! What do I do?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 2324 days ago

2 July 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I in early 60s, have been together 5 years, but nothing is moving on because he has a female lodger in her 40s been there 25 years! Pays little rent, no household bills and keeps dogs. She wont move out, we gave her 6 months notice, ...

The life path to goals through education is now shut on me and I do not have entrepreneurial spirit. Can I still make something of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

1 July 2018 (M) - Realistically what are my chances at overcoming my life deficits and catching up to where I need/want to be in life? some info late 20's no degree, flunked college numerous times, cannot get a job, very poor learning skills and a very defeatist ...

What if they award the golf match to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

1 July 2018 (M) - It never ceases to amaze me how rude and arrogant some people can be... I have to play a match in a golf tournament.The match has to be played by July 29th (4 weeks time). I had agreed to play it on July 1st, but 2 days prior I had a personal s...