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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:is it normal to become slightly infatuated with someone, as I still have feelings for someone and I never know if becoming infatuated with someone is right and how you know you are infatuated with them . how should I deal with this . I constantly feel like I'm always growing attached to people and do not always know why and what it is about people that make me become attached to them . I sometimes wish I could just not think about certain people but there is just a certain people who I wish I could spend time with and I want to get better or know how to not get attached to people . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2018): Yes, it is normal. You have hormones that make you find others attractive and there is nothing wrong with that.
Make sure you are behaving appropriately is all. Do not flirt with other girls' boyfriends. Don't let a guy use you just because you find him very attractive, get to know him first. Don't give someone the impression that you are exclusive with them if you are not. Common sense things like that.
If you try to be considerate of others' feelings too in lieu of your infatuations you will be fine. Enjoy the chase!
Best,
R
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