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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is it just innocent flirting or does he really fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Please help! As the advice you all give me, shall help me decide what to do! So i really need help! Sorry for making it so long. I just really need your help! Well, there's a boy! Of course.. And recently i had invited him to come play badmint...

Is it possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - Is it possible to cum without feeling it?...

Why would he lie and say he had sex with her when he did not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My childhood friend and I have had feelings for each other on and off for the past 15 years of our friendship. But of course always at separate times. I was going to confront him about my feelings this time. Though it isn't as easy as I thought it ...

Her special-needs sister is moving in, and I'm concerned. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm about to move out of a condominium I've shared for two years with a roommate. Her parents are the owners and the reason why I'm leaving is that her sister is moving in to attend school. My roommate is supposed to look...

Are good gut feelings always right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I am just wondering, has anyone around here had proven that their gut feeling is right? Can we trust our gut feeling whether it be negative or positive? Why do I always read stories here that negative gut feelings are right like for example chea...

I think my boyfriend is planning to kiss me next to he sees me, but I'm not sure how to! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hey, So im 13 and i have just met this boy who I really like. We are seeing each other for the moment... but I will only see him like every month. He lives 15 minutes away but I only see him when at a holiday home every month. He is the nicest pe...

Did I do the right thing by not taking her number? And how can I stop worrying that every girl I meet might be lying about them being single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (?) - I met a woman today when I was in my local city centre. I'm 23 years old, she's 25 - not much of an age difference really, in my opinion. She seemed like a nice person and we got on well enough. She asked me if I wanted to walk her to the bus s...

My friend died. Could I have stopped it? Do I talk to my friend about it or will it cause him problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - This is kinda a long qustion and one that has probably been a long time coming but which has suddenly been brought to the surface. I'm in a really awkward situation and I don't know what to do. When I was 14, my best friend killed himself. ...

Ever met someone so perfect that you're ashamed of your baser feelings/instinct?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - Have you ever met someone who is so beautiful, so pure, intelligent, fun-loving and wittingly sweet that it makes you feel ashamed of your baser cravings and the animalistic urge to make her your own? I didn't know people like her existed ...

I love my boyfriend very much but I hate that he doesn't work and I pay for everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfiend for just over 3 years now and I love him very much but I hate the fact that he does not work and I have to pay for everything. He says that he is looking for work but all he every does is sit on social networking sites ...

The Appeal Of Promiscuity

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I am at work, and this young lady bursts through the door with double d cups overflowing a button up collared shirt. Her shirt was barely retaining her physical accomodations, and she was more than aware of the way she narrowly squeezed into her ...

My ex terminated our pregnancy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I was with a girl I thought was forever, but we no longer clicked I guess. We were together for a significant amount of time, and we tried to conceive. She calls me three months after we broke up, saying shes pregnant and terminating the ...

What are the Do's and Don'ts when meeting your partners parents for the first time? I'm new to this and really nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I'm a South African who has been dating a German guy for almost a year. We've lived together for almost a year as well. We both live in Dubai. Next week we are going to Germany for a month-long vacation and I am also meeting his parents for the ...

I've gone off women and I'm only having sexual thoughts about men!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I've gone off women. I'm not sure whether I've just 'come into my sexuality' or not but recently, I've gone completely off women and on to men. Sexual thoughts about men started for me a long time ago but only in the background and I pursued va...

I feel so lonely and have no idea how to find a real relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - helloo I posted a few months ago on here about a bad experience i had and what i learnt from it. To cut a long story short, I have a lonely life no close friends and never been in a relationship. I was also very into porn and visited a brothel ...

I feel like I'm completely useless and have nothing good in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - so depressed so given up like a hopeless case i could barely write all of this even though i realize that asking this question online to bunch of people who know me at all is all in all one another dumb thing to do but frankly speaking guys lol i ...

I can't have a sexual relationship because of premature ejactulation! Does anyone else have problems with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I cant stay the distance in bed and because of this I cant maintain a sexual relationship. I'm 36 and have a major problem with premature ejaculation. Because of this I've ended up in some very embarrassing situations and have never been able ...

Girls: would you prefer for guys to shave all their pubic hair or trim it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - i'm 14, do you think that i should shave my pubic hair fully of or should i just trim it, this questioni is mainly aimed at the girls reading this...

Do actions really speak louder than words? He never compliments me or tells me he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for 3 and a half years. He has said he loves me about 3 or 4 times in our entire relationship, and it has always been prompted. He rarely tells me he likes me, cares about me, is proud of me, compliments me, ...

Becoming distant with the world, seeking authentication beyond myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

26 August 2009 (?) - Good evening/morning... I have a feeling I might regret this, but I wish to share some of my thoughts in the form of questions with the rest of the member-base, out of being semi-anonymous. ^o^ As I age, I feel more and more distant to common s...

Womens' Rights to Polygamy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - POLYGAMY: An Issue of Womens’ Rights When we hear the term “medical procedures” we could easily think of things such as the cruel surgeries inflicted upon some prisoners of war, men and women having sex-changes or babies being aborted and dyin...

What are the steps in having a healthy relationship? And how can I get my boyfriend to propose to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - What can i do to make my boyfriend propose marriage to me? What are the steps to a healthy relationship?...

How do I get over him? I've been in love with him for nearly a year now and the feelings are not going away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hey there, I'm 16 years old, and have been 'in love' with this previous teacher of mine for nearly a year now. We flirted like hell (he was only 24) and ended up liking each other a lot. He promised me he'd come back to see me (he was from...

My verbal abuse has caused my ex to become a different person, how can I fix this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - In my past relationship, I verbally abused my wife. At the time I apparently never noticed what I was doing and I've finally come to terms with this over the past few months and I've been working on it tremendously. What really concerns me though... ...

Why do people want and desire to marry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - This is not the rant of a commitment-phobic partner, it's a real and serious question. I plan on getting married. I want to and when I really think about it, I honestly have no genuine idea why. None. We've created this institution call...

I've just had an abortion, and I'm having trouble coming to terms with it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I've decided to have an Abortion.. how will I ever get through it? I feel so hopeless. My boyfriend broke up with me. I feel so alone. I didn't want this, but I know it's the best choice for me. I am young.. and my boyfriend (well ex) is a big ...