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Is it just innocent flirting or does he really fancy me?

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Question - (26 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *Ax writes:

Please help! As the advice you all give me, shall help me decide what to do! So i really need help!

Sorry for making it so long. I just really need your help!

Well, there's a boy! Of course..

And recently i had invited him to come play badminton with me and my friends that he doesn't know. And he came!

While playing, we had a few looks here and there but i think he was embarrased to look too often as he was afraid if he was playing badly or not. But when we did look, there was something there..a connection. Well, i felt one anyways!

When we finished playing badminton, i told him that i could hang with him for longer instead of going home with my friends. ( this was about 10 at night) and he kept saying how he didn't mind and wanted me to choose.

I choosed to stay with him in the end and he offered to drive him home when we were ready to leave.

While walking, he brought up the past( we have a past of us meeting up and ending up kissing) of us being in the same area. He commented on how he hadn't been in the area since we were last together.

I did notice when i was talking that sometimes he would start talking when i was. He however, didn't do this when we started talking about our personal lives and problems.

We sat on top of a bench and we ended up play fighting ( :P). We soon started to sit facing each other, and to stop each other poking the other, we held each others arms. But i felt his hand move from my wrists to hold my hands properly. He started to wave them about and everything. He gave me lots of eye contact, even if i couldn't look at him often as i was nervous! I did slyly try to take my hands away, but it didn't work, only on the second time.

After we left the bench, i poked him and he tackled me from the back, picking me up in the air. When he put me down, i felt his arms and hands hold onto me nicely, still rapped around and every thing, with his full hands on me( this is around the waist ).

We did this several times. I guess he did start to use more force on me, but not enough to hurt. Just enough for me to notice.

Soon enough, we started talking sarcastically about our past in a negative way. I however didn't understand that what he was saying was sarcastic so i walked off( i found out later that he was being sarcastic). He came after me in his car and offered me to get in. I did.

Went home blah blah...

( he was apologising in the car, but he said he didn't know what for, nice of him anyway though, right?)

I found out the next day he didn't know what actually offended . That he didn't mean it anything he said harshly and that he was sorry.

So, what do you think???

Thanks in advance! :)

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A female reader, xAx United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2009):

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xAx agony auntYesterday, the boy knew my results were today, and i told him how i thought i would do terrible. So he said if i do, that he shall take me out for a drink.

That's a foward move, right?

THANKS!

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