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Archived questions from: 1 August, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is it wrong to want a long engagement?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Is it wrong to want to have a long engagement? I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2.5 years and yesterday I proposed. This is something that she's wanted for a very long time and its something that I really wanted to do when I did. I want ...

Romantic love or glorified crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Dear All, I have a problem in that I simply do not know whether I have romantic love for a particular lady or whether it is just a glorified "adult crush". I feel "romantically fond" of her and, to be honest, I am starting to feel slightl...

I'm developing a weird superstition....

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1 August 2009 (M) - I 'm developing a weird superstation,I feel, if I really really want to reach something I can't, but if I give it up, and I don't care anymore it will just come to me.. Now this is happeneing over and over agai, and it is so much more the oposite ...

How can I admit to being sexually assaulted to my friends and family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - how can I admit to being sexually assaulted to friends/family when I feel so embarrassed or ashamed to tell them? I also don't want them to worry about me or feel concerned about me so that I can't relax. I have reported it to the police and it is...

Marrying a much older guy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hi. Im 20 years old and im in a relationship with a man who is alot older than me. He is 53. I know it sounds rediculous but we really love each other and we are in seperable. He recently asked me if I wanted to marry him. I really want to marry him ...

Should I leave my husband and go it alone, or should I stay and risk being unhappy for the rest of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - thinking of leaving my husband of 7 years. He is a kind caring consdierate person who would do anything for anyone but there are a few issues i just cannot live with. they are : he hits and verbally abuses our children calling them stupid, he swears ...

1 1/2 year later and my periods are back. Not sure how to feel about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

1 August 2009 (?) - Hi everyone. I feel I actually need some advice myself for a change! Well, maybe just support and encouragement... The thing is, I have discovered today that I am having a period. Those of you who know a bit about me, or have read my articles, wil...

Why was I rejected after my job interview? I thought it had gone well! And what should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Hey, I am 19 and on summer break from university. Last year I was fairly lazy/depressed and didn't get a summer job. The year before that I worked for two months at my fathers work on weekends. So this year, after having done very little as I...

Would shorter nails make me less of a man-magnet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - This may sound a bit silly but it's causing tension. I love wearing long nails. I always have, especially (but not just) french manicured nails. My boyfriend, who's 29, always said that they're very sexy, but the problem is he's got unbelievably...

Do I have lesbian tendencies due to the way I was raised?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I am struggling to come to terms with how i feel about other women. I have known how i have felt since the age of 11 and my family have often joked about me being a lesbian, when i was 16 and at college i developed a huge crush on a female lecturer ...

Marriage without a wedding or rings? This isn't how I imagined it...and how do I tell my family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - As most women do I have always dreamt of a nice engagement and wedding once I found the man of my dreams. I never cared about the price of the ring or how elaborate the wedding would be I just expected to have something special and memorable. Now, ...

Lost love and found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hi I have never done this before, but am in turmoil. I was reading some other chats on here and decided to tell my story. I am totally in love with my childhood sweetheart. He has been married about 15 years now. I am so ashamed about it...

Unloved and Unhappy, what am I to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - HELP I am really unhappy. I have a BF who doesnt seem to love me. He never says it or hugs or does anything with me. When he wants sex he just asked for it. We have 3 kids and 1 on the way. I tried telling him over and over again how i feel. He d...

Sleeping with the enemy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Sex with an enemy. Well sort off, I have fallen out with an ex friend after he ruined my chances of promotion by copying my proposal and sending it in at the same presentation to the board. I have always liked his wife and she used to really like me ...

Head over heals for my BF

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - So, my problem started when I fell for my best friend. It's the typical cliche story. Though, he treats me horribly and I can't seem to tell him where to go. The past two years I've been dealing with depression, paranoia, anxiety and going to ...