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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What do you do when you love someone you can never have?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - what do you do when you love someone you can never have?...

Is there any way that I can help my friend, who is dating someone much older?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Am worried bout my friend shes 16 and has been spending alot of time with an older man hes 48 - thts older thn my dad!! few months ago her parents found out - she was still 15 then anyways they contacted the police n he was gunna b done for b...

My boyfriend keeps me a secret - I think he's ashamed of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months, he still wants us to remain secret while he tells his parents about taking his ex out..when i told him i don't like him telling about his ex and keeping us secret, he told me that, loads of things ...

I'm 18 and in college now - should I tell my 10th grade teacher who is in a relationship my feelings for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Ok. I'm in love with my teacher. Well ex-teacher. He was my sophmore history teacher. Now im a freshman in college. Well i always had a thing for him. Well at the end of that year, we exchanged e-mails. We sthll write each other every once and ...

How can you turn a friendship into a romantic relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Hello, I just wanna say summat small. I know an amazing girl and I love her. She would feel the same I guess, but she just doesn't. She thinks I'm good looking, but she's not attracted to me, she doesn't really feel that way about anyone... and ...

My self esteem is so low and I really can't afford the counslor that I've booked. Any help please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I think i'm cracking up. I've always felt like i dont fit in any where, my self esteem has taken a battering over the years. I was bullied in the past at work and school and pretty much dont know where my life is going. I broke up with another ...

Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?? During High School she had sex with 3 guys. 2 of them were boyfriends and one was a friend who she had a crush on. She had sex a total of 4 times in high school. A few weeks be...

I've just come out of the hospital and found out I've failed uni, my relationship is strained and my friends are moving on! How can I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - hey ppl im so low at the moment.within the past week my whole life seems to have fallen apart. this time 2 weeks ago i had the world at my feet. i had the most perfect boyfriend in the world with an amazing relationship, great health, a place at a ...

After a fight, he stormed out of the house and is giving me the silent treatment! It's been 2 days now - I need help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I'm 33 and have been engaged for a little over 4 yrs. We have been together alittle over 10 yrs. My fiance' and I just purchased our home last Dec. We agreed to purchase the house 1st before getting married. We are now working on our wedding ...

Do you think my abusive ex knows everything is his fault and just can't handle his guilt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - hi there, anyone got any advice about this? i have left my abusive partner of 20 years. yes we have split up time and time again before but this time i have spoke out and told him exactly what i think of him and told him all the nasty things he ...

I think that my bf may have been in a relationship w/ his best friend - I don't want to share his love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 8 months now,although i have known this man for 9 years.I am very confused,i think he may be in love with his best friend(m).His friend is a single gay guy,who i am certain is in love with him. Before we started ...

I caught my fiance and daughter getting it on in our house!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I moved a long way to live with my fiance. I love him so much. My two kids came with me: son, 14 and daughter, now 20. I have caught my daughter and fiance at it in living room! I went to bed early and came back down and caught them. This has broke...

Guys: About breasts, do you like them small or large, real or fake?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - hello, i notice that my boyfriend eyes other girls clevage.i feel that my breast is small but he says mine is just the right size. so i was wondering if guys prefer large breasts or dont mind small ones.how about fake ones?...

I used various type of birth control, but I think I might be pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Hey. I'm 16 years of age. I was on microgynon then i came off it. I had my period on the 29th of July and then after that I had sex without the pill. Then I had my period again, but only for 2 days. Then I had sex again and now my period hasn't come ...

How do I get back together w/ my ex? I don't want to sound desperate and scare her off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I want to get back with my ex, I think she wants to as well, I'm not sure (you got to take risks in life though!). What is the best way to do this (I dont want to sound too serious and desperate so as to scare her off)?...

My bf slapped me b/c I was nagging him when he wanted to sleep! I feel it's all my fault.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 yrs slapped me in the face yesterday just because I was nagging him very late at night when he wanted to sleep. Is his action justifiable?? He blames me for provoking him since I didnt respect him in letting him sleep. Now, I feel ...

How do I break off the engagement to my long distance partner? I've found someone better for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What should I do. Am 28 years, I was engage with this guy whom i did not know, He was introduced to me by a friend. The guy is in abroad we were contacting each other on phone, I posted my picture to him and he also posted his to me. We talked on...

I'm dating a married man who cheated on me! His wife refuses to divorce him and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What can i do now? I am a 26 year old girl, pretty and independent. My college boyfriend left me when I went abroad for my further degree. I had another boyfriend two years after I came back to the country, but i found he married, he cheated on m...

I'm in love w/ someone other than my abusive husband - but I'm unsure about his actions, as well! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have a husband for 14 years. I loved him and was totally dutiful when i got married as arranged by my parents. He beat me sometimes on account of fights and left me helpless. I got fedup and promised to throw him out of my feelings but didnt ...

Should I tell my wife's friend that I love her so I know whether or not to stay w/ my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I love my wife but I am also in love with her friend. I would give everything i have to be with her friend and don't know whether i should tell her that i have fallen for her. Will she tell my wife, would i be better to tell her to clear my thoug...

I'm living in hell by staying with my husband for our kids - please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I need advise and opions. Have you ever been in a bad relatioship where you feel as though you're under-loved, never missed and he could care less? What do you do when you feel yourself slowly falling out of love more each and every day? ...

Who to choose: my current boyfriend who wants to be engaged or my best friend who is my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What to choose: Person A:Current Boyfriend/Possible Fiance, Person B: Ex/ Best Friend, or other advice?? I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship for about 3/12 years, though I keep thinking about my best friend/ ex. My current boyfrien...

I want him to ask me spending more time together but I don't know how to claim this without appearing demanding. He's very concentrated to his work...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6278 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have a relationship with a man that is very concentrated to his work and he is occupied the most of his time. Sometimes he asks me to help him and i always feel happy to help him. However he asks me easy things and it isn't really very difficult ...

Will this be solved if we both bit the bullet and moved in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Are we ok? BF and I have been together for 4 yrs. Live seperately. Lately we have both become almost too afraid to do or say anything to each other for fear of offending the other. I work fulltime. The fulltime shiftwork. He has only himself ...

My step father pushed me into having sex, should I tell my mother? It could give her the strength to leave him.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have a serious question that needs your opinion. Was I raped or sexualy abused by my step father? It started when I was 15. He and my mother were dating for just a few months at the time and he sorta slept over alot. One day It snowed so much ...

Is this harmless flirting or am I starting an affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - i have a really good looking boyfriend who i really love and im not the type to cheat. but lately at work ive been sending emails to this one guy who is soooo good looking he flirts and i flirt back, he's got a girlfriend and ive got my boyfriend. ...