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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Do you think I my married lover is tiring of me? In the beginning we talked. Now he only sends a text

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - I've been friends with this married man for 8 months now, who doesn't have sex with his wife I guess. He is 38 and I am 22. He was my first lover. He took me to his house 3 times and we never had actual sex because I said I want to remain a virgin. ...

Did I mess things up by not sleeping with her in the midst of all these mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

30 September 2016 (M) - So, i am kind of sort of seeing a coworker but not really, we both agreed it would be horrible to date while coworkers. She is ten years older than me, kids are out he house and i have no kids. We have gone out a few times, but nothing serious....

Do I back off and hope he'll approach me? Or do I make a move and tell him how I feel? Eight year age difference.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - I have posted about this before so some of you may be familiar with my story. Just need a bit more advice. I met a guy, he is a PT at my gym. Cutting a long story short. There seems to be an attraction due to the way he looked at me. I did not li...

Considering my reasons for going in, my boyfriends comment, my age and his age and our desire to have kids, is it too late to join the military?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - For some time now, it has been a dream of mine to join the military. I was in ROTC for a bit in college but to be honest, did not succeed very well. I got out after a year but then after graduating with my degree about 2.5 years ago, I got the same ...

Should I act now? I don't want things to go too far, but I like my tutor and I think he likes me. What should I do...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - I'm a 24 year old girl who just started college 6 months ago. For the last 3 months I've been getting help from a tutor in a class that I had trouble keeping up in. The tutors at my college are students that have shown excellence in their past mon...

Am I mad for wanting to be with a guy that much older than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - Hi. So as you pretty much know I'm 17. I've always had the problem of falling for older guys that I obviously can't have because of the age difference. I guess it's because I'm quite mature for my age, as I've also been told, so I'm rarely attracte...

He's married and much older.... and I've a serious crush on him. what advice can you suggest for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - Hi. So i'm sure this has been discussed countless times, but i still feel the need to get my situation out there and hear your opinions on it... So i have this guy in my life, he's my trainer of sorts, and i see him a couple times a week. He's way...

What to do? I'm dating a woman aged 30 and I can't handle her "sleeping around" in the past.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

19 September 2016 (M) - I'm in my early 20s, not perfect but I met a woman who's 30 recently and we really hit it off. However shes has a LOT of bad things in her past. I'm not misogynist and I have obviously slept with girlfriends but she did a load of crazy stuff when...

Should I separate from my husband? Or push on in what feels like a dead marriage ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

18 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my hubby for nearly 11 years now and his cousin is one of his best friends and as a product of that, his cousin is also MY best friend. In fact we are closer than my hubby and his cousin is, our style of communication is the same...

He's ten years younger. Should I wait for him to make the first move ? He did give me his number.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I've been single for over a year so now ready to date again. I noticed a guy who works at my gym but he never smiles. I noticed little things that he made me wonder if he fancied me. I would catch him staring or often feel him staring. He woul...

Our LDR started out with good communication and I just want that back. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

12 September 2016 (F) - Help! I've been in an on again off again long distance relationship with a younger man for about a year. He came on very strong, consistent, and attentive, and things were great. He would call, text, we had weekly face time dates, and he would ...

When does an age gap become too big?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

11 September 2016 (F) - How big do you think age gaps in relationships should be? In all kinds of relationships: friendships, romantic relationships, sex buddies. Do generational differences get in the way? When does an age gap become too much to relate to someone in ...

Crushing on someone 31 years older. But how can we have a future?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

11 September 2016 (F) - I am crushing very hard on a 57 year old man and he doesn't know. He's told me that he feels a "connection" to me is attracted to me and cares for me. We went out as friends and ended up talking for almost four hours in a restaurant. He was ...

Should I be upset my toyboy wont spend my birthday with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2991 days ago

10 September 2016 (?) - Ok here goes ive been having a long distance relationship with a guy since March because of distance we see each other at weekends. I'm 40 hes 29. Which i worry about but hes okay about it. Its my birthday in 2 months but when i brought it up it...

Should 13 year olds date 16 year olds?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - I'm a 13 year old female and I'm dating a 16 year old guy.. I think I'm in love but I don't know if that's wrong. I mean my friends say that we are cute and my parents say that it's wrong because of the age difference. All I wanna know is if it's ...

Are we just wrong for each other? Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

9 September 2016 (F) - What to do if I love the man I'm with, but unhappy in the relationship? I've been dating this guy for almost 9 months now. We met at a friend's party and clicked immediately. We have similar views on a lot of important things like family, social i...

Want to treat him to something special. But what? I'm a struggling student and he wouldn't want extravagance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - Hey, right I met my bf online and we have been together 2 and a half years. We have a nine year age gap but it does not bother me as he is simply amazing. We live 2 hours and a bit away from each other however I have moved back to uni so we're ...

How do I cope with my troubled and tormented thoughts of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - I am a mid aged guy and 7 years ago, I began seeing a woman from work. I was separated from my wife and 2 teenage girls but used to still see my wife on a friendly basis and help her out and still occasionally had sex with her. The woman is m...

My volunteer group organizer keeps flirting with me, but I'm not interested. How do I turn him down nicely but stay part of the group?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - I am in a very awkward situation at the moment. I am part of a voluntary organisation that I enjoy very much, being a part of, however, I feel that one of the organizers of the group has taken a particular interest in me, he is the main organize...

Has my teacher got a thing for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - Let's call him Mr. Jones. Well, Jones started teaching at my school when I was a freshman. (I'm 16, he is 23) I am now a junior and this is my first year taking his class. Every girl thinks he is gorgeous, which he is, and I would notice him always ...

Attracted to an older guy, how do I encourage him to be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - Hello. I need help with this guy.. So im attracted to an older guy. Im 21 and he is 35. We ironically have the same birthday so we are exactly 14 years apart. Since ive met him, ive always felt like there was an attraction between us.. ...