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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

GIft ideas for a crush

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31 July 2024 (F)

age 22-25 - So for context, I met this guy through my professional network a couple of years ago, but we have only recently started to get to know each other outside of work over the past few months. I have developed feelings for him, but right now, we are just friends, but there is a lot ... (147 words)

Does she want to be friends again?

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30 July 2024 (F)

age 22-25 - I was joking with some coworkers about a female friend sexuality because she is single and some people assume she’s lesbian by jow she dresses etc. I feel bad because she is/was my friend but some of the comments were funny I don’t know if she is or not but she found out I ... (164 words)

Full body massage from 2 at the same time?

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29 July 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - My wife wants to get full body massage from the two men at a time. She is 40 now and i am 45. Should Give her permission? ... (27 words)

I want to live with my uncle that took care of me not my parents

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 116 days ago

26 July 2024 (F)

age 13-15 - When I was a kid, my parents got into trouble for drugs and was sentenced to prison. My Uncle Justin has always been single with no kids. He was the family member who took me in. All my other uncles, aunts and grandparents couldn't due to different reasons (grandparents ar... (154 words)

My husband is away and won't take calls. How do I cope?

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25 July 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My spouse of 3 years went to visit his mother and since she is sick, original plan was for him to stay with her for 2 days and return back home It’s been 4 days already nd he is not picking any of my calls and responds to my text may be like once a day, won... (207 words)

Why did my dad wait till now to tell us we have a sister?

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25 July 2024 (F)

age 22-25 - My older half brother(same father), my younger full sister and myself were attending our father's wedding. He's 50 and is expecting a son with his 32 year old secretary. At the wedding, he introduces us to a woman who he tells us is our sister. She's younger than me but older ... (230 words)

Dont do what I did

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24 July 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - It's hard to forgive yourself. I hope that this isn't too much information, but my heart has been aching for a long time because of a mistake I made a year ago. I regret giving my virginity to a man who wasn't my soulmate. I regret it so much that my heart aches. It was ... (333 words)

Refusing to visit husbands family this year abroad & I'm told I'm being selfish!

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23 July 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - Help please!! Hi all, can I get your opinions to see if I’m being selfish. My husbands family all live abroad- his mum, dad , sister and her husband with their 2 kids aged 6 and 9. Every year since we have been married- 12 years - we go to visit them and st... (699 words)

Don’t want her beautician friend doing my make up!

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23 July 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I met a friend of mines friend at her birthday. We got chatting and it turns out she owns her own beauty salon and she will be doing our make up for my friends wedding later this year. I decided to book myself in for some treatments and on both occasio... (566 words)

Tired of how husband treats me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

15 July 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day. I am married and my husband seems to feel it's okay to order me around. Example if my cat meows a bit at night he wakes up yelling and screaming so I wake up. Then commanding me to get rid of the cat. This marriage has been without compromise alot. It's h... (181 words)

Her fiancé makes me cringe!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

9 July 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - No idea if this is the right place to vent but here we go… I’m not at all keen on my friends fiancé. They’ve been together for 8 years and have 2 kids together- he is in his late 30’s but half the time behaves like a child himself- he does nothing to help my friend and ... (639 words)

Do I lend him the money for her engagement ring?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

8 July 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend has been with her boyfriend for 5 years. He is a really nice guy - I would not say I know him really well but we have hung out on a fair few occasions and he’s easy to talk too and I know he treats my friend well. He contacted me the other day asking for a fav... (405 words)

Toxic Sil 2

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

7 July 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I deal with a toxic sister inlaw who lives in the same family My husband shares a property with his sister bought by the late mum..We live in the main house and she lives in the quarters ..the lady is older than my husband and has been spoiled since childhood .. Sh... (217 words)

Was she being truthful with her goals or was it just some elaborate line?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

5 July 2024 (M)

age 36-40 - I matched with a woman on a dating app and after a couple pleasant exchanges we met for drinks at a bar. We shared some chicken tenders as well and I had an incredibly nice time with her. She was very lively, passionate about a variety of things that I enjoyed as well, and ... (747 words)

Crush 2

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4 July 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a strong crush on one of my students. He is handsome, eloquent and approached me to mentor him (I almost told him, I felt honoured that he chose me :)) See, I noticed him before he even asked me to mentor him). So far, I have had over 5 meetings with him and I have kept ... (156 words)

Am I being a fool?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

4 July 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So I've been seeing someone from a different country. We've been seeing each other for about 3 years. He does not have a steady income. He sells clothes. Jobs are scarce where he is. He always asks for money and it never seems like it's enough. I'll give him ... (152 words)

I have fallen hard but we are both in relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

3 July 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi need to share anonymously I’m married with grown up children, but two years ago I feel for someone 10ths younger this progressed into texting/sexting it was a bolt out of the blue. He had since been through a serious illness it made me think more about life and why did I ... (222 words)

Rush q

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3 July 2024 (F)

I'm devastated but feel I have no choice but to leave

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

3 July 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I could do with some guidance. My partner and I have been together for 5 years, we have a son and a dog. I moved in just before the first lockdown, away from where I work, my life and my friends to be with him. We always agreed we would move back eventually and when we ... (276 words)

Why do they say they are bi

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

2 July 2024 (M)

age 41-50 - What is it with women saying they're bi when they're not? I mean, why tell your boyfriend and everyone that if you're not experienced in dating or at least having sex with a woman? Why say that if you get mad your boyfriend wants to check out look at pork with you that's women ... (101 words)

Why doesn't he take the time and place to have sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

1 July 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm trying to see how to go about this I don't know if I'm in the wrong. My fiance likes to please himself with his toy which I don't have a problem with. I notice he uses it once a week. My issue is that when I want to be intimate since that once a week his urge is not ... (235 words)

RF 100

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1 July 2024 (F) age 16-17 - My school has a very strict school detention policy, it states that any pupil that earns 3 detentions will automatically have to serve a 4 hour 30 minute saturday detention, the student will also have to the serve the original 1hour 30 minute detention, last tuesday i kept ... (313 words)