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Archived questions from: 9 March, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He said he wants to try again but now has gone silent!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, my ex stoped speaking to me last Sept last yr , then all of a sudden he contacted me on 14 Feb, saying how he missed me, and how it was all him with being a father figer to my little girl and got scared, and wasnt used to someone being so nice to him, Anyway to cut a lo... (205 words)

We need to plan for our future but talking about it makes partner anxious.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I have a multifaceted question about relationships and midlife crisis and men and women maturing at different rates. I have been married for 8 years together for 18. We are reaching a point in our relationship where I want to take our lives to the next level.... (266 words)

Ex partner is a born again Christian now and I am scared of our daughters upbringing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, Can anyone please give me some advice on how to deal with bringing up my 2 year old daughter with my ex partner who is now an evangelist born again Christian. Before we split up I was with him for years and he hated all forms of religion and was drinki... (449 words)

He thinks I should chill out. How can I get him to realize that what he did has made me feel so bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years and we always had such an amazing sex life, he gave me a lot of confidence and I'm really sad that he is knocking it all back out of me. For the majority of our relationship he has loved going down on me, it's something that h... (360 words)

I wonder what I have missed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend when I was quite young. We started dating and have now been together nine years. He was the first person I slept with and therefore the only person (fyi I was not his first but this is not my issue). I find it really unsettling that he could be the one and ... (180 words)

Seven months dating and her dad is talking about how much say he will have in marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

9 March 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend's parents are painfully overbearing and it's caused serious stress with me, her, and this relationship. I've been going out with this girl for 7 months now, I'm 19, she's 18. For the entirety of the relationship it's been one roadblock after another involvin... (610 words)

My parents are splitting us up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 weeks. I've had a hikkie or love bite on my neck for around 4 days. She only just noticed it before when we were in the shops looking down the isle. She said "why have you got a love bite on your neck?" I didn't answer her then ... (166 words)

Could this be called psychological abuse?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. Advice would be really welcome here. In a long distance relationship of over a year. Good times and bad. Currently we had a heated discussion last week which we did not share a view on, and he did what he has done before and totally ignores me saying he needs space... (261 words)

It's over. Is going no contact the best way forward?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend yelled at me. In his words, not yell but was speaking curtly. He used expletives and went on about how he wants nothing to do with me. I am a little unnerved and shocked. Right now, I don't want to have any contact with him. I am trying to calm down but my heart... (77 words)

Has anyone else's husband said to his wife that she will be a burden on a business trip?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband goes on some business trips during the year, but usually in the state we live in. Sometimes, I am able to go with him and he has been okay with that and he enjoys me going along. He will be going on a new business trip on the coast, to a new state, for the first... (534 words)

Is it wrong for a widow to sleep with her late husband's married best friend ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a forty year old widow. My husband passed away in January 2014. I was very lonely. My husband's best friend, X, and his wife Y used to visit when my husband was alive and continued to do so after my husband's death. A month later Y noticed that I was very lonely. I c... (465 words)

Was it my fault or my ex boyfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I in the wrong here or is my ex boyfriend? I invited him to my sisters bbq at her house. When we arrived my sister asked me what I was drinking and if I wanted some wine so she poured me a glass. My boyfriend said he didn't want a drink, I think he got a soft drink inste... (587 words)

Is this a healthy relationship? Should I stop texting? Is he using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, me and my boyfriend met on Facebook,we've met 5 times and have been going out for two weeks. We used to text all the time, almost 24\7. Now I'm fed up and every time he texts me I ignore it and reply an hour later. It makes me sad to think that one day we will break up... (232 words)

how do I determine if this guy is serious about me? Or is he just using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - i just want to know if I'm overreacting or not , okay so I've been talking to my ex lately again he reached out to me and honestly it's kike a cycle with him repeating over and over again. Its like one minute he's all serious about being a relationship with me again and then... (237 words)

I think my girlfriend cheated in a threesome but won't admit it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I am pondering a situation that occurred with my girlfriend after had been living together for just over a year. The evidence points to the possibility of her having a threesome with her best friend and her best friend’s boyfriend. It looks on the surface anyways that she... (563 words)

How to ask out a guy when I'm scared he'll say no and I'll look stupid

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I've started an adults course at college one day a week and I have fallen for my teacher. We are both in our late 20's and we get on well but I don't want to do anything while he is still my teacher. The course finishes in a month and the whole class will be going for a drink ... (105 words)

How do I normalize? What do I ask him to stop wondering? Help me with understanding, this long term crush and that moment you can’t stop thinking about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

9 March 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So I think I will try and start at the beginning, I found after about three years of friendship that I had developed a crush on a friend. We became friends at a 6week summer camp we worked at each summer since we met. We started passing letters last summer(he asked me what I th... (575 words)