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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I end this relationship? It hurts me to end something that has so much potential and beauty to grow

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

31 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm in a dilemma. I come from a very traditional Pakistani family but born and raised in the states. I grew up wanting a Pakistani guy who looks like me and has similar values and upbringing because it's so complex and detailed. Anyways, I am just not findin... (399 words)

What do I do? My BF refuses to stop talking to a girl he had a crush on before meeting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - So I moved in with my boyfriend in the end of OCT . It was love at first meeting and a very quick move in together. He moved me in on his birthday of all things and said I was the best birthday gift ever. Well since then Ive had to wade through remains of his ex wife and her ... (612 words)

Happily married but feeling terrified out of my wits as my pregnancy has been confirmed. Need advice, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Thank you all for taking the time to read my question. I know I'm going to be severely judged for posting this but please bear with me. I got married about 8 months ago to a wonderful man. I'm 33 and he's almost 40. He is the best husband and friend that I could have asked... (703 words)

Did I make a mistake when I decided to let him go? Broke up last night

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - i really don't know how to express myself still i will try. Its been 2 years since i am dating my boyfriend. Both of us are in our late twenties and this is the 2nd relationship for both of us. We started dating in 2014 before that we were friends for one year. In his la... (829 words)

Am I a woman who just can't help herself? I've fallen in love with a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - He is married, I have fallen so deeply in love with him I can't let go. My feeling is since we both can't and don't want to let go we should just ride the situation that we are in and see where it takes us. Every man who is single only wants to sleep with me or wants me for ... (143 words)

Help! My boss thinks I have a crush on him. How do I deal with this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! My boss thinks I have a crush/ i'm in love with him. I've been working with this guy for a little over a year, he's quite reserved and a bit shy with other people, he can be even rude sometimes, but with our team he's quite funny and niceish. He's neither ugly nor... (623 words)

Deal breaker? Should I end my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really heart broken and disappointed. I am in a LDR realtionship for 3 years and my fiancé is going to come where I live and get marry this summer. It has been an extremely difficult pat to get here. We both are divorced his wife moved to another country with his child h... (464 words)

Unfinished business? Should I leave my current GF for an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

30 March 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my current girlfriend for roughly 5 months now, and everything was going fine, until my ex recently came back on the scene. I had a strong connection with my ex and we were each others best friends. I do not feel this way, and nor do... (277 words)

Was my boyfriend insensitive to praise this new employee to the extent he did? Or am I being too sensitive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

30 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend a few years now and we love each other but a comment he made this morning really upset me... He was interviewing this woman for a job and he texted me afterwards saying she was excellent and that he would be hiring her in his team... now I tho... (110 words)

I have feelings for the boy I am texting and having sex with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

30 March 2016 (?) age 26-29 - The past 2 month I've been texting and sleeping with a guy and recently found out I am 4 weeks pregnant. We have spoke about it and argued a lot over the past few days due to him telling all of his friends after me repeatedly asking and telling him not too! I feel so stupid for ... (298 words)

I have a LDR but have reconnected with an ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

30 March 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my current partner for 4 months now, and everything is fine. It's long distance (100 miles). But I drive to see her once a week. However, my ex has recently come back in to my life. My ex and I both moved cross country for university, but due to a family ... (116 words)

How long its acceptable to wait, between texting episodes with my LDR? Should I wait for him to text first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

30 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Im currently seeing a guy who i go to university with, we're not in an official relationship but have agreed not to see anyone else. We're both at home at the moment as its the holidays but we live a long way from each other so haven't seen each other in three weeks. We've ... (189 words)

After we had sex I assumed he would not be back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

30 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on a dating site. We met up and ended up sleeping together. This was my first time involving myself in something like this. I watched him during the date and he is mature, understanding and well-balanced. I had a feeling that we would end up in bed. He was here on a ... (134 words)

Can someone who cheated on their partner ever gain self-respect again as a person, whether they decide to stay or end the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

30 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My morals are the one thing I always prided myself in having. I rarely lied (even then I can't flat out lie, more like white lies or divert the answer), obedient to parents (never sneaked out etc.), I don't curse, and I have a strong faith in God, I am friendly by nature but i ... (391 words)

I don't want to be fired but feel uncomfortable with what my boss is requesting me to do

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

30 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I started my job yesterday as an administrative assistant, at a private accounting firm. My boss told me today she wants me to call tomorrow a credit card company and be her and ask them to waive a fee for her. I feel kind of uncomfortable doing that, because isn't it illeg... (92 words)

Is it wise to confront him with all that I have found out about him in contact with his ex? We have been together for 12 years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

30 March 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with this man for 12 years I just recently found out that he has been paying for his ex bills though their kids are grown Found out Thur text on his phone with texting and calling each on it the daily found text where they are sending kissing emoji I'm so wan... (132 words)

Will his friend be thinking I am an absolute idiot to still stay with him? I think my husband took another girl's number while away with the army

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

30 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I need to know if I'm being silly or not. Last month my husband went away abroad with the army to malta and while he was there got girls numbers etc to be honest Anyway he wants us to go out with a guy and his gf, the guy we are meeting went with him to malta and knows ... (105 words)

Should I be happy for my ex fiance after he cheated on me and hurt me so badly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

30 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - About 3 months ago, my fiancé of 4 years ended our relationship. I would later find out he was cheating on me behind my back for about 2 weeks with a new woman at his work who he barely knew. I knew he met her and I actually knew her somewhat back in school, but I of course ... (524 words)

What should I do? Crushing a lot. A friend recommended telling him I like him but I'm scared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

29 March 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy, a lot, like a lot a lot, and we're quite close. We hang out quite a bit, and we're really flirtatious but I don't know how he feels. He'll never make the extra effort, like text me or call me, we'll only speak face to face. I don't know what to do, a friend ... (79 words)

Truth or fake? Wish I never catfished him. Do I tell him the truth and end up with losing him, because he feels betrayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

29 March 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - So I had this crush and I found his boyfriend on online. I started talking to his boyfriend but used him to get info on his now ex. As it turns out me and him click I really like him as a friend and now after nearly 4 months of talking I feel bad that I catfished him. He hat... (134 words)

Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable? Everyone has a past, but my boyfriend keeps dropping bombshells

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

29 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a wonderful few months with my boyfriend but he just keeps dropping bombshells. The first was about a one night stand he had in his unhappy marriage two years ago which he regretted. Then he told me he uses alcohol as an emotional crutch but has cut back since me... (272 words)

He's asked for a second chance and I said no. Should I let him back? He's so jealous.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

29 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with this guy and at the beggining everything was great.it was my first relationship so i was really excited so was he. he was really in love with me and after a month he first told me he loved me. BUT he was jealous all the time and he was overreacting... (249 words)

How can I stand tall this time without letting him back into my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

29 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and thanks for your help. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years. His attitude isn't good to say the least. He dictates how long I need to stay when I'm with him. If I can only stay a couple hours he argues. He wants me to consult him on my financial dec... (275 words)

The messages are turning sexual. When is it a good time to tell him I've never had sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3181 days ago

29 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and everything seems to be great and going really well. We've been on a few dates that have also turned out well and we both are starting to enjoy each other's company. I'm really starting to like him and he seems to feel ... (96 words)

Do all women like to be watched while they are bathing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

29 March 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - When I ask my wife how she will feel if some one peek in her bathroom and watch her bath, she got extremely horny. Is that normal... how do I know she got extremely horny?, I was doing an intercource with her when I asked. So she basically went from just getting a little ... (76 words)

Will my wife ever have a threesome?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

29 March 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are married for 5years. I am a sex crazy person and my wife was traditional Indian. I always wanted to watch my wife in bed with other guys. I told her my fantasy during sex and she got turned on extremely. She has never watched porn before marriage, now she ... (161 words)

If I stop smoking weed will I stop having gay thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

29 March 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay. So I'm a 20 year old male. I have always been straight. I masturbated a lot in the last 2 years, excessively to straight/lesbiano porn. I smoked lots of weed in my day and realized I can't really get hard while high or drunk. About 8 months ago me and my girlfriend of a ... (599 words)

Husband is complacent, and I am fliriting with a co worker.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

29 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 3 years now and I love my husband very much. There is a problem and I do not know how to overcome it. I have been gaining feelings for a coworker and I know that my coworker feels the same, we are always flirting and I cannot control it. My husband gives ... (282 words)

My new boyfriend wants me to shave EVERYWHERE!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

29 March 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - helo. My new boyfriend is 8 years older than me, we met on a dating site (i didn't mean to join the site i was only there for fun so we met). He is muscular, very smart, very clean, handy, hygienic but what i find odd is he doesn't like hair. He shaves every area of his body, ... (155 words)

My boyfriend is a dad, and the child's mother hates me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone thank you in advance for helping me I am having an issue here and need advice desperately. For the last 5 months I have been dating a great man who has a 4 year old son with his ex fiancé, a woman who he still remains close with. He is a very nice smart littl... (530 words)

I so want to date but never get asked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel embarassed just typing this, but well... I am 22 year old, college student, I am outgoing, I have a lot of friends and I am quite popular with them. I am tomboyish as in "loving sports, fights and cars" but you wouldn't tell from the way I looked apart from the sh... (354 words)

I'm still having a tough time moving on from my previous relationship!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3145 days ago

28 March 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - I posted something a couple of months ago about my now defunct seven year relationship with this woman that started out as as a FWB arrangement, but progressed into a relationship. My social life has been packed to to hilt with activities in order to distract my mind, and I'v... (404 words)

Were we wrong to offer? Why did she not tell her husband about the invitation and the arrangements to attend the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My aunt and I have always been close- she is 12 years older than me so more like a big sister than an aunt. A few years ago she moved to America with her husband and son due to her husband's job. Of course I missed her and we kept in touch and I went over to visit etc... ... (471 words)

Should I propose to him? He has said in the past that he wouldn't mind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF of 3 yrs and I are travelling to California and Vegas in October and have decided to elope while there.. secretly! Anyway I know he's been looking been looking at engagement rings bur I also know he does not have the money for one ( he started his own business thus ye... (112 words)

How can I be myself around others, without putting myself in danger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

28 March 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I've pretty much been a loner since I was a child. I usually I aim to beat to my own drum but I do crave friendship and a romantic relationship. What sucks is that I can't pin-point what exactly the problem is. I think people might be intimidated by me. I may come off a b... (412 words)

Tips, please? How to deal with a rude much younger colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - when a work colleague ignores you? what to do? you say hi at start of work, they ignore you or say sharply "hi" or blank you and say nothing but talk and smile (and hug at times) and say hi to others you've done nothing wrong you work with them 3-4 times week so yes yu do... (145 words)

Should my stepbrother and I date in secret? Our parents have told us that we can't.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - me and my step brother like eachother but my step mom and my dad have set us tow down and said we cant date but i want to know if we should date secertly or not ... (39 words)

He's at least 10 years older than me. Should I go with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I started going to the gym and began to have a crush on a guy. I'm thinking he knows I like him because he introduced himself to me and said to ask him if I need help with the machines. The only thing is that he's probably at least 10 years older than me. I'm 21 he looks ... (101 words)

I don't love him, but should I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating someone my own age for about six months now. For me, this is brand new. I never date for very long, so the fact I've made it this far is astonishing. This person, we'll call him Blue Eyes, I met him through my mother. She met him, liked him, and sent him my ... (581 words)

I'm in love with a straight married friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married to a man. I have recently fallen in love with a female friend. She is married, straight, and of course completely off limits. But it hurts my heart. I haven't felt like this since I was a teenager. It's silly. I am so completely consumed by the desire... (105 words)

My stretch marks seem to be a huge problem for the men that I date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I came out of a 3 year relationship almost 2 years ago and for the past year I have been dating again. It's kind of personal to talk about but I am someone with very sensitive skin, and my breasts grew very fast when I was young and because of this I got pretty bad stret... (310 words)

I don't love my husband and I'm in the marriage because of our children

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I have come to the conclusion that I have to stay in my marriage for the sake of the kids. I know, it's a cliche, but it's the responsible thing to do. My husband has done things to me that I feel are deal breakers, and most other women would agree without a second tho... (242 words)

Boyfriend ghosted and I'm trying to move on, but always anxious and unhappy with life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three months ghosted on me one and a half months ago. We had an amazing relationship and I was shocked to the core. I feel that it's been more than enough time to get over him but he's always still fresh on my mind. I've given up wondering why he just ... (271 words)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

28 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with threesomes involving a female f... (490 words)

My unemployed wife does very little around the house

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

27 March 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife gets so little housework done and I'm fed up of living in a dump. She's a sahm with a 6 and 11 yr old and really doesn't enjoy being a housewife. We're comfortable enough on my income, but not living a life of luxury by any means. She seems to constantly obses... (314 words)

He's married, won't leave his wife but calls me heartless for distancing myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

27 March 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Need advice!' I am recently divorced, because my marriage was never like a marriage and then he started cheating. My and my ex are good friends for now. Meanwhile, 6 years back I met and fell in love with a married man (I was married at that time as well). It was purely emo... (184 words)

I don't trust one of my new roommates

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

27 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I just rented a room in an apartment in the city I just moved to. I have three roommates, I didn't know them beforehand. But I love my new place and for the most part get along great with my roomies. I've developed a friendship with two of them whom I really like, but one of my ... (497 words)

Is this a wild romance or am I fooling myself? Should I go meet this man or take a pass? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

27 March 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone I know at my age I probably have experienced or seen almost everything regarding the relationship between man and woman, but I'm stumped to the point of distraction. So, maybe a bit of discussion and your help? I am in my forties, divorced, independent, and... (781 words)

Are there men who want to build relationships and not just have casual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

27 March 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid It's a rhetorical question may be, but is there men who wants to build a relationship not just have casual sex. I have been dating for sometime and lost trust in male population as it is, everywhere I see people just want to have a causal one, either it's FWB ... (148 words)

I'm a bit jealous about my girlfriend's ex being her first

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

27 March 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a minor but what I fear might be a big problem about myself in my current relationship. And rather than opinions and criticism over how juvenile I am, I would like to hear from people who had a similar experience, and how they got over it. Because for me, logic does not ... (438 words)