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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After being cheated on, I hate myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

9 July 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - During my most recent relationship, I got cheated on by my girlfriend. She did it once fairly early in the relationship, and even though I hated the guy before it happened, she claims to be blackout drunk so I forgave her. She cheated again and the relationship ended. My ... (149 words)

Confused, does he want a relationship or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I'm 15 years old and a girl. I have a "thing" with a guy who is also my age. I met him at the local fair and we hit it off really good fast. I'm super bad at texting so in the beginning he'd text me and sometimes I wouldn't respond. Not because I didn't like him but because ... (242 words)

I met somebody new, but in the past I had sex with his relative

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met someone and we had an instant connection, although I have no idea where this will go as there is a distance factor. The problem is the guilt I'm having about something that happened between myself and this man's relative several years ago. The relative and I had ... (199 words)

Saw 6 Condoms in His Travelling Bag

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Please my big brother and sister in the house, Am married for two years now, we have a daughter. Recently my husband job entailed him travelling a lot. He was travelling today and he took six condoms,he ought to be away for 6 days. I saw it in his travelling bag. when I asked ... (113 words)

Does a guy being skinny put women off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

9 July 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a skinny lad and I was wondering is this a turn-off? I mean I know some girls like guys to be teddy bears but is there really any market for us skinny guys? I'm 5'11"/180 cm and 143 pounds/64 kg and feel as though I'm not bulky enough for women to have enough faith in me to ... (91 words)

Should I consider opening up a dialogue with the father of my six year old? Or could it cause problems if I do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a six year old who unfortunately has an absent father of a one night stand. I did the grown up thing to inform dad of pregnancy but he cut all contact at that point. I decided not pursue him because selfishly it made it easier for me going it alone. He didn't know my... (148 words)

Eight weeks pregnant. Angry abusive father to be. I'm crying a lot. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I feel completely lost and don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We have been living together and I recently found out that I'm pregnant (I am 8 weeks gone) and have decided to keep the baby. Me and my boyfriend don't get on anymore. We fight a... (462 words)

Grieving for my twin brother who died. My parents don't mention him. How can I get through this grief?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

9 July 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - I lost my twin brother, actually i feel like i lost half my soul. I am never going to be the same person again because half of me has died. Family give reasons and excuses and say everything will work out. We had always been together, never one moment without the othe... (92 words)

I'm having trust issues with my girlfriend, is she cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

9 July 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently had my phone stop working, so i was using my girlfriends phone to contact people for awhile and she recieved a message of a screen shot of a message she had deleted on her phone. The message was her trying to pick up a guy she met at a bar, i saved and forwarde... (488 words)

He called me nasty names. No apology. We broke up. What should I do, in the circumstances?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there everybody I recently had the biggest argument with my now ex boyfriend. It all started because it took him 7 hours to reply to my text Anyway after 2 days of arguing over text he tells me I'm a heartless gutless liar. I did not ever lie to him I am over ... (135 words)

Am I going crazy? Should I embrace that he wanted that type of video from me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 34 weeks pregnant. My baby's dad and I just got back together today.. We've been apart officially for only 3 weeks. In that time, he hung with an ex girlfriend, took her on a boat and beach, and to a theme park. They kissed but claimed he didn't do anything else. ... (120 words)

Is this a cultural shock that is affecting my relationship? Has anyone experienced anything similar?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know where to start. I am from South America and I emigrated to USA 8 years ago, I studied got a degree. I have a good job and support myself , single no kids. I met an Iraqi guy 2 years ago, hes younger by 8 years. He came legally, so the point is not about green... (566 words)

I really do like him, but I also love my boyfriend. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, So there is a guy who left my work last week that I have grown extremely close to during our time as colleagues. I have spoken to him via text message since he left and received messages such as "I'm missing you so much :( can't wait to see you again!" Over... (176 words)

Why would a Bf not like his Gf to wear makeup?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) age 22-25 - 15 year old girl. I met this guy and he's really awesome in all the right ways. When I met him I was all done up. He tells me not to wear makeup. He allows me to get my brows done and straighten my hair but I wore a little bit of makeup on a date (mascara and shaded brows) a... (118 words)

What are likely reasons that a man would ask this question of a woman about children ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

9 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - What would you think if your boyfriend asked you "what do you think things would of been like if you never would of have had your kids?" I have kids from a previous relationship but he's always been great with them, so I was thrown off by that question. Thanks for your input in ... (55 words)