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Archived questions from: 2 July, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When I see my cousin all logical and rational thinking stops. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

2 July 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - I am madly in love with my cousin. I just can't get her out of my head after a naughty night 3 weeks ago. We didn't actually had sex, but we were exploring each others body and kissed passionately . it was her first time. I thought it was just an attraction or fling but whe... (140 words)

My boyfriend ghosted without any warning. How do I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

2 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 months ghosted a month ago. Everything was going very well until the last two weeks it all came to a screeching halt. He took longer and longer to reply and eventually not at all. I saw he logged back onto his online dating site. I'm so hurt and confused... (203 words)

Could this man I've been chatting to for 2 weeks be telling the truth? Or is he lying to me about his dream? Why tell me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

2 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello iam chatting with a man of 57 years old, he actually lives in the same city, and we are planning to meet in a few days. We chat everyday, and exchange photos. Its been 2 weeks since we started chatting online. One day he told me that he dreamt of making love to me. So ... (74 words)

She's good at planning other things but all our dates have been spur of the moment. How do I ask for plans in advance without sounding heavy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

2 July 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Right, I've been dating a girl for a few weeks now, we really get on, have a lot of similar interests, and share the same sense of humour, I really like the girl to be honest. The thing is, she seems to be good at planning work, gigs, etc in her diary but when it comes to... (150 words)

We had unprotected sex but she took emergency contraception afterward. Should I still be worried about the possibility of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

2 July 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - The other day, my girlfriend and I made a big mistake in having unprotected sex. I don't really know how or why either of us let that happen and I most certainly won't be doing that again! Anyway, I didn't cum inside her and had urinated throughout the day prior to the last ... (89 words)

I'm a 29 year old guy. Virgin, never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl. I am thinking of giving up on finding someone, and just trying to have sex. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

2 July 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I guess the title says a lot of it. I'm a guy in my late 20's, no girlfriend, haven't had one before. Not really any friends, and it's been awhile since I had any of those either. I have a job, but I'm not really able to connect with anyone. I try to go out, but I just can't ... (252 words)

My dad left our family for his mistress. Why is he being aggressive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

2 July 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - He had an affair his tenant and now has left us for her and her family. Whenever he calls now he's really aggressive and angry for no reason at all, why? He hasn't contacted me or my brother for 13 weeks now. When he comes to our house he starts crying infront of us wh... (85 words)

My LDR boyfriend isn't interested in phone or video sex after we met up and slept together in person! Is he losing interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

2 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating my boyfriend from last two years. we met through Facebook.In the initial stage of our relationship when we were in long distance. we used to Skype everyday.. almost every day we used to do naughty stuff on video chat. Whenever we used to talk on phone we used to sex ... (168 words)

Does the evidence suggest that he's gay or transgender?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

2 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I wrote the post "We had our first kiss and it wasnt magic as expected! Now what?" few days ago. After the advice i got from my lovely aunties here i was on my way to end things with him but before that i asked my trusted friend what she thinks about the guy (she never met him ... (514 words)

Should I meet up with my ex boyfriend ? He still has his girlfriend and I broke up with my boyfriend, but he doesn't know that

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

2 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts! I need advice So I have an ex boyfriend who broke my heart. The relationship was amazing but due to him losing his job, he had to move right away. He said he didn't want to lose me and how he would always want to be with me but we didn't want to do the distanc... (529 words)

How can I talk to him about these issues? He expects my sons to contribute via chores but does nor expect his teen daughter to do anything

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

2 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm Engaged!!!!!!!!. I should be excited right? I'm more worried than anything. We have dated a little over a year and are planning to get married May 2017. We both have children from a previous marriage. He has two daughters (21 and !7), I have two sons (11 and 6). For th... (410 words)

Is this fair? I've developed depression due to my concerns. Should she be contributing more? She leaves me to pay everything in order for us to live

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

2 July 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling incredibly depressed lately. Be been married for 1year, we've been together for over 6years. I really do love her but I feel like she is bringing nothing to our relationship. She got a great degree from a state university, she could easily be making 20-25/hr.... (261 words)