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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I find someone else at my age? Why is she ripping my family apart ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age - I think my husband of 12 years is having an affair. Myself and my hubby are in the same job but work at different locations. One of our colleagues told me she was concerned about how much help and time he was spending with a client. Anytime she calls the office he jumps ... (276 words)

He's shy. Was he hinting towards going out together and wanted me to take the hint?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - This shy guy has a major crush on me. We don't talk much because he gets nervous talking to me. So One day while nervously talking to me he suddenly bring up the food topic ...telling me about his favorite Mexican food he gets from this Mexican eatery . When I told him t... (141 words)

Has anyone ever wasted 10 years of their life and not lived to regret it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

19 July 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - This could be very long but I will keep it short. Has anybody ever wasted 10 years of their life.. And lived enough not to regret it. This holds me down badly. ... (33 words)

Ex girlfriend agreed to meet next month. Now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

19 July 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I dated for 2.5 years, where in the process I let myself go mentally to places I never should have, and I refused to seek help for my emotional issues until recently. I ended up breaking her heart by lying to her, throwing her under the bus and then moving out ... (358 words)

My boyfriend has ignored me for 3 days and blocked me from contacting him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - First of all a bit of background information. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years and our relationship is pretty serious. Recently we've both been happier and better than ever, and have even spoken about marriage. Overall our relationship has been really ... (338 words)

My boyfriend is on a hook up site while I am away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts, So I'm on a 6 week family holiday away from my boyfriend and I noticed that he had several emails from a hookup site called localblack^^^^s.com Before anyone asks, I wasn't snooping. His email inbox is on my phone along with my own because a few months... (161 words)

Why am I such a loser at 41? Where have I gone wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted a few times about individual problems and worries and have always received help from this forum. Instead of going to a therapist - and I did it 2 years ago - I'm here to ask you what I'm doing wrong. I am of Asian origin and was raised to be a good student, a ... (471 words)

How do I overcome the tremendous sense of guilt I feel towards my ex husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I realize i was only infatuated with my ex husband. I never loved him. Being a college grad and coming out of my parental reclusiveness, i released myself to passionate moments. I knew i did wrong because my mother always imposed the rule of marrying as a virgin. But i was ... (362 words)

How do I get him to move out? I feel trapped!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My boyfriend of 4 years lost his job and he had no money and nowhere to go so I said he could stay with me while he sorted himself out. He got a job a year ago and is still living with me and not paying for anything except food because he pays most of what he earns to his ... (241 words)

Do I show him what to do or stick to what's easy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone . This might come across as a bit of an odd question but here goes. Ive just got a new boyfriend hes on the large side body shape im not skinny myself more melissa maccarthy size after her weight loss. Weve not done the deed yet but are planning to soon . My slight ... (147 words)

I feel he doesn't love me enough to get engaged, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now we have a 19 month old daughter together we have talked about getting engaged as we were discussing this yesterday my boyfriend said he doesn't want to get engaged but we will if I want to am I right to be upset about ... (115 words)

This girl keeps texting and ringing my boyfriend, what should we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this girl who keeps ringing and texting my boyfriend. She rings him like 5 times a day no joke! But my boyfriend doesn't answer, she sent him a message the other day saying how they are meant to be friends and how friends don't ignore each other, he ignored that message ... (163 words)

Previously I messed up. What should I do differently this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. My story is pretty simple. I messed up. Bad. I was with my woman for 6+ years, since we were sophomores in high school. Truth be told I cheated on her. Why? For the longest time I felt like I didn't matter. Like even the littlest things were never noticed or she t... (642 words)

What needs to be done? I am so ashamed. Should I hold back from going into detail about all the online sites I visited?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

19 July 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! so I have this problem. I've been with my girlfriend for going on 6 months, I really and truly care for her. I've gotten close to not only her but her family! She left for Costa Rica a month ago and since then we are alright but my trust issues shot through the roof... (695 words)

My close friends are saying he doesn't like me....what do you think ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I work for a big retail food company. I have a shy male supervisor who has a crush on me .He smiles at me and stares at me, notices little changes in me , gets jealous when guys talk to me gets all nervous and blushy around me but very talkative with other girls/pe... (128 words)

Were his family opposed to me? Or did he just want me for one thing? We broke up but he said we could still be FWB.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met this guy nearly 2 years ago, we were really good friends. He then became flirty with me and I had an attraction to him, but then he said we could just be fwb I guess I couldn't go through with this idea and we agreed to continue being friends, he informed me he was l... (499 words)