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Archived questions from: 11 July, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Guy I'm dating is leaving for an internship, Can you please help me make sense of what is happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating a guy I feel very comfortable with, we both open up a lot and there is a lot of safety, good feels, and emotional connection. However, we both know its short-lived. He's leaving for a great internship and may not move back after his internship ends (he got a job of... (401 words)

O reply from potential date with friend do I block them

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , i recently asked on here for advice about asking a friend on a date he said he would think about it and the advice was to let him have 3-4 days to get back to me . well its been 8 days he hasnt made any effort to contact me at all , i have resisted the urge to message him ... (228 words)

I thought I stonewalled my wife from saving up for breast surgery but she's raised money on a website!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Angry at wife for finding her on a free breast implant website. How should I make her stop? I've been married to my wife for 10 years and we have two children together. Six months back, she said to me how unsatisfied she's been with how her breasts look and wants to have an... (461 words)

Do I try to rein in my feelings for the guy at work? Or tell him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got close to a guy at work while I've got a bf of around a year. I can't get the guy from work out my head especially since we kissed one night after a few drinks. We agreed we can't talk outside work anymore for our partners becoming suspect but we're still really ... (118 words)

My boyfriend's boring stare at other women is really getting to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 years it's always been a happy relationship up until recently I've noticed my boyfriend has a wandering eye he told me at the beginning that he likes pale blue eyes and long blonde hair I've got dark blue eyes and long dark hair it's ... (183 words)

We've broken up but keep seeing each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex broke up with me 3 months ago now as he didn't like being in a relationship. Ever since we have talked a lot and met up (mostly when drunk after nights out) and every time we are both out, there is always an issue when one of us get annoyed or there is a argument but we ... (639 words)

How do I bear this deep hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Thanks in advance to anyone who reads this to help. How do you move forwards after your husband has betrayed your trust? He has, in my eyes, emotionally cheated on me with another woman who he messaged more than he's bothered messaging me in years and makes more of an effor... (458 words)

Should I disown her for rejecting my name?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

11 July 2016 (M)

age - This may be an inappropriate question for this site but I am furious with my daughter. She is 29 and she has recently announced that she plans to get a legal name change, and I am boiling mad. I have a mind to disown her. Even though her mom and I are divorced, her mom is ... (659 words)

I feel he doesn't put enough into this relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Please don't judge, I have never had a LDR. That being said I have had a crappy relationship and I know how I want to be treated. I made the decision just recently to be exclusive w/a guy I had known for a month, who had to move out of state. I really care for this guy and we ... (260 words)

I have been in a relationship with a married man for 3 years. How do I walk away from him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with a married man for 3 years. We have known each other for 40 years. We were together 38 years ago went our own ways and ran into each other for lunch and the rest is history. We love each other very much but I can't take the ups and downs much ... (115 words)

How can foster love between my mothe and my son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I have a 9-year-old son. He's a very loving child, but he is also a know-it-all and he talks back a lot. I'm trying to reel this in. The problem is my mother chooses not to deal with him a lot of times. He's been this way since he could talk, but I find it odd that ... (314 words)

Have my feelings changed towards my married lover?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (F) age 41-50 - I've been with my married lover for a few years. He has gone on vacation with his wife several times over the course of our affair, leaving me behind. I know it's an affair and nobody approves. But I am not here for that part of it. I am just trying to figure it all ou... (497 words)

Should I tell my bullying sister-in-law off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age - What do I do if my nerving bully of a sister in law comes in and says something smart about me not going to my husband s doctors appointment. Its at 11 30 my daughter attends a day support program 5 days a week her van has certain times can pick and drop her off and I need t... (103 words)

My boyfriend's assistant is inappropriate! How do I get him to set boundaries?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a new assistant of 3 months. She is too comfortable around him and especially in our home. He invited her to hang out with our friends and she made a very bad first impression. She starts smoking weed, talking about how she deals, helping herself to stuff in my ... (346 words)