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Archived questions from: 25 July, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did it mean anything or was it just the drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I need help to figure out this guy's behavior. We have been friends since a long time now and went out on dates as well. We never had a physical rel but he knew I was into him. He is an introvert and too shy to even ask me out for dates. He seemed interested to be FWB and ... (200 words)

How do you get your guy to seperate physical affection and sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - He does do some things seperately like holding hands or hugging. But like tickling or cuddling or play fighting always leads to sex! I really like sex but this makes me feel used, like everything he did was for sex. It'd be nice if he just jerked himself off sometimes. I mean ... (80 words)

Healthy eating is a bone of contention

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi please advise. My boyfriend is trying to have a healthier lifestyle because he is about 20 pounds overweight so he's trying to eat right, etc. I myself (in my opinion) should probably be around 125 but I' almost 140, so I'm at the upper end of the healthy range. The proble... (293 words)

Why would someone go out of their way to not be searchable on social media and delete their online date profile on the day we were due to meet the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would someone go out of their way to not be searchable on social media and delete their online date profile on the day we were due to meet the first time? Wed been chatting for over a week through a site and thought we were getting on ok. Had to reschedule our original ... (140 words)

Is it OK to steal him from his girl friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I fancy my brother's close friend. He's two years older than me but I've known him for years. We've always had a thing many people have said he has a thing for me. He sadly has a gf with a girl I know but I am single now and he's been quite flirty with me. For example he pulled ... (164 words)

I do love him, but was I right to break up with this man who is childish and one sided in his behaviour towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years and he recently broke up with me. He has a total of 6 kids and I have only 1, all of his kids are grown except for 2 whose ages are 16 and 9. He gets them every other weekend, so I thought I would let him enjoy the kids by lett... (205 words)

I feel we have a blessed life. Yet due to his responses I ask, am I married to a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I am wondering if I am married to a narcissist? I have been with my husband for ten years and I have never cried so much in my life than I have in these ten years. When someone says you are lucky to have the wife you have or your wife is beautiful instead of agreeing or t... (548 words)

Porn and masturbation and the ex. How can I raise these issues with him with it escalating to his usual angry response of, none of your business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age - My bf have been together for 4 years on and on, mostly just seeing each other on the weekends. With in those 4 years I have been on my edge with him knowing he Jacks off every morning watching porn or some sort activities with porn on his computer. I tried to ask him why, ... (173 words)

Does my obliging nature cause women to think I'm too boring a guy, for them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

25 July 2016 (M)

age - Am I boring in relationships, I like going out dancing to live bands, taking walks in parks, going shopping,going to movies, holding hands, nice places to go eat, I like cooking, if a woman needs help at her place, I can do a lot when it comes to fixing things, I like giving ... (156 words)

I'm so sick of the games that my husband's ex has been playing. When will this stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - When do the games stop?Do we have to grin and bear it? I have a situation where my husband and I have been married for twenty years. My whole marriage the ex has been in the picture with his family. I came along 2 years after they were divorced. They have one daughter together ... (496 words)

I dislike my boyfriend because he's low-income and I have to keep providing for him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it wrong for me to dislike my boyfriend because he is low income? I live with both parents who have good jobs and I get allowance. I should be getting a job at the age of 20 but I am in college. My boyfriend is 23 and in college as well but doesn't get any allowance because ... (155 words)

How can I stop being so miserable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

25 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I change my negative mindset ; it seems I'm never satrafied and I have hit a rock bottom lately now that my relationship is over - in the grand scheme of themes the short relationship I was in wasn't great - he wasn't a great guy and I basically hung on because I've ... (183 words)