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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How long do I give him to decide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , I decided to bite the bullet and ask my friend out , there is some chemistry between us and he has told me he does like me in that way . he said he would think about it . How long would you give someone to think ? i dont expect him to get back to me within 24 hrs but i ... (74 words)

What kind of man is he? And what kind of relationship can I expect with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have been chatting with a man I met on a business website we have been chating for 20 days, from the first few days when he added me on Facebook he said that he liked me but he felt he was too old for me which is 20 year difference, but I told him age is only a number, ... (350 words)

Do I leave my new job after only one week, and how should I go about it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys :-) so I hope no one minds but I have a career question here, I've been stressed about it all week and as the DC community are so lovely I thought I would ask here. Anyway I'm 23 and have been working in a public sector office job for just over a year now. It's n... (446 words)

He seems to be losing interest in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years now we have a 1 yr old daughter together the problem is he seems to have lost interest in me I'm no different from when I had our daughter I'm the same size as I was pre pregnancy he is always staring at other women it can ... (107 words)

Am I right in thinking this is rude and unprofessional?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

4 July 2016 (F) age 41-50 - A friend of mine recommended me for a translating job. I was supposed to translate 30 short texts in 3 months. That was the deal. Even though the money wasn't great, I accepted the offer since the employer was a person of good reputation. In this case it was of primary ... (285 words)

Warned that he was a bad boy but I still stay

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so, I met a guy through a dating app,he looked cute to me, and we started off really well. Turns out,he is an acquaintance of a really close friend of mine,and she instantly warned me of his bad boy ways,it wasn't really difficult to believe her.I and that guy got really ... (142 words)

Dreams about a former professor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I'm not sure why I am having dreams about another man. I am in a happy relationship and I am 20 years old. I occasionally have dreams about being with a different man emotionally and physically though. Aht surprises me is that the man in my dream is an English professor ... (251 words)

What satisfaction do some men get from sleeping with so many different women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - What satisfaction do some guys get from sleeping with so many different women? Seriously, what satisfaction does one get from this? It really perturbs me that there are men like this out there. Men who think it's nothing to sleep with their friend's girlfriend or get it on with ... (121 words)

I'm just confused? Is he either low key in love with me or obsessed or just crazy? What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't want to make this too long. Basically, I dated this dude, it was long distance. Blah blah. Let's call him “C” . C” and I dated from like, November 2014 till March 2015. We were basically the perfect couple and I couldn't go a minute, let alone a second, without ... (690 words)

False rumor. Then cheating.I forgave him. Am I a mug? Have I done the right thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 16 months now. Then this weekend a rumour spread about me and another guy which wasn't true, I told my boyfriend about said rumour before it got to him by other means and he told me he believed me. He defended me all night, even ... (326 words)

How can I now deal with things that I now wish I did not know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

4 July 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I were doing spring cleaning and I came upon a set of her old notebooks. At first they seemed like ordinary college notes. But as I read on, I read about her past sexual addictions and how uncontrollable she was when it came to sex. I try not to be judgmental be... (146 words)

How to create a life of my own after hiding behind ex for 6 years?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I regretfully revolved my life around his for 6 years. It was emotionally abusive, am trying to work on my self esteem after it was battered for years. I am starting to realize in many ways this is a good thing that I was dumped. It did blindside me and I never thought ... (240 words)

What should I be doing to get him to talk to me again, and not let me down again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I needed your help with my love life. I met a guy in june he is really sweet and nice we both liked each other a lot then he started acting weird ignoring me and not wanting to talk to me I didn't know what I did to trigger him to do that and the third week he told me we shou... (213 words)

Now separated and some of the men I meet are a disappointment. Why are they so blunt about asking for sex when they don't know me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married for 20 years and now dating again as I separated from my husband. Nothing tragic, just grew apart though still friends and civil with each other. One daughter, away in college who is really cool with the situation . Men I meet: terrible. One worth th... (232 words)

How can I take a stand on my controlling sister? She is making life difficult.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister and I are very close, she's always had insecurities but her current boyfriend seems to be making them worse, not by abuse at all, but lack of attention and assurance. He suffers from anxiety which leads him to be distant with no sex drive whatsoever.. She takes this ... (250 words)

Freedom to interact with others curtailed due to family rules. Why can't people leave things alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

4 July 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Every social media I get is ruined for me! I used to be on live journal a long time ago, when I was 16. i tried to use it when no one was looking but when my dad backdated the computer, he saw it and browsed but only came up with my username. It was all friends only and my f... (560 words)