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writes:Why did he tell me he always looked for porn of women who looked like his ex yet when I asked him if he ever did that with me whilst we are apart ( LDR) he said he did only once . It makes me feel very unattractive to him when we can't be together in person and he'd rather look at women very different to me. Yet when he was with his ex and even after they broke up he would look for women in porn who looked like her Does this mean he is only emotionally attracted to me and thinks im physically not as attractive as his ex or the other women in porn because that's how I feel.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2015):
 Maybe he feels that he doesn't need to look at other women that look like you. The thing with porn is it is there for people to get a quick thrill out off. You will know yourself when you are both together if he is attracted to you or not. When you are together physically does he make you feel wanted and loved? If so then I wouldn't worry to much about your relationship.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 October 2015):
 I don't think so many women just coincidentally look like his ex. He is either still hung up on his ex or he says things to make you insecure. The best kind of boyfriend would stop looking at porn, because they have no need. There are better things to do in life. Mediocre men try to hide it and feel guilty. Assholes flaunt what they are doing and make sure you know you don't look like the women he picks. The point is, you shouldn't have to look like a porn star to be physically attractive to him. Physical attraction, emotional attraction, don't matter to him. What matters now is that he has someone he can hurt emotionally so he can feel bigger than you. I don't think a man who's emotionally attracted to you can say something so disrespectful, or get a kick out of your reaction to this.
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