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writes:Please read this all to understand my question more. Hello. First I would like to thank every one on this site. You have helped me a lot. Sadly, another problem has arised. First let me tell you about the girl that I fell In love with. We met during a summer band meet. She had a crush on me first but i didn't really noticed it until she got cold one day then I let her borrow my jacket. She wanted to sit by me everywhere and we became buddies and she asked fur my number. We text all the time back then. At first I got scared so I told her that this relationship isn't going to happen. (I said it nicely but it was the worst mistake of my life) I missed her hanging around me so I tried to gain her friend ship back. After I did, I asked her out. I was so happy when she said yes. We hold hands we had our first kiss in her room b while watching TV. That was the first time either of us has kissed someone. I had a fear which I asked with my last question but after I talked to her we worked it out. I go over to her house all the time. She let me feel under her shirt and in the out side of her pants. (Please don't say this is disgusting. I see it as gaining her trust and more of her love) The most we ever been alone was a couple of minutes so we don't have the opportunity to do anything else.Here's my problem. I've been thinking about sex and I know she had to. She hasgotten the talk from her mom and I have gotten condoms from her dad. Her mom was going to leave us alone for a couple of hours before I had a school emergency. I admit that I want to know what sex feels like but more than that I want her to trust me enough to be her first time and i know she trusts me enough. What should I do? I love her so much and we're ready and yes we have protection.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 April 2015):
 How long have you two dated?
And HAVE you talked to her about it?
Having the opportunity (home alone and condoms) doesn't always means sex should be the next thing to do.
You have been feeling HER up, but has she been curious about you? Or is it a little one-sided? If she maybe she isn't as ready as you are.
The fact that she lives at home does make it a bit harder to find the right time, and honestly I can't imagine having to "pencil in" your first time. I'd say LET her set the tempo. Tell her to LET you know WHEN she is actually ready. One thing is feeling ready in the heat of the moment, another is to BE ready.
And having condoms is good, but do you KNOW how to put them on properly?
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