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writes: I just met my boyfriend about three months ago. We met on-line on a singles dating service. We started dating seriously after two weeks but before we started dating I told him that I had lied to him about the number of sexual partners I had in my past. He was very upset that I lied to him about that but still took our relationship to the next level. During that time he did not really like it when I would go out with my friends and he would send me angry messages on my phone whenever I was over a friend's house. Just recently I had told him the complete truth that I again did not tell him the honest amount of people that I had slept with and told him the complete number. Again he was very mad but still decided to stay with me. Now he keeps bringing the issue up that I lied to him and keeps asking me if there is anything else that I need to tell him. I had told him everything, from how many people I had kissed in the past, how many people I slept with, and how many people I dated. He still does not trust me. Now he does not want me to hang out with my friends at all unless he is there with me. He doesn’t even want me to hang out with my best girlfriend that I have known since 5th grade and he threatens to break up with me if I do. I really love this guy and connect with him on everything else except for my friends. It’s only been three months but our relationship has moved really fast. His family adores me as I adore them. My parents really liked him in the beginning but now that are not so sure about him. What should I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 October 2005):
 Run and don't look back.
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (6 October 2005):
 'I really love this guy and connect with him on everything else except for my friends'!!!
That statement alone says you dont connect with him at all!! If he doesnt get along with any of your friends, what sort of connection is there between the both of you! I mean think about this, you can;t even choose who you wanna hang out with? Damn, this is really sad. I say ditch him and move on...you'll find many more men who're less controlling of you.
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reader, One Of The Ancients +, writes (6 October 2005):
Danger! This guy is demonstrating classic controller/abuser characteristics!
Moving in fast, isolating you from friends and family, declaring undying love, claiming "you're all I need", manipulating your actions, and getting unnecessarily angry over little issues are all the signs of an abuser. PLEASE think twice about your relationship with this man.
I urge you to go to this website and read just a little. It could save you from being hurt, emotionally and physically.
http://www.mvwcs.com/redflag.html
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reader, Ellen +, writes (6 October 2005):
you should run like hell. he is just using your lie(which alot of females do fib about that one)as an excuse for his controlling actions.
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