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writes: Ok from March to August my bf fancied my "friend", I went on holiday and he tried getting kisses off her etc. She didn't try to stop him (as far as I know). When I came back they flirted infront of me so much I cried there and then. When I confronted him he said he was sorry, but she said oh well and changed the subject.Now I'm pregnant by him, he's stopped the feelings etc, and he said he realises I'm better than her and he loves me and has too much to lose if he loses me. So now I totally trust him again but not her. They are friends but I'm not good friends with her now.She tries to get him alone, make me jealous and tells him secrets that I "can't" know. She sends him emails and texts with a million kisses on the end etc. I've told my bf I don't like her, or him being alone with her as I don't trust her. I'm worried cause I don't know what she's plotting, he told me if anything happens he'd stop being friends with her. But I don't want her to have the opportunity to break my heart. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2005): I dont think you should just trust him. I went through the EXACT problem. (only i wasnt pg) i knew he liked her and she liked him and they claimed to be just friends. i hated the fact they were friends, but i could never stop it. so i trusted him and let them be "friends". i found out that the whole time they were "frinds" they had benifits. go with your gut feelings. if he really loves you he would never want you to feel uncomfortable the way you do. he would no longer be her friend. but he likes something abuot thier friendship....
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reader, Calidus +, writes (8 November 2005):
You'll just have to trust him to not be an idiot and cheat with that women.
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