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writes: I had been seeing this girl on and off for a few months, we had our ups and downs but I really tried hard to make things work.The last month of our relationship was the best, we didnt argue or fall out and we had a great time together. But then, just as things were going so well she told me that she didnt really want to be with anyone at the moment. I was completely heartbroken, the worst thing is that I work with her and have to see her all the time.Also I have become aware that she is now seeing other guys. I feel completely discarded and because I live in such a small town I have to see or hear about her all the time.It's been about a month or so since she broke it off and I don't feel any better, how can I get over this? I find it hard when I go to work and I have to see her, let alone talk to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2005): Be strong. She couldn't have cared for you that much to jump into dating other guys right away. Does she act awkward when you two encounter one another? She she seem uncomfortable? If not, then she's clearly moved on, and though it may hurt now, you can too. Think of all the other wonderful women you can meet and that will care for you as much as you do for them. Let the past go because it's not coming back to you. If she though about you and wanted you like you do her, she wouldn't be so easy going about things. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2005): I really feel for you in this situation. The only advice that i truely think will be of any real help to you is that times a healer. I know that must make you think great theres nothing i can do to make this any better and maybe for now all you can do is hold your head up high and not be dragged down by someone who is obviously not as caring and sensitive as you are. Shes clearly not ready to settle down with anyone and sounds to me like you also might be a bit too good for her. So basically in time your feel better about it, maybe even be able to chat with her like nothing happened but more importantly in time you'll meet someone who wants the same as you and you'll look back on this and think god why was i so upset.
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