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writes: I have had a boyfriend for 3 years but I'm really confused about him. You see sometimes he is so nice to me he is really sweet and loving. I know he loves me he has proven it to me. But sometimes he gets really mad and starts to tell me really mean and hurtful stuff. I mean the stuff he tells me are really hurtful. The other day we went to a family party and he wanted me to dance. I dont know how to dance and he knows it so he got mad and started telling me a lot of bad stuff. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Calidus +, writes (8 November 2005):
Sounds like his abusive to me, if were me in a situation like that id just leave, i dont know how you feel towards him, but if his really abusing you to the point where you cant stand it no more, then do what you need to do and confront him about why he acts like this, if this doesnt weild positive then perhapes you should look at leaving him for someone eho isnt abusive.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (8 November 2005):
get him to see a counsellor. he obviously has a problem with his temper. no matter how good the good stuff is, the bad stuff must be taken into account. even if he's only horrible once a month, it's still once a month too often
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