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writes: HelloI have lived with my boyfriend for 4 years and we plan to marry next year. We are the best of friends and he is really good to me. However, we have never had a real sex life and have no intimacy in our relationship. He looks at a lot of porn and seems to not want to have sex with me at all. (We had counselling about this but nothing was resolved). I have been OK with this until recently when I found myself flirting with other men. One thing led to another and I have started having sex with another man - just because it's missing at home. I feel wretched about this, but what can I do? He seems unable to sort it all out with me.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (8 November 2005):
i know how you feel. i have not cheated on my partner but he looks at porn instead of being intimate with me so i understand your problem. he needs to know how you feel. tell him that if he wants intimacy, it must only be with you. there's a brilliant reply from irish49 in answer to the problem "porn has become my partners main sexual activity" i suggest you read that.
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