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Will the soreness after dry humping pass?

Q.   Me and my new boyfriend were getting a bit heated a couple of days ago, and we ended up dry humping with him on top, the thing is he is quite strong and muscular and he was quite forceful and rough (one of the reasons we haven't had sex yet) but I ...

A.   20 March 2010: yes it will go away like everybody has said. but i have another tip, you be on top next time, therefore he cant be so rough because your in control y'know? email me if your confused lol... (read in full...)

My ex texted wanting another chance

Q.   Well to make a long story short I have been on and off with a guy for about 2 years and he is in college he has done me wrong before and made plenty of mistakes so I ended it and was plannin on endin it for good... Well I started liking someone new ...

A.   20 March 2010: hey, i think you should just get a new man, like YOU said you guys have bee dating off and on for two years. thats along time, and if he keeps hurting you. you shouldnt be with him and, i knw itd be hard cause you guys are good friend. but hes ... (read in full...)

Is he not texting me first anymore because he wants to see if I'm interested enough to start the conversation?

Q.   A few weeks ago, I went away to visit a friend and I met a guy. He lives about an hour and a half away from me, but we hit it off really well. We ended up just walking around and talking for the whole time I was there, and it was awesome. There were ...

A.   20 March 2010: hey, maybe because you guys were talking All day. he might think YOU think its anoying by him texting you so much. thats the thing poeple never look at, the other persons point of view.. Like say you were texteing him, and were like "hey whatsup... (read in full...)

My gf has really bad trust issues...what should I do?

Q.   0k. so me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost two years now. We live together. We even moved to a totally different city 4 hrs away from our hometown. We know no one but ourselves. But somehow she keeps finding ways to accuse me of ...

A.   20 March 2010: hey, you shouldnt just get up and leave. exspecially if she already tinks your cheating. you need to sit her down, and make her talk with you. you guys seem pretty close. so you i dont know why she wouldnt already trust you, seeing that you guys... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant from this?

Q.   Last night my boyfriend and I were fooling around and he was rubbing his penis on my vagina. I was on top of him and he continued rubbing until he came. Could I become pregnant from this? Should I take a pregnancy test?? Thankyou...

A.   8 March 2010: so let me make something clear, its a FACT that Pre-cum does NOT have sperm in it, so thats NOT ganna get your prego. letting him rub himself agenst ou probably wont either,i wouldnt worry. but yes take plan B just to make sure.... (read in full...)

Question on G-spot and fingering

Q.   okay my boyfriend is kinda self-conscious about his eh, performance when he fingers me. and he does very good but he never hits my G-Spot and has never expressed an interest to do so. But i really want him to because when i finger myself if feels re...

A.   21 April 2009: you can also try, just moveing his hand to where you want him to go, and if he moves it just keep moving it back time to time, im sure he will get the hint. anything else, message me.... (read in full...)

I just want to know is this wrong?

Q.   I am 16 and me and my brother's cousin (my step cousin) really like each other we have not done anything yet. I just want to know is this wrong?...

A.   13 January 2009: ifyou guys are blood related, thats kinda weird. but like a 2nd cussin or a close friend you call cussins, thats nothing to be worried about.... (read in full...)

Not allowed a boyfriend till 16...

Q.   I'm 14 And I've liked this guy for ages, he's been my best friend for two years. And recently he asked me out, we've been going out for about 2 weeks now and our relationship is going great, but there is a problem. My mum won't let me date till I'm...

A.   13 January 2009: dang your dad knows and didnt telly your mom? xP well i just have to say, i think you guys should keep it secret. and see how it goes. about a month in when you have had a bf, and have keeped up your grades i would tell her, be like "mom we ... (read in full...)

So did she have an orgasm?

Q.   im 15 and my girlfriend is 14, we recentley went to the mall, and went into a nursery room where she gave me a hand job and i figered her. i think she got an orgasm but im still not sure, the first time i gave her one she legs started to tremble ...

A.   13 January 2009: i just wanna say something to "PHOBIA MAN" i do agree with everything you say. you have some very good points. but i have something to tell you babe. if there BOTH under 18(the lagal age)its not rape hun. if she was younger and he was 18,o... (read in full...)

Want to be ready for sex-what to do?

Q.   i was in bed last night talking to my boyfriend on the phone and watch porn, so i need to really stick something down there to feel satitsfied. well its been about a year since i've put anything the size of a penis down there, but i've been fin...

A.   13 January 2009: hah, i desagree with the person below me, if YOU think your ready and hes ready too. then do what you both want. dont go with what people say, like so go with yes/no because more people said you should on here. so what you wanna do and if you ... (read in full...)

Going out with my step cousin...

Q.   I am 14 and I am currently going out with my step cousin who is 15. We have known each other all my life. But about a week and a half ago I was at her house and we ended up holding hands. So on the 17th I asked her out, she said yes but the same ...

A.   26 December 2008: i dont see the problem in it, she says she likes it. so keep doing it. maybe skip a time or so when you guys are togther.? if shes breatheing hard, or moaning your doing good and keep doing it, that means she does really like it :D anything els... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant while on my menstrual taking Metformin?

Q.   I've heard it is possible to become pregnant being on your menstrual but I was curious about if there was a higher chance pf becoming pregnant being on your menstrual and taking metformin. ~Extra Info~ *I haven't had a normal menstrual in...

A.   21 December 2008: i would wait about 2 weeks and take another one RIGHT when you wake up,(thats when they worke the most) but anything else. it just seams like you could have a cold. But im thinking you could be.. because like i said My sister took hospital tests ... (read in full...)

Should I shave my pubic hair for a first time fingering?

Q.   im a fourteen year old girl, and today a boy asked me if id like him to finger me. i think i would, but i feel self conscious because i have very small boobs, only a 34AA/A. also, my friends say they shave all their pubic hair, but i dont. i dont ...

A.   18 December 2008: ok this is kinda a late answer but i wanted to answer this, it dont matter it your 14 or 30 everyones ganna avenchaly have sex. thats your choice on when you do it, just use a condom and maybe comnciter birthcontrol. -from the top, shaving. i do i... (read in full...)

Should I be more vocal during sex?

Q.   I'm a virgin, but during oral sex and foreplay (I guess you could say), I've had an orgasm. I only get "sexual" with my boyfriends. So recently, my boyfriend and I have been doing a little bit more than 1st base. I feel pretty lucky since I do tend ...

A.   18 December 2008: hello there, i dont think you should change your ways, because you think your to "quiet" when you are getting oral or anything, my boyfirned has told me it "turnes him on and sounds hot" when i moan or breath heavly. but i have asked some of my g... (read in full...)

He thinks I want to break up with him... but I don't!!!!

Q.   My boyfriend randomly showed up at house after I ate some spicy food that gave me bad breath. I was home alone and we watched a movie together. He put his arm around me and tried to kiss me. I didn't let him because I didn't want him to smell my ...

A.   18 December 2008: hello there, just tell him. Put him out of his misery xD he sounds good to you, you dont wanna ruin that hes probably just ganna laugh and say your a weirod because he wouldnt have minded. haha just take the chance sweety :)... (read in full...)

How long should I wait before texting her??

Q.   i am asking for a little advice! ive been kinda talkin wit this girl, but just through emails and her house phone bc she didnt want me to have her cell # just yet! well tonight she gave me her cell and told me she wanted me to have it. im the type ...

A.   18 December 2008: wow, i dont no if my boyfriend was always with another girl i would kill the bitch xD but if i was with my guy friend and my boyfriend called i would so go see him.. but thats just me. i have alot more guy friend then i have girls, but i dont E... (read in full...)

I know he's stalking my internet profile...

Q.   I'm a bit confused... Llong story short... we were friends for a long time... had a fight didn't talk for 5 months... then he said he missed me a lot and wanted to go out with me... I agreed... 2 months went by I said something he didn't like ...

A.   18 December 2008: hmm, he seams like he likes you but hes ashamed to admit it. maybe you should talk to him.. and be like dude what the eff. y'know? talk to him about it.. Thats the best thing i can say, if he wants to date whyd be break up with you..and now hes ... (read in full...)

How long should I wait before texting her??

Q.   i am asking for a little advice! ive been kinda talkin wit this girl, but just through emails and her house phone bc she didnt want me to have her cell # just yet! well tonight she gave me her cell and told me she wanted me to have it. im the type ...

A.   16 December 2008: yeah, i agree with the other person. She gave you Her number. Me being a girl, im certin thats what she wants. before me and my boyfriend were dating we talking ALOT threw email, and it was kinda the oppisite for us. He gave me him number and t... (read in full...)

Sex education? What should I read?

Q.   well i just wanted to be educate myself on sex education..here are a few things i wanna know...what's a clitoris in a woman???what is a sperm count??...

A.   16 December 2008: okay a ctit is something found in the womans vagina, and when a man(or yourself)rubs agenst it. it will make the woman get turned on/ a sperm count, when a Guys turned on or has sex with a partner hes penis will become hard, and when its just the ... (read in full...)

My BF wants to have sex, but I'm scared that it will hurt too much!!

Q.   lately my bf (of almost a year) and i have been joking around about sex we usually do foreplay and we both orgasm. were both virgins and i think he wants to take the next step so do i but im afraid its gonna hurt to muchh!! he says he'll be gentle ...

A.   15 December 2008: hey, your both virgins. so sadly to say the pains probaly not going to be that bad, because its probably not going to last that long. and, this is comming from a girl who just had sex, and we had about 30 condoms. and didnt use any i mean ZERO ... (read in full...)

They're calling my boyfriend a pedophile

Q.   im 13 and my boyfriend is 16. we have only been going out for a week but we like eachother and have known eachother for a long time. Thing is people at school are calling him a pedophile even though hes not. we hav never had sex but we have kissed ...

A.   12 December 2008: yes, you should do what most people are saying, as long as you love him and he loves you you shouldnt care what people think or say about you. your taller hes shorter.. it shouldnt matter. your only 3 years apart thats not even that much. m... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my out-of-control 5 year old brother?

Q.   My brother (who's 5) lives with me and my boyfriend (for personal reasons). My bro keeps swearing at me or my boyfriend when he's not getting his way. I put him in time outs almost everyday. He'll stay in time out like 2 seconds then he'll ran off ...

A.   12 December 2008: wow, i have a little brother and he was like that too have you tryed putting soap in his mouth?.. my mom would also reward him with a new toy, or a treat when he came home from school with a good report. i hope that helps. :) xX... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant while on my menstrual taking Metformin?

Q.   I've heard it is possible to become pregnant being on your menstrual but I was curious about if there was a higher chance pf becoming pregnant being on your menstrual and taking metformin. ~Extra Info~ *I haven't had a normal menstrual in...

A.   11 December 2008: wow, im thinking you are. my sister was going through stuff like that and we just found out she was. and even when she took tests it said no for like the last 6 times she did, and this time it just happen to say yes. and shes about 2 months ... (read in full...)

Can I deduce that he's bisexual from his AdultFriendFinder account?

Q.   Dear friends, I am really shocked as i have discovered that my boyfriend of three years has an adultfriend finder account. I would have never expected such a thing from a guy who is so conventional in sex and so serious. Also, even though his ...

A.   11 December 2008: wow, thats crazy i dont no what to say even if he is/was bi that dont change anything.. you shouldnt change how you feel or anyhing like that, maybe he didnt tell you because he didnt no how to.. or that was his past and he wants to just leave i... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to induce a miscarriage if I'm pregnant!

Q.   My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and now the worry of pregnancy is in thought. He said that he had everything figured out and if I did end up pregnant he would be there for everything (that was before). Now that he has talked to his dad about ...

A.   11 December 2008: hello, Dude dont even let him tell you what to do. your the one that has to have the baby. Recently me and my boyfriend had sex, and i though i was going to end up prego because we didnt use a condom. and he asked me about an abortion, an... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex with me!

Q.   Okay, there's a guy I really like. He's 17 and I've known him for a while. We're really good friends, but he wants to have sex with me. Should I agree to it? I'm kind of nervous, but how can I reject him? I don't want him to hate me as a ...

A.   11 December 2008: hey, i think you should wait tell you ready. its not hard to say no. you shouldnt do anything your ganna regret. i no how it is to wanna do something because the guy wants to or because hes like hella hot and you just wanna throw him dont and do ... (read in full...)

Do you still bleed after sex even if you've used tampons?

Q.   Do you still bleed the first time you have sex even though you have used tampons before?...

A.   9 December 2008: as someone else said, every girl is different. when me and my boyfriend took eachotheres virginity's i blood close to nothing and i dont use tampons. so yeah, everyones different.... (read in full...)

As a 9th grader do you think that I should be nervous to reveal myself or I should feel normal.

Q.   Hi, I'm 14, and in a serious relationship that I think may become sexual with this girl. However my penis is only 5 inches and I am not very hairy there yet? As a 9th grader do you think that I should be nervous to reveal myself or I should feel ...

A.   9 December 2008: hey, as a 9th grader. your not ganna be like 30 inches long anyways. and as of not haveing alot of hair. most guys shave it anyways, so atleast your lucky and dont have hot, and the girl dont have alot to deal with. if you and your girl are be... (read in full...)

She wants me then she doesn't! Why does she keep doing this?

Q.   I'm 14 and I have a girlfriend, we've been going out for a long time and we were at the movies so we made out. But whenever we started making out, within seconds she would push me off and turn away like she didn't want to any more. Then a couple ...

A.   9 December 2008: hola, wow that would make me so mad. i just have to say if she dont wanna kiss you, then dont kiss her back when she pulles you to het maybe YOU should stop and see how she likes it.. ... (read in full...)

Is there a way for me to show her that I am in real love with her?

Q.   I'm 14 years old, and there's this girl I've known since kindergarten. Everyone found out I had a crush on her in the 3rd grade including her. My 8th grade year was my first school year without her, so I tried to shake my crush. However, after a few ...

A.   9 December 2008: hello, i am 15 so i no what your going threw. me and my boyfriend have been dating about 13 months. and when we were just friends i had a major crush on him, but i didnt wanna tell him and make it all weird. well one day about 3 months us us tal... (read in full...)

I'd like advice about losing my virginity

Q.   I want to lose my virginity with my boyfriend.We are both virgins,and both the same age.Anyone have any tips on how the first time should be ?.So far,i have been on top of him while we were both wearing our underwear.I was just wearing my knickers ( ...

A.   9 December 2008: hey, i just recently went threw what your trying to do. me and my boyfirend just had sex, and he went down on me as well for the first time. before we did any of this we would do what you guys were doing, as in just fourplay and dryhumping. wit... (read in full...)

I'd like advice about losing my virginity

Q.   I want to lose my virginity with my boyfriend.We are both virgins,and both the same age.Anyone have any tips on how the first time should be ?.So far,i have been on top of him while we were both wearing our underwear.I was just wearing my knickers ( ...

A.   9 December 2008: hey, i just recently went threw what your trying to do. me and my boyfirend just had sex, and he went down on me as well for the first time. before we did any of this we would do what you guys were doing, as in just fourplay and dryhumping. wit... (read in full...)

First time sex and didn't use a condom, help!

Q.   Ok, so lastnight me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time. and we didn't use a condom, he pulled out and everything but he told me theres a slight chance that it could have got inside of me. i still have like a week before i ushualy get my p...

A.   8 December 2008: hey guys, so i started my period today, so thats good. so im just guessing nothing happened. or hopeing.. -yes NEVER again. -and i am trying to get the curage to tell my mom that im atleast thinking about sex. so i can get put on the pill -and m... (read in full...)

First time sex and didn't use a condom, help!

Q.   Ok, so lastnight me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time. and we didn't use a condom, he pulled out and everything but he told me theres a slight chance that it could have got inside of me. i still have like a week before i ushualy get my p...

A.   8 December 2008: well, we were both virgins so it didnt last that long..at all. ... (read in full...)

Pressurised for sex, how can I avoid ejaculating very fast?

Q.   im getting pressured to have sex at my age and im afraid that i might cum right off the bat as soon as it starts. is there any way to help me not cum so quick?...

A.   8 December 2008: Well, you dont really have control over it. you can Cum and try to get hard again, and go again. but you i dont really thing you have a choice on when you do.... (read in full...)

I just like to flirt and I think its fun being single.

Q.   I really dont know what to do. Someone please help me. Okay so I have a boyfriend. I met this other guy and have been flirting with him (online) he seems really nice and he wants to hang out. He even told me he wants to hook up. I at least wanna ...

A.   8 December 2008: i know how you feel, this happened to me. And mostly its lead to cheeting, and thats not fair for your boyfriend. But everyone messes up. All i can say is you should pick one, and leave one behind. :) Good luck, and follow your instincs... (read in full...)

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