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writes:I'm 14 years old, and there's this girl I've known since kindergarten. Everyone found out I had a crush on her in the 3rd grade including her. My 8th grade year was my first school year without her, so I tried to shake my crush. However, after a few dreams that seemed simple and harmless, I realized their deeper meaning, I am in love with this girl. I don't feel like I'm in love or think I am, I know. I've already asked her if there is anyway we can become closer as friends, but I know I'll have to tell her someday, or I'll live a life of regret. Is there a way for me to show her that I am in real love with her without it seeming like I'm trying to take her from her boyfriend? If I know this girl, her boyfriend's a charmer and I don't stand a chance, but I know I can grow closer to her than he can. Can you help me?
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reader, xxidkxx +, writes (9 December 2008):
 hello,
i am 15 so i no what your going threw.
me and my boyfriend have been dating about 13 months.
and when we were just friends i had a major crush on him, but i didnt wanna tell him and make it all weird.
well one day about 3 months us us talking all the time, he texted and me told me 3 girls names he liked. and i had to say who i liked too, well his words about me were"kinda sorta i like you" witch made my face turn so red,and after that i told him the 2 guys i liked and one was him, and the other way my ex who i was dateing at the time. and well me and him didnt work obviously and about 3 weeks later he asked me out thinking i was ganna say no
but hey, you never no whats ganna happen.
you guys have known eacchother forever.
my advice is to Tell her exsactly how you feel.
-message me and tell me what happenes.
i hope i helped.
xX
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