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First time sex and didn't use a condom, help!

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Question - (8 December 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *xidkxx writes:

Ok, so lastnight me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time.

and we didn't use a condom, he pulled out and everything but he told me theres a slight chance that it could have got inside of me.

i still have like a week before i ushualy get my period. and it's only been a day but i am so unbeleverably scared.

any advice D:

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A female reader, xxidkxx United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

xxidkxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question

xxidkxx agony aunthey guys,

so i started my period today, so thats good. so im just guessing nothing happened.

or hopeing..

-yes NEVER again.

-and i am trying to get the curage to tell my mom that im atleast thinking about sex. so i can get put on the pill

-and me and my boyfriend have talked about it alot, and were not ganna even try haveing sex for awhile after this.

he was more scared then me if anything.

and fursure we both agreed that we wouldnt have sex without a condom, untell we are MUCH oler.

thank to everyone that anawered me, i really needed it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

Go to planned parenthood and get the morning after pill, you still have time!!

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A female reader, KDKTRK0604 United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

KDKTRK0604 agony auntI myself dont believe in the morning after pill....

but there is such a pill out there if you choose to go that route.... But like the male reader said there is that chance because of precum (which is cum the guy lets out during intercouse before he cums) to let you know the mornign after pill you must be 18 years old to buy it in some places and some places wont let a male buy it... just some extra advise what I would do is if it is really bothering you go to adult you trust to be open with talk to them and see what they think but dont get to scared about to situation cause that can really affected your body into telling it your pregnant and your not which always makes stuff worse....

Let me know how it goes

be safe next time please

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A female reader, xxidkxx United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

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xxidkxx agony auntwell, we were both virgins so it didnt last that long..at all.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

That was incredibly stupid. Small quantities of semen come out prior to 'cumming' and you could get pregnant from it. To be safe I'd run to the pharmacist and get the morning after pill.

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