After I masturbated, it felt wrong, but I want to do it again. What do you think?
Q. Ive been really missing my boyfriend recently because weve both been away and had alot of stuff on. I havent had sex with him for about a month and tbh i really want to and really am missing it. When i talked to this to my best friend she sugge...
A. 13 September 2009: Nothing wrong with masturbating as long as is done with CLEAN fingers or toys, like a dildo or a vibrator. By now, 2 months have gone past since you logged your question, you have had some encouraging replies by other readers. The feeling of guilt... (read in full...)
Men: What do you look for in a girl when you want a long term relationship?
Q. Quick question for men: what do u like from a girl at the beggining ? What is the thing that u look for a girl that u think in a long term relationship with her?...
A. 23 July 2009: Virginity for one, or ,if she was virgin when she got married and she is now a widow, that the husband was the only man she 'knew'.
Frank... (read in full...)
I know this is a relationship cul-de-sac, but it's so exciting. What should I do?
Q. I am currently in a realationship with my boyfriend of three months,although this seems like a short period of time to be serious,he has introduced me to all his family and friends and there is a very strong bond there.However,he is leaving in two ...
A. 22 July 2009: stop!... (read in full...)
Do teen girl masturbate as often as teen boys?
Q. hi, do teenage girls masturbate as often as teenage boys?...
A. 19 July 2009: Dear boy, check in the internet (Google search)under 'masturbate' and 'masterbate' as well as '----ion' and you will be surprised, if you haven't been the already, to see the tests and studies that doctors have done, especially in relation with ... (read in full...)
I'm not really sure why we broke up...did he get cold feet or felt that he wasnt a good boyfriend?
Q. Here's my story/summary: I apologize for the lengthy summary - it was hard to summarize.I mainly need opinions. My bf of 2 mos broke up w/ me. The reason for break up was numerous – one of the reasons: “I cant give u what u want (kids/marriag...
A. 19 July 2009: My dear 26-29 young lady,
I think you are dealing with a mentally ill person who should be professionally examined and, if possible, helped.
Also I think that you should be happy to be free of him.
Try to get yourself completely away from him AT ... (read in full...)
Took a pregnancy test and it came back negative....could I still be pregnant?
Q. well I'm 14 and I had sex about a month ago and I think I may be pregnant..I didn't really want to do it with him..Well if I am I refuse to tell my dad..I want to have an abortion if this is the case..but I can't trust anybody!! Geez this is ...
A. 18 July 2009: Dear whit 91, go to your nearest or any clinic.
It is against the law for the to tell you parent.
You can have free tests because you are only 14. You can get the pills that you need to take EVERY day as it says on the box or on the paper.
... (read in full...)
How should I aproach this guy in my class? I'm kind of afraid!
Q. I have a crush on a guy in my class. Everyone says he likes me but I don't know if it's true. There's a week left in school and I'm going to move soon. I want to tell him that I like him, but I'm kinda afraid. I need help ASAP. What can I do? theres...
A. 18 July 2009: Yes! It is like the other answers have told you:
1. Go and speak to him. Tell him you like him and you speak to him now because your family is moving and you would like to be in contact afterward.
2. Don't worry about what other girls think or... (read in full...)
How do you find ways to go about not feeling sexual desire?
Q. It is a bit complicated question.So I'm in my late 40 es and I used to be a modell. I don't want to go on about myself, but I'm attractive ,and sort of smart . Now my husband ,stoped showing any desire a few years ago, and I feel I'm wasting m...
A. 18 July 2009: Your beauty is only skin deep and your question confirms it.
You husband no longer wants you sexually and you say that your are smart but you don't see the reasons why.
Well: maybe you have become fat.
May be you had children and your bo... (read in full...)
I don't like the feel and smell of his anatomy. What can I do?
Q. Started a relationship almost 4 months ago with my b/f We've started messing around. I try my best not to get covered in anything. Don't like the smell and feel. He puts my hand on the tip of his anatamy. The feel of it makes me feel hor...
A. 18 July 2009: Dear 16 or 17 years old: you are not ready for sex!
2. His smell you don't like may be due to the fact that he is dirty or that there is bacteria (germs) or even STD on his penis.
If you go and have sex with him you will end up with that Sexuall... (read in full...)
What can I do to please my husband-to-be that no other woman would do to him?
Q. I'm getting married soon and I know my soon to be husband has a fantasy and I would like to please him but what can I do sexual with a man that no other woman would ever do to him? And what is the meaning of the word full house?...
A. 18 July 2009: Nothing.
It only shows to me that you are naive, possibly even virgin, while he may be the 'swinger' type. Swinger: people who like swapping partners while having a sex orgy or just having sex in the presence of other couples where they can swap... (read in full...)
He realised its no good to continue a relationship that would end eventually
Q. I have written for advises on this site but I never get enough. I always come back for more as I am still as depressed as ever. Somehow, the advises seemed not enough. I will try to make it as short and as accurate as ever. I have been wit...
A. 18 July 2009: Dear depressed girl who doesn't want to give up.
I would very much answer you, but I would like first that you answer these questions of mine, please.
I too am a Christian, and I will answer you from that platform and with the experience of a Bib... (read in full...)
He was my first love but now my ex won't talk to me... Help!
Q. ok here goes!! just before easter my best friend introduced me to this absolutely amazing guy who was into exactly the same things as me. she was going out with his best friend who i knew from auditions at drama schools, and coincidently, the guy ...
A. 18 July 2009: I'll like to know how many males the story involves. Your 'first love' is also your 'ex' or not? I am rather confused by all the people involved. Maybe you will be sweet and follow up your story with a shorter version where I can read who is ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to start again after your husband has an affair?
Q. 3 Months ago my husband slept with someone at his work, I found out and kicked him out we have a 8 year old son. It took about 6 weeks for us to start talking again I went through what every broken hearted women goes through. I loved him a lot. He ...
A. 18 July 2009: Dear Jilted wife, yes, it IS possible to start again!
It will take time for both of you, though.
Tell him straight that you have decided to take him back and to sort out the problems that BOTH of you had, according to what you write.
Tell h... (read in full...)
I didn't want him to hurt himself so I'm going back out with him...but I'm so confused
Q. Okay So im like 15 i know a bit young but i really need advice. see ive been going out with this boy since the beginning of may, but ive liked his friend all the way through the time weve been dating, and well at first i really liked my boyfriend, i ...
A. 18 July 2009: At 15 you should forget b/f all together and concentrate in school work and growing up.
Follow the advice of the other guys: leave him to his problems. If you know his parents talk to them, but leave him all the same.
You'v got some 50 years ah... (read in full...)
Chatting online with his ex....Do you think that's ok?
Q. Do you think it is okay for your fiance to be chatting to an ex on msn??Don't know what they were chatting about but he tells me they don't talk anymore?? ...
A. 17 July 2009: No it is not OK. If he has a relationship with you he should have a relationship with you and not with ex or y or z. Tell him nicely and gently, but if he persists: drop him. He will probably drop you anyway.... (read in full...)
Does this sound like someone who has been sexually abused?
Q. So I have been dating this guy for a few months and I think he might have been sexually abused as a child. He just told me that he is not capable of loving someone in a romantic way, and only loves me as a friend. He also told me once that he will ...
A. 17 July 2009: Dear Young Lady. Your boyfriend sounds as if he may need psychiatric assessment and possibly treatment. Be happy that he respects your virginity and move on. You will never be relaxed nor happy with him. Don't be in a hurry because you are no... (read in full...)
Now I have gotten older guys don't seem to fancy me anymore!
Q. When i was like 13-15 or 16 guys used to fancy me, but now i am 17 i don't think they do? and i have realised guys kinda hate me. does that mean i won't be in a relationship and what am i doing wrong and i'm scared? numerology say i am attr...
A. 17 July 2009: Dear OLDER at 17. Have you changed physically since guys 'liked' you? Have you gone fatter or skinny or changed the clothes you wear? What do you think of me who is 75 and still like to admire young girls? Am I old inside or outside? We n... (read in full...)
He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant part 2
Q. Hey. Don't know if you remember my last problem - "He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant." I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. As you know from my problem both me and his ex are ...
A. 17 July 2009: Dear girl, He made you and the other pregnant. Don't you watch TV shows like footballers wives? Some of these guys do just what this one seems to be doing. Most likely is that he will go and make another pretty girl - they never go for Pla... (read in full...)
He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant part 2
Q. Hey. Don't know if you remember my last problem - "He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant." I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. As you know from my problem both me and his ex are ...
A. 17 July 2009: Dear girl, He made you and the other pregnant. Don't you watch TV shows like footballers wives? Some of these guys do just what this one seems to be doing. Most likely is that he will go and make another pretty girl - they never go for Pla... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's for real or not
Q. i net this guy on msn and he said i was hott! (this is the first boyfriend i have had) ..... he asked me for sex and i said no. than he asked me out, i said yes i dont know how to talk to him and when i do i always sound like a dickhead, he...
A. 17 July 2009: Honey,
I wish you were my daughter and near me so I could help you.
Do as 'Honeypie' suggests: Drop him.
Drop him as a hot potato.
I can assure you that ALL HE wants is to do is rape you and drop YOU! And possibly make you pregnant on the side... (read in full...)
I like guys who look more feminine. Is this normal?
Q. Is it normal for a girl like me to be attracted to androgynous guys? (Like Johnny Depp or David Bowie) I'm 100% straight, but I just have this fetish for guys that are kind of feminine. Is that normal for a woman?...
A. 17 July 2009: Dear girl, is it normal to like banana milk shakes?
Is it normal to like Toasted Avocado pear sandwiches?
Is it norma...?
Of course for you it is normal to like what and whom you like! It is a matter of taste. Tastes are different in dif... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't get me to orgasm and it's causing problems between us
Q. My boyfriend hasn't been able to bring me to orgasm through any method. Not oral, not sex, not fingering, Nothing. So the other day we were having sex, and trying to get me to have an orgasm. And even though we know that if you focus everything on ...
A. 12 July 2009: dear female 26-29,
I won't ask you embarrassing questions you may not wish to answer. You are at just about your best age to enjoy sex and that includes climaxing also.
Perhaps you concentrate too much into: "I must com! I must cum!" instead ... (read in full...)
Looking For a Premature Ejaculation Cure? Here Are Your Options
Q. If you've ever experienced premature ejaculation ("PE"), then you are familiar with the disappointment and embarrassment associated with finishing too quickly. And chances are that if you frequently suffer from premature ejaculation, you are have ...
A. 11 July 2009: Apart from true medical treatment, one way of eliminating all the things that go with Premature ejaculation is to get your wife to first masturbate you (and herself with a dildo or her free hand) and for both to enjoy the time spent together and the ... (read in full...)
Homosexuality versus Christianity
Q. So i wanted to know. Like eversince 15yrs i started finding women attractive and for some reason at age 5 me and my best friend had some lesbo interaction. I dont know what it is but some women just have an affect on me and i end up liking them. Now ...
A. 7 July 2009: Dear lesbian, I wish to help you. I started to write an answer but after thirty lines or so 'Mozilla Firefox' crashed. I suppose I should not have written some the sarcastic comments I made about some of the answers that people who do not their God... (read in full...)
Is my teacher sending signs or is it just my imagination??
Q. 1) He was sitting down with his legs wide open and I couldn't pass. He looked up and smiled. Then, after a few seconds, he moved his legs and let me pass. 2) Very often, he keeps eye contact; once he was gazing at me so much that he lost concentr...
A. 6 July 2009: You are 14 and he is 29.
You are shy and he is not.
According to code of conduct of Teachers he is not even allowed to try and impress a female learner.He could be fired if found out or at least reprimanded etc.
He probably wants sex with you bec... (read in full...)
Do teen girl masturbate as often as teen boys?
Q. hi, do teenage girls masturbate as often as teenage boys?...
A. 6 July 2009: Uncle Frank, a male reader, writes (6 July 2009) I came to this site 'accidentally'. Yet I know that when one is a Born Again child of God, NOTHING happens accidentally. First of all let me acknowledge that I do masturbate, twice yester... (read in full...)
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