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charliefritz
writes:If you've ever experienced premature ejaculation ("PE"), then you are familiar with the disappointment and embarrassment associated with finishing too quickly. And chances are that if you frequently suffer from premature ejaculation, you are have been searching for a cure for some time. I, myself, suffered from PE for several years and tried various options before finally finding my "cure." This article outlines the options available to you to cure premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Option 1: "Just Say No"First of all, this is not a serious cure. However, I bring up this "option," because sadly it is a reaction that some men have to a premature ejaculation problem (admit it, or not). Due to the pain caused by PE and a heightened sense of performance anxiety, some men will go so far as to avoid having sex altogether. Of course, I don't recommend this option. If you are avoiding sex, or have avoided sex in the past, because of performance anxiety, then let this serve as a wake-up call that you should find a real "cure." Hopefully that is why you are reading this article -- to find such a cure. Option 2: "Magic Bullets"By magic bullet, I mean products of all kinds (sprays, creams, pills) that promise astonishing results with absolutely no effort on your part. To be clear, I do not endorse these types of artificial solutions. I subscribe to the philosophy that if something sounds too good to be true, it most certainly is. One example of a "magic bullet" is a spray, such as the Stud 100 desensitizing spray product. This product will "desensitize" you so that you no longer feel the normal, pleasurable sensations associated with sex. It's true that this product can help some men last longer in bed. However, I don't consider it a true "cure" for premature ejaculation, because it's simply masking the symptoms, rather than truly "curing" the underlying root causes of PE.The reason I don't recommend these types of products is because they only address the physical aspects of premature ejaculation. This approach is ineffective is because that only touches the "tip of the iceberg" -- rather than the underlying causes. And in reality, most men fail to last longer in bed because of mental as well as physical triggers. This type of "cover-up" approach won't solve the problem in any meaningful, permanent way.Therefore, if you want to "cure" premature ejaculation, you need to take an approach that truly addresses these root causes, rather than just covering up the symptoms.Option 3: "Rewiring Your Mind and Body (Naturally)"In my personal experience, the most effective cure for premature ejaculation is a natural process -- an education that results in retraining and "rewiring" both your mind and body. In other words, the best way to beat PE is to learn all of the mental and physical causes, and then systematically address them in order to begin lasting longer in bed and enjoying a more fulfilling sex life for you and your partner. For more tips on how to last longer in bed, visit http://www.TheEnduranceReport.com
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reader, uncle Frank  +, writes (11 July 2009):
 Apart from true medical treatment, one way of eliminating all the things that go with Premature ejaculation is to get your wife to first masturbate you (and herself with a dildo or her free hand) and for both to enjoy the time spent together and the result.The have tea or coffee or whatever and half an hour or more later start again. She will have to get you aroused and erected, but knowing what comes next is and aphrodisiac in itself. The second time around lasts longer.Note. 1st ejaculation can discharge up to 350 000 000 sperms.2nd ejac. about 250 000 000. 3rd (within another hour or so) 100 000 000.It will take three or four days for your two testicles to reload you.Another technique is to withdraw the penis prior to the orgasm and to apply to the rim (ridge just below the head of the phallus) a strong pressure between thumb and index and medium fingers.Him or her can do this. Be prepared to squeeze a slippery phallus.Squeeze for about 5 seconds and resume sex, before the phallus becomes too soft.Enjoy your female!uncle Frank
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