Told him to delete my number. Did I do the right thing?
Q. If my bf said he needed a break, but the ext day i see him with another girl, so i tell him to delete my # of his fone... was that the rite thing to do?...
A. 5 April 2009: Yes u did the right thing. I would've done the same exact thing. its his lost, don't stress it. ... (read in full...)
I need some guidence and please do not judge me.
Q. I have been married to my husband for 14 years but my dear husband has been in prison all those years and a bit more. I met my husband before he went in. He was a good person before he got involved with this girl (she passed away in early 90's) that ...
A. 11 March 2009: You need to speak to someone in charge at the prison and let them know ur husband is very sick n he needs medical attention. They can't deny him that. He has no voice, no one there is really going to listen to him. But you do. Start calling arou... (read in full...)
My community and religion do not accept gay people, what do I do?
Q. can any body help me with this ugly situation? well it all started when i was 14 back in the school i notice that i like guys and enjoy chating with them all the time but during that time i never know exactely what is wrong with me i thought ...
A. 11 March 2009: You are who you are. If you choose to like guys then that's it. I don't feel you should keep hiding it. If your father is a man of the cloth, he should be understanding. Plz do not let anyone tell u being gay is a disease because its not. When you ... (read in full...)
Need experienced mature advice from Mothers/Fathers, should I take him back?
Q. Pregnant, should I take him back? need opinions from experienced mothers/fathers? Ok this may be a little long but just had an overwhelming week and feeling kind of lost and confused. Would appreciate EXPERIENCED mature opinions. Me and my ex...
A. 9 March 2009: I feel for you. I know ur bugging out. But I think there's hope. I know what he did was f-ed up. But he was going through something. I have a habit of doing the same thing. When something goes wrong in my life I lash out on other people for no ... (read in full...)
Desperate to have a baby and willing to have sex with anyone to get one
Q. I have a problem, and would love to get some advice/help with it. Thanks!! Okay! I'm single and want a baby so badly that I'm willing to have sex with anyone and then be a single parent. The only problem is, I don't want'a deal with the pa...
A. 7 March 2009: Maybe you feel like a baby will complete you or make your problems disappear. I have no problem with any one being a single parent because I'm one. But believe me its not something you aim for. When you have a baby you want your baby to know and ... (read in full...)
Father of my child wants nothing to do with his son!
Q. Well I met this guy off the net and we dated on and off for about 11 months or so. We even lived together for about 4 months and at the ending of the realationship i became pregnant. He already has 2 kids and had stated on several occasions he ...
A. 3 March 2009: First off I must start off by saying you sound a little ignorant. Being a single mother is not the end of the world. You just have no one to depend on but your self. I'm a single parent and I love it. Why would you want this man around your child if ... (read in full...)
Getting over a bad sexual experience
Q. I'm feeling traumatized. So the second guy I ever tried to have sex with completely crushed me. He asked me up to his room and things progressed, then when i tired to get undressed, he pulls away from me (pushing me off him) and says something ...
A. 2 March 2009: Ok I have to disgaree. I see nothing wrong with just wanting to have sex with a person. Not everyone has to be in a realtionship to have sex. You said you knew the guy for years prior to that incident. I'm assuming the two of you were friends. ... (read in full...)
I need to get my daughter and I out of my husband's house because he hits us, but I have no clue how!
Q. I've been with my husband for three years now, been married to him for two. We have a one year old daughter. My husband started verbally abusing me seven months into our relationship, but I didn't really think anything of it until just two weeks ...
A. 27 February 2009: What state are in in? If that's not asking too much. But I work for a shelter and I'm very resourceful. You need to act quickly. Before god forbid, its too late. If all else fails go to the police. And do not take no for answer. Domestic voilence is ... (read in full...)
How to make a player fall in love with you?
Q. How to make a player fall in love with you. I don't like to play games but I deserve a really cute guy I'm cute and the cute guys are always players. So how to I get myself one?...
A. 18 February 2009: If he's a player, he's not that hard to get. So that's not really an issue. The question is...are you ready to play that game? It may seem cute in the begining. But believe me, it gets boring after a while. Because trust and believe, you will not be ... (read in full...)
I think I am loose!
Q. When I first started dating my now husband, I cheated on him. Now he has mention that I am loose. What do I do. What do I do to not be loose. Is it possible that he was just trying to be mean? I wouldn't put it past him. I have heard that girls are ...
A. 16 February 2009: Try kegal excercises. I heard they work wonders. It tightens your vagina muscles. I can't explain how to do them. Just google them. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant & sad
Q. i'm 15 years old, and im almost 4 months pregnant. the father of the baby, i was with over a year.. then we broke up .. now he is putting alot of stress on me and i don't know what to do, he doesnt want anything to do with the baby or me. but ...
A. 9 February 2009: Its not really much you can do. Obviously your going to have your baby. As far as the babys father goes, don't chase him. A man is only going to do what he wants to do. If he doesn't want to be apart of the babys life, oh well. No need to have your ... (read in full...)
My teasing him forced him to force himself on me!
Q. Ok, my husband has been telling me for weeks now that if I keep teasing him the way I do he would make me carry through with it. I never thought he would actually make me do it, but of course I was dumb enough to push him to it. I know you all will ...
A. 8 February 2009: You didn't deserve anything. No means no. And he should have respected that. I'm sorry you had to go through that. But just sit down with him and explain the situation and how you feel. That's your husband. Your suppose to feel safe around him. ... (read in full...)
How do you move on when there is still hope?
Q. Basically my question is How Do You "Move On" When You Feel There Is Still Hope? But here is my scenario: My (ex)bf and I were together for three years. We were both each others first love and real relationship. We connected in such a positive ...
A. 8 February 2009: You don't have to forget about him. But don't stop living because you know that ya'll might be getting back together. You have to realize that hes still living his life, while your down in the dumps. No it doesn't work like that. You can find ... (read in full...)
Fiance's family is mess! Worried about the reception
Q. I'm getting married soon. And I have a dilema. My fiances family are..a mess. I'm no snob. We both come from the same urban neighborhood. But his family is one of a kind. His fathers always drunk or high. His mother is crazy, certified crazy. I ...
A. 8 February 2009: Sorry. I'm the writer of the post. And I do think that they'll ruin the reception. When his family gets together its a disaster. And this day I will remember for the rest of my life. And honestly if his family ruins it, I will annul the marriage. ... (read in full...)
Damaged goods?
Q. I was hanging with a friend, who likes me. The feeling isn't mutual. He got mad when I told him we would never be together. And he starting putting me down, stating I was damaged goods. Am I damaged goods because I was in a relationship and ended up ...
A. 7 February 2009: Lol. Your absolutely right. Thanx.... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend invades my head at night, what can I do to stop this?
Q. Here is the thing me and my girlfriend broke up after only like 1 month. The bitch never really respected me and I am over her I mean I do not think about her much during the day and I do not really miss her. But when I sleep I can not get her out ...
A. 7 February 2009: Maybe there's something you need to say to her. That's the only thing I can think of. You say your over her. Try to figure out if there's anything you feel she needs to know. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Strong feelings for the boss
Q. Hi everyone Last x-mas we had a company dinner, i always had a crash on my boss. we had few drinks and he asked me for a ride. He is single he so invited me inside to see the house, i went in as i was leaving he kissed me, i couldn't resist ...
A. 7 February 2009: You do know if you pursue this, you may be risking your job. But if you believe that won't happen, and you really want this. Go for it. If your rejected, deal with it. Rejection is part of life. Don't invest too much. ... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend, and it's hurting my self-esteem. What should I do?
Q. I've never had a boyfriend and have been feeling down about myself lately. Everyone tells me that I need to learn to love myself first before anyone else can love me, I feel like I do love myself. All of my friends have significant others and I'm ...
A. 6 February 2009: I totally understand what your going through. I'm in the same boat. The past few months i've been putting myself down because i was miserable. Not having a bf/gf sucks. Its no way to sugar coat it. But i understand where they're coming from when ... (read in full...)
Am I ever going to find someone to love me?
Q. I've had 4 failed relationships and all of them didn’t turn out well at all.. in the beginning it would be soo nice.. but then after a while all the phone calls would stop and it seem like am the only one tryng to make it work. trying to force them ...
A. 6 February 2009: Thing is your young. Young guys don't want to talk about feelings. Yes they may exist, but rarely do they voice them. If you want to know, don't be so up front. Beat around the bush. Lets say you want to know where you stand with guy. Don't just ... (read in full...)
I'm scared that if I'm not pregnant, he will completely leave me forever.
Q. I'm fourteen, my ex boyfriend is fifteen. We were dating for a steady three months before we broke up recently, but have always had on and off relationships prior to that. My ex boyfriend is kind of, how should i put this? a 'thug' type. He...
A. 6 February 2009: Ok..wow. First off, 9 times out of ten your pregnant. Second...your too young. Your only 14. Mama, you got your whole life a head of you. If you honestly think having a baby will help the relationship. Your wrong. I was 20 when i decided to have a ... (read in full...)
Any place I can go to be put on the pill without my mom knowing?
Q. i want to be put on the pill but i dont know how to tell me mom so i was wondering if there was any place i can go that she dont need to be there or anything...
A. 5 February 2009: Yep planned parenthood. Also you try to find a free clinic in your area. Everything is confidential. I hope everything works out well!... (read in full...)
My brother is going down on his girlfriend and he is only 13, what should I do?!?
Q. Hello If you don't want to read what fully happens, skip to the paragraph above the last sentence. I have a brother. He is 13, and has a girlfriend. My aunt visited my mom so they decided to go shopping. I was told to watch my brother...
A. 5 February 2009: Wow. I bet you were shocked. But me, I wouldn't tell my parents. I would sit down and have a talk with him. Let him know what he's doing isn't appropriate. And then if he ignores you. Then you bring in the parents.... (read in full...)
Why do guys don't want a relationship with me after sex?
Q. Never had a boyfriend and I'm 20 I feel so alone and depressed because I'm at the end of my rope. I've been kissed I've had sex with guys they never seem to want more than that from me. I watch everyone I know go through relationships: love, loss ...
A. 5 February 2009: First off...chill. I'm in the same predicament. And I know its killing you. But first you have to work on you. Work on your life, and your happiness. Just focus on bettering yourself, and I promise things will fall into place. And about the sex ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and getting bite like marks on me?
Q. As you might know im 8 weeks prego..very excited..but i have a little problem..i know during pregnancy ur body changes and all that..but i found this body change a lil weird ..i keep getting all these some bite-like bumps on my arms legs butt and ...
A. 5 February 2009: You should check your bed to make sure you don't have bed bugs. Seriously.... (read in full...)
We broke up but still sleep together does that ruin our changes for the future?
Q. Me and my sons father has been broken up for 2 years now. And before that we were together for 3 years. We split up because we just had a baby, and honestly I had too much going on in my life to focus on a relationship. But I still love him and I'm ...
A. 30 December 2008: When I say couple, I mean its just me and him. Even though we're still intimate, he has his female friends, and I have my male friends and we broke up because things were getting really crazy in our relationship. All we did was argue, even about ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my girlfriend or not?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year now, at the start of the relationship everything was great, and about 6 months into the relationship, she cheated on me with her ex, he was her first love and she says shes needed ...
A. 30 December 2008: First things first. How can she possibly get closure by sleeping with her ex? That I don't understand. If anything, it keeps the emotions flowing. That I know for a fact. And to answer your question. I think you should move on. I understand that you ... (read in full...)
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