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writes:Me and my sons father has been broken up for 2 years now. And before that we were together for 3 years. We split up because we just had a baby, and honestly I had too much going on in my life to focus on a relationship. But I still love him and I'm sure he loves me too. Even though we're not together, we're still intimate. No matter what we go through, at the end of the day. I still love and want to be with him. But I just feel we can't be together until both of us are stable. My question is: being that we're still sleeping together. Does that hurt our chances of being a couple again.
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reader, uluvme0723 +, writes (30 December 2008):
uluvme0723 is verified as being by the original poster of the question When I say couple, I mean its just me and him. Even though we're still intimate, he has his female friends, and I have my male friends and we broke up because things were getting really crazy in our relationship. All we did was argue, even about the smallest things, we decided to take a break but it ended up being a 2 year break. I'm ready to be with him but he's not ready to be with me but my main question is: Should I still be sleeping with him?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (27 December 2008):
 Continuing to sleep together actually increases the probability of getting back together, I would normally think, but based on your posting he may be messing around with one or another. There are likely other signals that you are not disclosing here. After a breakup two years ago, one might suspect that your son's father may not be enjoying your favors exclusively.
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reader, timbo +, writes (27 December 2008):
depends on what your definition of a couple is, i would say. cause you are a couple, just a shallow, unencumbered,safe,cant wake up, part time couple. quit blameing the kid. when a child come along, your "love" has to adapt to allow another in. yes the relationship changes, but it doesnt have to be for the worse. your man has to suck it up and realize hes not number one anymore but should be lucky to have a number(be part of a loving family). there ends up being more important and rewarding things in life than ones self. give the poor child a whole family, its worth it
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