Married with kids and I have a crush on my doctor!
Q. Help!!! Any advise out there about getting over a crush? I am in my forties married to the man of my dreams and have two beautiful kids but can't get my MD out of my head! I did not really like him at first but then he started flirting with me and ...
A. 6 October 2010: Yeah it needs to stop, it may be flattering to know that another guy is interested in you, but you got to respect your husband in this matter. What if he had the same thing going on, it'd be hurtful wouldn't it? What you need to do is try to ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 6 October 2010: I truelly do want to be with him for the rest of my life, and that is why I feel like I should just marry him, but we are going to be moving into a much bigger, and more of a party-type, town, and he had already stated that he will be out with ... (read in full...)
Does he need a good bye letter?
Q. I thought I met the love of my life when I went on vacation in the summer of 08. I was going through so much at the time and I took a trip to clear my head, and there he was, the same person I loved as a little girl growing up. We spoke for hours, ...
A. 1 October 2010: Wow, that is not a healthy relationship at all! What I believe that you need to do, and my answer might not be the best, is to leave, and you need to let him know why you are leaving, and to make it even clearer you should mention how he should ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 1 October 2010: I just want to say, that even though it has been a while since I had written this question, that life is going good with my man, we are doing a lot better, had a couple moments where we got into an argument over him asuming things, but over all I am ... (read in full...)
Help needed!
Q. "OPs Own Title" So I am 19 years old and I don't think that I have ever had an orgasm. I lost my virginity when I was 17 and it still all feels the same to me. Just recently though, I was having sex with my boyfriend of almost a year now and I had ...
A. 14 June 2010: Yeas, the feeling to pee is close to the feeling of almost having an orgasm- pee before sex so that you don't confuse the two possibilities.
Most women dont hit their full maturity level of orgasm until their middle to late twenties, but there are ... (read in full...)
Is this considered part of an eating disorder?
Q. okay, well this isn't a relationship question, it's on diet and I really need help from any professional or not even a professional! Anyway, basically, our end of year ball is coming up and I have a black silk dress I really want to look good in!...
A. 13 June 2010: I want you to know that not eatin will make you gain more fat- let me explain-
When you don't put energy into your body, which is calories by the way- calories arn't fat, your body will automatically store anything that gets consumed when you fina... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my insecurities about his lies about drugs and other girls?
Q. Hi everyone, im kind of new to this website and internet chatting but needed some advice. My boyfriend of a year and a half has been caught out lying to me numerous times about a drug problem that he's trying to overcome. But now i caught him out ...
A. 13 June 2010: These other girls are "Friends", right?
I would stay insecure until he proves himself to you, what kind of drugs does he do?
I have became suicidal before, and had gotton into pills- not druggy drug pills, but overdosing on such sleeping pills or... (read in full...)
What he says vs. what he does
Q. I'm in a real pickle! I dated mt ex for almost a year when he unexpectedly broke up with me saying that he felt too much "pressure" for commitment. Fast forward 7 months later (now) and we still carry on as we did before we broke up, however ...
A. 13 June 2010: Wow quiet-echo got it right on! Stay friends- only that! He seems to like you alot, but wants to have his fun, that's why he doesn't want a relationship. He keeps you near him while you're pushing away because when he is ready to have a ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 18 and we want to "explore"
Q. Heei, im sophie and im 15 i have a bf thats 18 weve been going out for a year now, we are very much in love. But we have a problem he really wants to explore with me, but we are both very worried about the age difference, could someone please give ...
A. 13 June 2010: I lost my virginty at age 15 and the age of when I did idn't bother me, it was with the person I was with. Hince the word, WAS with. He was young too, jut one to two years older than me, but sex wasn't the only thing on his mind, not all guys are ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 13 June 2010: I cheated on him in the beggining of our relationship- i wasn't in love with him but I do understand that I was in a relationship and shouldn't have persued other men.
Over 6 months after that he had found out, while our relationship was goin... (read in full...)
My girlfriend makes excuses not to have sex with me!
Q. My girlfriend and i have been together for three months now and at the first month she told me we are going to have sex in two months time and its two months and she tells me that she is not used to me and we met every single day and kisses.what ...
A. 13 June 2010: You guys have only been together for three months, yo need to wait much longer than that before you have sex, even if both of you guys believe you are ready.
Truthfully, becoming sexual at a young age may cause them to want to have more fun whil... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 13 June 2010: I have had that thought cross my mind, I told hm that he would be much better off without me, but he wants this relationship, I tell him that he would never be happy with me and he tells me that he has never been happier wih anyone as much as he is ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my love for a married man?
Q. Well, don't really know how to start. Everyone I talked to, friends and family tell me to get over him, but no one really tells me how. Here is what happened: I am 20 and I was never in a relationship. I had my crushes and a few "boyfriends", ...
A. 12 June 2010: I don't know exactly what to say about you moving on, but I do want to state that one of the reasons why he might have started to ignore you was because he started to get feelings for you also. He is a married man, and he is truelly in love with ... (read in full...)
I just found out my boyfriend lost his virginity to another girl during our break up
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up. He got with another girl and he lost his virginity with her. But then we got back together four months ago and I just found out he had sex with her. It hurt me really bad and I dont know how to feel about it. So do ...
A. 12 June 2010: As said, you guys were broken up at the time and he was free to do what he had wanted. It is sad to know that the one you're with had given up his body for someone else, and just make sure that you are with the right person before you give up your ... (read in full...)
Is this forever? Will I ever be able to trust him or anyone?
Q. So, I really don't feel that I was raised right, my mom being an alcoholic and my dad always at work. Being the only girl my two brothers have always turned to me for care and that stuff. I never really felt that I had someone there for me though. ...
A. 12 June 2010: Trust is built, you can't just decide to give someone all of it at once. You have had a hard past, I was there too. My dad was never part of the family though, and there was some, sexual problems with the guys that my mother would bring to the ... (read in full...)
He says he won't change for me
Q. I told my boyfriend if he would ever change for me and he said he'd change when he wanted to; I got upset and I told him I didn't wanna be with him if he wouldnt do that for me. his reply was how do you expect me to change when you act the way you ...
A. 12 June 2010: A person builds up their personality from the beginning of life, it's almost impossible for someone to change unless they want to change themselves.
If you force him to change, he won't, he might pretend but now he won't feel like he can be hims... (read in full...)
Single mom....AGAIN!
Q. Hello Everyone :) I'm going to get straight to it. I am 28 years old and have 3 children, and one on the way. Their father just came "back" in the picture after about 4 years of us being on and off. The first day he came back he told me how happy he ...
A. 11 June 2010: An abortion isnot an answer, h my be reaked out right now but if he wanted another baby he still has that in the back of his mind. If he's going to freak out about having baby he needs to leave the family because the baby is a part of the family ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 11 June 2010: I'll be patient,I do love him, but he will be moving to Arizona soon and wants me to go with- I don't have full faith in our relationship anymore because of all of the arguments and it's been very rocky, but I will wait and see where we're at when ... (read in full...)
Help! Married woman in love with another woman.
Q. Dear cupid, I am a married woman in love with another woman. My husband hates it and not seeing her is killing me. I love them both very much but obviously cannot make both of them happy. She was even willing to be just a side thing but he ...
A. 11 June 2010: Wen you are in a relationship you need to make sure that you ae only committed to one person. If you arn't, you need to break it off with both and wait to have a srious relationship with someone that you know you want to be with foreverand just ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 11 June 2010: Thank you- I have gave him the option of me leaving therelationship, but he wants to be with me. I want to b with him too, I just do all that I can to prove myself to him and a=I can't do anymore...
I'll give him the option again saying that I wo... (read in full...)
Who to choose? Complacent boyfriend or understanding co-worker?
Q. I'm very confused. I have an amazing boyfriend of 4+ years that treats me like a princess, loves me and whom I love dearly. However, I have been working for a fellow for about 2 years and have become very close friends with. Over the past year or so ...
A. 11 June 2010: Leave that job if you need to , and stay away frm this friend of yours. You have an amazing relationship with your boyfriend and you've been with him for so long- trust me, you will not have this chance again!!!
Stay true to your man, and if you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a girlfriend so am I being stupid?
Q. I need help. I’m in process of separation and divorce and about two years ago I meat this guy at work –we start sleeping together .I’m very much in love with him ,he told me that he loves me too but dosen't want a girlfriend. There is big difference ...
A. 11 June 2010: Truthfully, I would just start treating him like a friend- no kissing, no sex, no worrying about other women, because that's all he wants to be is a friend. He's not in love with you- obviously, and he will have the control over the relationship ... (read in full...)
This is all wonderful but what happens next?
Q. Dear Cupid, Recently I have become very close to one of my male friends, spending all breaks, lunchtimes and whatever time we have together. This has been going on for about 6 weeks. I laugh with him (and occiainsoly at him), play with h...
A. 11 June 2010: Is it just during school that you hang out with him? To make it a little more than showing him hat you're just friends, ask him if he wants to hang out after school for a little, or if he would like to go out to dinner, bring him out of the school ... (read in full...)
I'm married but curious if she's interested?
Q. So I need some help understand this woman at my bank. A couple of months ago, I went to my bank to apply to refinance my car loan. I met a woman, the lending assistant. Her name was "Susan". She has always been very friendly with me but I alwa...
A. 11 June 2010: If you are starting to get interested in her, change bank personel or banks in general- you have a wife and I'm sorry but you shouldn't be worrying if someone else is interested in you! So what if she is, you're off limits! If you keep going on ... (read in full...)
Help! I like my friend who is already in a serious relationship!
Q. Okay, so i've got this family friend who i'm really good friends with and recently i've started to like him. I only see him twice a year when our families go camping but when i do we get on really well. The only problem is he lives an hour away and ...
A. 11 June 2010: Please remain friends! Trying to get with him will ruin your friendship- he must really like he girl he's with, ad you trying to ruin that will make him want to get away from you. Relationships are a hard thing, and if they got a good one going ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried my partner watches porn?
Q. I need to get advice and other women's point of view on my current situation.... my partner watches porn and downloads videos on both the PC and his mobile, which he thinks he keeps secret from me, when i find it and confront him he lies to my fa...
A. 11 June 2010: Wow, I may be kind of young t answer this question because I've never had to deal with this, but I say that he shouldn't watchor look at porn. Give him one week to get off of it- I made my boyfriend get off of it and he did i right away. Tell him ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me but she says nothing was wrong in our relationship, what can I do to understand why this happened?
Q. Hi All My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me in december with somebody from work. As you can understand i was pretty shocked by this and am still hurting now. I asked her why she did this and she said that she didnt know why. I asked her if the...
A. 11 June 2010: I cheated on my boyfriend, almost the same asyou have, and he found out months after I did it. I must admit that we had'nt been together for three years, or even one in fact, and my love for him wasn't as strong as it had been before he found out. ... (read in full...)
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