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female
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36-40,
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writes:I'm very confused. I have an amazing boyfriend of 4+ years that treats me like a princess, loves me and whom I love dearly. However, I have been working for a fellow for about 2 years and have become very close friends with. Over the past year or so I have run into some very emotional and difficult situations and my friend was and is very understanding and compassionate, whereas my boyfriend has been more on the complacent side of things. Needless to say, I feel as though I have developed some pretty intense feelings for my friend and I truly don't know what to do with them. I love my boyfriend, we have plans for our future, he's a wonderful man, but I just can't stop thinking about what it maybe could be like with this other person. I'm losing sleep, I can't eat and I feel guilty all the time. I don't know what to do...
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reader, tmisty777 +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Leave that job if you need to , and stay away frm this friend of yours. You have an amazing relationship with your boyfriend and you've been with him for so long- trust me, you will not have this chance again!!!
Stay true to your man, and if you start having feelings towards someone ele, stay AWAY from them!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 June 2010):
Of course this other guy is understanding. And of course your boyfriend is a little complacent. That's how it always is. That's why affairs happen. But you can be sure of one thing. in a few years time, if you dumped your boyfriend, this other guy would be the same. Your boyfriend is complacent because you're not telling him straight that you need him and you are both letting this relationship go apart. He can't do anything unless you tell him straight you need him. Forget your co worker, because that will complicate matters. Focus on your relationship.
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